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   I've had it for three years. Not worth the nerves and constant hiding. As a relationship, it bothers you - you stop and spin as many lovers as you want ...

   No, only complexes do it.

   I didn't have a mistress, the slightest thing is hardly worth wasting so much energy on, constantly hiding and thinking lies. And my wife told me that if I wanted a mistress, I didn't need to hide, because she didn't mind. I didn't mind her either. We have an agreement with her that we will never have secrets from each other. We have such a strong spiritual and emotional connection that virtually sexual fidelity has lost its meaning for us. Even if we decide to do it, it will be more like a joint - threesome / swing, so that we are together in this endeavor. I know that people will not understand it and will attack me, but I assure them that most have not had such a connection, so let them not speak by heart about the specific case. And yet we have never taken advantage of our freedom. We just don't have that need. It is clearly true that sex and emotion go hand in hand. Being emotionally satisfied, you do not need sexual intercourse with another. Apparently things are lame with you there and you are looking for a solution outside, but this is unlikely to solve the problem, even more likely to lead to more problems. But the bad thing is that you don't realize it, and maybe you have to burn yourself hard to understand.

   I've always had a mistress. Sometimes two. That's how I am, that's how I feel. It's easy for me because I make my own bread, I have a non-standard working day (because I make my own norm), I earn enough, I also have land. I am convinced that others would do the same, as long as they have the opportunity. My wife? Well, she's asexual, I'm tired of praying to her and waiting for her to please. But I have a basic principle: only married women. Such in my hall. Unmarried, divorced, etc. I ignore them despite the unequivocal suggestions. If they are looking for free men, I do not want to enter into anyone's long-term plans.

   I am a 32-year-old woman. I have been married for 12 years, I married a virgin and I had no eyes for anyone else, but over time, relationships and people change. I was tired of giving and not receiving anything from my husband and we had a bunch of other problems, he had to go to work abroad. It was very difficult for me to decide not to do it like this from today to tomorrow, I found the right one and I cheated. I did not do it for revenge, to this day no one understood, it was not for diversity, my life was all sorts, but never boring, I had no material motives, my lover did not spend a penny for me, just I'm not allowed, I find it humiliating I just wanted his time and his attention. I did it only for myself, to believe in myself again and to feel like a woman again. My lover is the same case as number 4 has a wife, but only in front of people, he has to pray for sex and tenderness and most of the time he is alone. He had a lot of infidelities before me, but with singles and that played a bad joke on him, he was surprised that I didn't go crazy for him and I didn't look for him at all times, he became jealous of my husband, he wanted more and more. I got together and put an end to it, I didn't want to confuse each other, it wasn't easy at all, now we write to each other from time to time. If I had the opportunity now, I would cheat again, infidelity gives you things and emotions that you have nowhere else to get. As for my husband, he doesn't even suspect what happened, because he was far away, otherwise if he was at home he would probably feel it, but I, for my part, would not think of going to bed with another while he is waiting for me at home. My advice is if you are going to catch a lover, be careful who you stop at. First talk and clarify the details to the smallest detail, you have to have rules and follow them both. Make sure that the person is serious and that something goes wrong, everyone must keep the other's back. If you find the right one, I assure you it will be worth all the fuss and fuss, as long as you approach it carefully. Good luck!!!

   4, well, why even marry an asexual woman? 5, if you have been so lacking in attention and tired, why not just be honest and end your relationship and then look for a person with whom you will not get tired and you will not lack attention?

   The lover strengthens the relationship at home because it cheers you up and makes you happy. I also had a good period and it was nice and useful for me. It helped me understand many things about myself. An extramarital affair can be helpful as long as they don't understand you.

   How do you manage to find lovers, even two or more? I am free and I cannot find a person next to me. Where do you get this energy and time from?

   I'm number 6 and I'm waiting for an answer, but obviously I won't wait. In fact, I expected either not to receive or to receive a stupid answer. The truth is "it's easier that way", nothing at the cost of a lie. But what do we care, we scratch our scabies. This is the way of thinking of infidels. I should scratch and be fine, but the other one was lied to and with trampled dignity - a big leek.

   (8) With a question;) Where a woman said: Ask, ask. So by asking one hired my husband's wife;))

   A man of 40 - I had. She called me and was insistent. He was looking for tenderness, caress, emotion for months on end and did not give up until he received me. I'm not proud of what I did, but I'm not sorry. Just an experience - sweet and bitter at the same time. Nothing developed according to my ideas.

   6, I think you can answer for yourself ... 4 is most likely the type of men who have made their wife asexual with their attitude. If he treated his wife at least a little like a lover, her attitude would probably be different. And if not, he had to see what he was like as a person, whether he could handle her before he got married. And 5 is the type of women who are always looking for excuses for their own actions. The man went abroad to find a way to support a family, but you see only she "gave" in the relationship, so it means a green light to catch a lover. Honey, in almost every relationship, everyone thinks he's the "more giver" ... If that's what you can use to justify that you've been whining while your husband is babbling, and you don't feel any remorse ... 3, even though he doesn't want to be told "by heart" he himself speaks by heart. I would like him to write something AFTER his wife really got hired with someone and came back to share sincerely how well the other one fixed her. This does not tell me how strong a "spiritual connection" you have. You are deluding yourself, we end up living a physical life. Sex is not just a pleasure, money, children, diseases, and of course - our own ego. How will you feel if your wife finds a lover, and she feels a "spiritual connection" with him and decides to spend most of her time with him and looks at you as a roommate? What happens if you catch a sloth, drug addict, etc.? What will she do if you catch a mistress and spend your money on her budget? Otherwise, these tales of "open connection" work very well for you, while it really ... it doesn't open and you don't see practically how it works ... By that I don't mean that one should stand and endure a non-functioning connection. But it is better if it is just to stop it. But why don't you do it? Because you know that you have made it non-functional, and your next connection will give exactly the same result. But instead of thinking about why this is happening, you try to both maintain a fictitious relationship and turn aside lovers, if I can get everything like that, without making an effort for anything ... But while there are desperate people to you bond, and play one or the other role - so it will be ... In my opinion, no self-respecting person wants to be cheated on and would prefer to just tell him and end the relationship. Catching a lover is the highest form of selfishness to keep both the tame and the chased wild. This is not to say that one should stand and endure a dysfunctional relationship. But it is better if it is just to stop it. But why don't you do it? Because you know that you have made it non-functional, and your next connection will give exactly the same result. But instead of thinking about why this is happening, you try to both maintain a fictitious relationship and turn aside lovers, if I can get everything like that, without making an effort for anything ... But while there are desperate people to you bond, and play one or the other role - so it will be ... In my opinion, no self-respecting person wants to be cheated on and would prefer to just tell him and end the relationship. Catching a lover is the highest form of selfishness to keep both the tame and the wild. By this I do not mean that one should stand and endure a dysfunctional relationship. But it is better if it is just to stop it. But why don't you do it? Because you know that you have made it non-functional, and your next connection will give exactly the same result. But instead of thinking about why this is happening, you try to both maintain a fictitious relationship and turn away lovers, if I can get everything like that, without making an effort for anything ... But while there are desperate people to you bond, and play one or the other role - so it will be ... In my opinion, no self-respecting person wants to be cheated on and would prefer to just tell him and end the relationship. Catching a lover is the highest form of selfishness to keep both the tame and the wild. But it is better if it is just to stop it. But why don't you do it? Because you know that you have made it non-functional, and your next connection will give exactly the same result. But instead of thinking about why this is happening, you try to both maintain a fictitious relationship and turn away lovers, if I can get everything like that, without making an effort for anything ... But while there are desperate people to you bond, and play one or the other role - so it will be ... In my opinion, no self-respecting person wants to be cheated on and would prefer to just tell him and end the relationship. Catching a lover is the highest form of selfishness to keep both the tame and the wild. But it is better if it is just to stop it. But why don't you do it? Because you know that you have made it non-functional, and your next connection will give exactly the same result. But instead of thinking about why this is happening, you try to both maintain a fictitious relationship and turn away lovers, if I can get everything like that, without making an effort for anything ... But while there are desperate people to you bond, and play one or the other role - so it will be ... In my opinion, no self-respecting person wants to be cheated on and would prefer to just tell him and end the relationship. Catching a lover is the highest form of selfishness to keep both the tame and the wild. and your next link will give exactly the same result. But instead of thinking about why this is happening, you try to both maintain a fictitious relationship and turn away lovers, if I can get everything like that, without making an effort for anything ... But while there are desperate people to you bond, and play one or the other role - so it will be ... In my opinion, no self-respecting person wants to be cheated on and would prefer to just tell him and end the relationship. Catching a lover is the highest form of selfishness to keep both the tame and the wild. and your next link will give exactly the same result. But instead of thinking about why this is happening, you try to both maintain a fictitious relationship and turn away lovers, if I can get everything like that, without making an effort for anything ... But while there are desperate people to you bond, and play one or the other role - so it will be ... In my opinion, no self-respecting person wants to be cheated on and would prefer to just tell him and end the relationship. Catching a lover is the highest form of selfishness to keep both the tame and the wild. But as long as there are desperate people to bond with you and play one or the other role - so be it ... In my opinion, no self-respecting person wants to be cheated on and would prefer to just tell him and end the relationship. Catching a lover is the highest form of selfishness to keep both the tame and the wild. But as long as there are desperate people to bond with you and play one or the other role - so be it ... In my opinion, no self-respecting person wants to be cheated on and would prefer to just tell him and end the relationship. Catching a lover is the highest form of selfishness to keep both the tame and the wild.

   3 to 12 you may be right, I'm not arguing. I accept the criticism.

   Number 6, I'm number 5, I didn't answer you right away, I hadn't been on the site for a long time. The author has asked a question and I answer it. I don't know exactly what I grabbed your attention with, numbers 1, 4 also cheated, but you don't ask them anything. However, I will answer you: there are many details with which, if you are not familiar, it is better not to comment. I didn't end it and I wasn't honest with him because he didn't care what I did and how I felt. For a while we didn't talk about anything but the children, I realized that he also cheated on me systematically. And on number 12 I will say that my husband had gone abroad not to support his family but to pay his debts, which he had accumulated from gambling and alcohol. We are left alone with two children to think about everything. I'm not looking for an excuse for anything, I just had a weak moment and gave in and I was wrong. And if you've never cheated, you can't say it's the easiest, believe me it's not easy at all. It is easy to abandon marriage and children, to get up and leave at the slightest problem. It's hard to stay up to a person who has hurt and disappointed you countless times and try to regain your faith in him and your relationship. To solve and overcome your problems together, even after infidelity.

   From number 6 14, thanks for the answer. As far as I understand, you really have no connection. Everyone is for themselves, not interested in the other, cheating on each other and even living separately. Correct me if I didn't understand correctly. In fact, why are you still married at all, and not divorced, and why do you think that in this case you should "stay by, a man who has hurt and disappointed you countless times"? Just don't say it because of the kids, because since he's abroad and you're separated anyway, what's the use for the kids?

   I am 14. The truth is that since he is not with us and I, the children, we are better off, we live more peacefully. It is harvested every few months for a week. You have no idea how hard it was for me to admit that I didn't miss him at all. As I said, we already live in a small town and here divorced women are not looked at with good eyes. I do not dare to do this, once a divorced woman is considered a second quality. For now, it is unknown how this suits me in the future. And I don't care about going to lawyers and courts, I think it's only a matter of time before we break up once and for all.

   16, to me, your case is not exactly infidelity, because you are really separated. You just don't have a formal divorce. By the way 4 I also asked him, but nut.

   I am 16 I know that everyone who hears the word infidelity imagines something base and humiliating. This may be due to the fact that there are many women and men who do it for fun and variety out of whim and even out of stupidity. Some time ago, when I heard about the infidelity, I responded. I want to tell everyone that just as there are different people, different relationships, so there are different infidelities. There are some such different maaalko on intelligent, thoughtful and necessary extramarital affairs. All judges and moralists speak by heart and repeat the same phrases "why with a lie and deception, but why don't you divorce, but why don't you tell the truth, but why do you hurt, why do you trample on your dignity, etc.?". And do they realize that the given person, before deciding, asked them a million times himself and maybe he found an answer to each of them. Infidelity gave me strength and courage to continue in a difficult moment, made me believe that I was still up for something / before that my husband kept telling me - you are not so beautiful, who would look at you? /. It made me wake up kind of and finally think of myself as a woman. So whoever wants to judge and criticize me, I do not pay opinion tax. As long as you are careful and know what you are doing and have a serious person from a date to cheat, you do not regret it. At least in my case it is. As long as you are careful and know what you are doing and have a serious person from a date to cheat, you do not regret it. At least in my case it is. As long as you are careful and know what you are doing and have a serious person from a date to cheat, you do not regret it. At least in my case it is.

   I would only cheat if his libido had dropped, and if I was married.

   19, you know you've been married for 30 years, your husband gets upset and his libido drops and I immediately jumped into someone else's bed? Or he experiences stress, or his hormones get upset, or he gets sick, or he works a lot, or his loved one dies, or something there, as a result of which his libido drops and you immediately screw up everything built for years and start rolling with someone, without showing a little understanding?

   20, just in case his libido drops. Not there for serious reasons, I wouldn't fuck him like that, I would show him understanding. But just if he doesn't have sex like that, and I do, I'll get another one.

   Number 20, it can be asked the question, if one partner's libido dies, does this mean that the sexual life of the other ends? Grandpa Torbalan

   21, what does it mean out of nowhere? It has a reason for everything. Many people lose libido with age. Maybe yours will fall. Does that mean he has to run after whores? 22, my question is not to you. You owe me an apology.

   20, yes, I agree that there is always a reason for the loss of libido and I clarified that I would not abandon it for serious reasons, because I have also experienced these moments. I write about a person who just doesn't have sex without any serious reasons and I think there is one, I know, it's weird even for this person who doesn't have sex without any serious reasons. I read recently here, topic or comment what it was. Well, if my libido drops (I hope not), at least I know that it is possible for him to cheat on me, but this is not a problem for me, because the desire for sex is a normal thing at all. I think Grandpa Torbalan has understood enough what I mean or am I wrong? :)

   24, most men lose libido after a certain age and / or become impotent. And Viagra leads to a heart attack. Is this "out of nowhere"?

   Number 19, I think I understand you very well. There are enough examples of how one in a relationship loses his libido, but he is bored and does not care enough to take action. And it's not that hard. Sports, proper nutrition, foods rich in testosterone, avoiding stress, alcohol and cigarettes. But it's so much easier to drink one or two beers on the couch instead of working out in the gym! I think that if I permanently lose my libido and my wife still wants to have sex, it would be fair to get it. If one loses his teeth, should the other start eating only soup? Number 23, I don't owe you anything. Just as you have the right to ask a question to whomever you want, so I have the right to do the same. But you can't get away from answering me. Grandpa Torbalan

   "You owe me an apology" are your words in other topics. You are hypocritical again. Everyone owes you everything, and you owe nothing to anyone.

   Number 27, they owed me an apology for talking a lot of nonsense about me, catching an elementary troll. I have nothing to apologize to you for, because I don't remember being unfair to you. And you still can't get away from answering my question. Tell me about hypocrisy: D Grandpa Torbalan

   And the troll has the right to write to himself, and you can call the people "Taliban" and impose your opinion on every topic, and people should be attached to the troll, and the mods should (dis) approve or at least not owe you an apology. By the way, if your wife falls in love with her trampoline, you will sing another song. When it's not on your head, it's easy to trust and speak by heart.

   "Number 20, it can also be asked the question, if one partner's libido dies, does that mean the other's sex life is over?" I'm not number 20, but I'm interested in where this concept of "sex life" came from, is it a parallel life? : D I see sex as a (variable) part of life, not as a kind of life. If the relationship is between mature people, they should be clear in advance that sex will thin out over time, and if they stick to their relationship, they will compromise through masturbation. If they are going to cheat on each other, without trust the relationship becomes meaningless and it is just a compromise not to be alone, even with someone who is annoying you. I have seen many such families - they eat like dogs, but do not separate because it is too late for a new relationship and they prefer the familiar, even if it is bad.

   24, I don't think that most men have a loss of libido, rather the opposite - so I see that men want sex, and women do not. But anyway, it's different for different people, some of them lose their libido for sure, others repel their partners and a bunch of other reasons ... exactly Grandpa Torbalan understood what I meant and I completely agree with him. And you have to ask someone else about Viagra, because I am not competent in this topic, nor have I been with a person who has tried this thing.

   If it is for 1-2 times it is possible, but I would not have a mistress in any case.

   up to 30 apparently some "people" have not yet outgrown their animal instincts and sex for them is an end in itself and is on the principle of "either you let me or I'm looking for a whore."

   to 31 never answered the question of man, namely impotence due to old age for "out of nowhere" counts? And if you are skinny or overweight and no longer wants you, is it "out of nowhere" again?

   There is a huge difference between "falling libido" and "ugly partner";))

   Bagging, not always food, fitness and I do not know what helps libido, and not everyone has an end in itself. For example, when my wife gave birth, I went to work, there was no one to help her, we have no grandmothers, etc. and she was mad. The little one didn't want to suckle, she had to strain all over, she didn't sleep separately, she was jealous and in general my wife hardly slept and the last one was dirty. Separately, during the pregnancy there was also no desire, so for about 3 years I almost did not have sex with her and I know what happened to me. And according to you, I should have told her "sorry, woman, but you don't let go, you don't have libido, you have to eat some food between the care of OUR child and the sleepless nights and go to the gym to fuck you, but you and that you don't, so I'll leave you alone at night to go fuck your neighbor "You love to frame life and impose your opinion, but the world is not limited to your limited ideas. And not everyone has the same attitude towards sex and infidelity. Some, for example, may have agreed in advance that if one loses libido during one time, this does not justify infidelity because there is masturbation, sex toys, etc. Because for them, trust and relationships can have a higher priority than instinct. And for some people, these are directly related things. But if you think sex and libido should be the number one priority and anyone who doesn't think so is a Taliban, so be it. You are an erotic "writer" and you are the most "competent" of all. But you don't realize you've fallen victim to the Dunning-Krueger effect. Some, for example, may have agreed in advance that if one loses libido during one time, this does not justify infidelity because there is masturbation, sex toys, etc. Because for them, trust and relationships can have a higher priority than instinct. And for some people, these are directly related things. But if you think sex and libido should be the number one priority and anyone who doesn't think so is a Taliban, so be it. You are an erotic "writer" and you are the most "competent" of all. But you don't realize you've fallen victim to the Dunning-Krueger effect. Some, for example, may have agreed in advance that if one loses libido during one time, this does not justify infidelity because there is masturbation, sex toys, etc. Because for them, trust and relationships can have a higher priority than instinct. And for some people, these are directly related things. But if you think sex and libido should be the number one priority and anyone who doesn't think so is a Taliban, so be it. You are an erotic "writer" and you are the most "competent" of all. But you don't realize you've fallen victim to the Dunning-Krueger effect. But if you think sex and libido should be the number one priority and anyone who doesn't think so is a Taliban, so be it. You are an erotic "writer" and you are the most "competent" of all. But you don't realize you've fallen victim to the Dunning-Krueger effect. But if you think sex and libido should be the number one priority and anyone who doesn't think so is a Taliban, so be it. You are an erotic "writer" and you are the most "competent" of all. But you don't realize you've fallen victim to the Dunning-Krueger effect.

   Number 29, I call "Taliban" people who behave as such. How else can I call someone who talks about the value of a human being like trading a camel? You ask a reasonable question. What is the danger of him / her falling in love? It is strictly individual, but in my opinion, if the ONLY thing that is missing is sex, the risk is minimal. It seems to me that accumulating dissatisfaction for ten years is a much bigger bomb. By the way, you don't have to get there. Libido can be stimulated, and impotence is often treatable. It's just that the person with a dropped libido doesn't understand what the person with a high lid wants so much. Grandpa Torbalan

   34, and so what to answer the man's question, as I have nothing to say about impotence, nor has my libido dropped like that over time. I'm not old enough to say, and I guessed what could happen that if my libido drops ... I can't afford to gain weight, because I support myself. I am writing about a man who does not just have sex and the reasons are not in his wife.

   to 37, well, thanks for the reply. And in the example above (with my wife) what do you think I should have done? And if she writhes looking at our child, and I'm tired of having sex, isn't it a little ... how to say ... childish and selfish? If you agree that I had to be patient, then I am right that you put things in a frame and do not accept that there are different situations and that your understandings are not universal. If you do not agree, then you think too immature and elementary for me and do not show understanding. I emphasize that we are talking about people who have understood that sex is infidelity and does not tolerate the libido of the other. I know that for you this is an ultra mega giga hyper Taliban jihadist mujahideen and native, but such are our understandings of us congested people (not all of us can be as broad-minded and elevated as you, forgive me for that) and so we agreed and agreed in advance. at 39 you started chirping. First you say that if his libido drops, if he stops having sex, you are cheating. Now you didn't know, there was no question, and there was no way to gain weight. There is a way to gain weight. At 20-30 it's one in 50, not 60-thirds, no matter how hard you try. And not just to gain weight, but to wear. Here is a concrete and clear question - you have been married to him for 30 years, he has become 60 and becomes impotent and cannot be cured, and you don't fuck with two. What are you doing? And - you are cheating. B - you are patient and self-satisfied. A or B? In particular, I can not. If you're kidding now, you know. there was no question, and there was no way to gain weight. There is a way to gain weight. At 20-30 it's one in 50, not 60-thirds, no matter how hard you try. And not just to gain weight, but to wear. Here is a concrete and clear question - you have been married to him for 30 years, he has become 60 and becomes impotent and cannot be cured, and you don't fuck with two. What are you doing? And - you are cheating. B - you tolerate and masturbate. A or B? In particular, I can not. If you're kidding now, you know. there was no question, and there was no way to gain weight. There is a way to gain weight. At 20-30 it's one in 50, not 60-thirds, no matter how hard you try. And not just to gain weight, but to wear. Here is a concrete and clear question - you have been married to him for 30 years, he has turned 60 and is becoming impotent and cannot be cured, and you don't fuck with two. What are you doing? And - you are cheating. B - you are patient and self-satisfied. A or B? In particular, I can not. If you're kidding now, you know. B - you tolerate and masturbate. A or B? In particular, I can not. If you're kidding now, you know. B - you are patient and self-satisfied. A or B? In particular, I can not. If you're kidding now, you know.

   Number 30, why compromise with self-satisfaction? If Pena has lost her libido, will she lose her temper from a blowjob? And if Woote doesn't like the plum guard, won't he have fingers, tongue and items from the sex shop? Number 36, Dunning-Krueger's biggest victims are those who quote him. You're talking about some temporary declines in sexual frequency. For me, the longest period is 7 months. I had to change shifts, but at least once or twice a week my wife had virtual sex, entirely on her initiative. You say you haven't had sex in 3 years. I have three children and I can't believe your wife couldn't take twice a week for a 15 minute whistle. By the way, you mention the solution. Not masturbation, I do not consider it satisfactory, namely toys. I have a colleague who, in addition to being an unenviable size, also suffers from premature ejaculation. Understand, his record is 2 minutes. However, he bought an arsenal with which he could open a porn studio. And he could use his tongue if his wife was trusted. Grandpa Torbalan

   39, I answered what I would do. And so some misunderstandings seem to continue. I write about one and some about others (serious reasons) and still continue?

   "I have three children and I can't believe your wife couldn't take twice a week for a 15 minute whistle." Here you go again and deliberately avoid the answer in your typical style, you couldn't believe it. Well, there is a difference from child to child and you know it very well, but you saw that it was buried and you don't answer specifically. Just because your kids are like that doesn't mean mine are either. Nor does it mean that my wife is like yours. Everyone reacts differently to stress. Yes, it would be torture for her to give a whistle if she didn't want to. But you couldn't admit that your views weren't universal, so you made him think that we should all be like you and a woman, because you're some kind of supreme role model, right? You are clear to me. He buried himself again with his general conclusions. I have nothing more to tell you, everything became clear to me. You just want to be right, even with the price. If for me you were a man on the spot and your answer would be on the spot, not "but I don't believe", "but this - but that" I tell you how things are, but he saw that you bury yourself - "but he doesn't believe because if my 3 children are like that, then all the few hundred million in the world can't be otherwise ". And if you really pity him, then so much is your mind. Good day!

   41, we found out about the serious reasons, but did not write the incurable impotence is it a serious enough reason? So first you write a definite opinion that if they deprive you of sex - you are cheating. Then you write that you haven't had impotence, but so far your libido hasn't dropped, you didn't know. So first you are categorical, then when they ask you, you are already chic. So for me you either write without thinking that things are not unambiguous, or you just don't know exactly what you want and you write by heart. My advice is to think a little before you write. Or write after it comes to your mind. So only in theory and then with chirping is not serious. No need to answer me anymore. I understood enough.

   Don't get attached to Grandpa Torbalan. We call such people in our region a "bag of wit". Luff - choke, benefit - nope. ;))

   44, that's right. This is popular. Its scientific name is the Dunning-Kruger effect. Here is the picture that describes the effect briefly, accurately and clearly. https://bg.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ефект_на_Дунинг-Крюгер#/media/File:Mr_Pipo_Dunning_kruger.svg The picture is fun and worth seeing. In short - who does not see beyond his nose and has a small brain, his mouth is very tight and he thinks about a big job, because he does not have the capacity to even assess his level realistically.

   Number 42: your views are not universal Number 42: I tell you how things are How much tolerance for other people's opinion, I will take note. I don't know who is digging deep into your head and how much, but it seems to me that I have had a conversation with you on another occasion. Didn't I tell you then that I don't agree with people when they're wrong? Grandpa Torbalan

   OK fine. You repeat my words like a parrot, you don't answer specifically and you climb up with "I don't believe so". If you think you're right, you should have had a real argument and answered specifically, not by feeling dumbfounded to parrot and say you didn't believe. You are a weak speaker. Your last post only confirms that you cannot defend your thesis. And the last time he got stuck, he did the same thing, just to write something and not come up with nothing to say. Only now he didn't really say anything. Well, if you don't, I'm retiring as a winner. When you answer my specific question without hesitation, call me. But you can't.

   Number 47, are you able to formulate your question concisely and clearly? I obviously missed it, amid the avalanche of high school jokes about "clogging" and "burying." Grandpa Torbalan

   "Number 30, why compromise with self-masturbation? If Pena has lost her libido, will she lose her temper from a blowjob? And if Woote doesn't like the plum, fingers, tongue and sex shop items?" that blowjobs and the others listed do not belong to sex? So you call Pena and Vute their libido dropped just for e .. net, but otherwise they have a libido for oral activities and messing around in the holes? : D

   By # 4-, aren't you worried that you might eat the tree from one of the affected spouses, who also regulate their day themselves - they can pull out a bigger ... jeep than you, who knows? To # 5 - sorry, but when I read your scriptures, to be honest, I'm starting to feel a little sick ... Your husband has suffered from addictions - as you say - gambling and alcohol - and as a reward he gets an unfaithful woman to put him to sleep .. It's like a horror movie ... Where is the understanding and support for it? They are gone, you are interested in finding a tramp, with an excuse, with which you can skillfully hide and lie ... That you are and allow yourself to give advice on how to break up? You are supposedly wrong - and what, do you repent, do you ask for forgiveness, how, whom, did you not ruin your husband? In infidelity, it is very characteristic to shift the blame - because remorse is serious, lying itself, especially for a long period of time, it literally damages the psyche of the liar / liar, and they begin to invent all sorts of excuses, to try in every way to get rid of the unbearable guilt for them. Living with such a person is extremely traumatic, one because of fidelity, the second - because of attempts to shift the blame. It's like the worst nightmares coming true and I don't wish it on anyone. May God be there and help such poor souls to be healed ... I just don't know what else to say ... It's like the worst nightmares coming true and I don't wish it on anyone. May God be there and help such poor souls to be healed ... I just don't know what else to say ... It's like the worst nightmares coming true and I don't wish it on anyone. May God be there and help such poor souls to be healed ... I just don't know what else to say ...