Hello. I am a 13 year old girl. I am writing for the second time and this I hope will be the last. It's about my parents. You will probably say here that it is normal that I am at that age and things like that. I don't think the problem is mine, but first listen to my story. I live in an extremely hostile family and sometimes I wonder if they really wanted me. My mother is extremely ambitious, sometimes quite aggressive and irritable. If something is not on her screams, he insults with rather obscene words about his mother and reaches out. She had hit her finger once and said it was my fault. My grandmother is the same as my mother, only much more hypocritical. Most of all she likes to eavesdrop and praise how smart my mother was. My grandfather does not take part in the family because he seems to see what snakes they are. It works a lot. He thinks the best solution is to keep quiet. My father likes to beat me the most, and if they are not quarreling with mom, then she also takes part. Everything is mixed with a lot of insulting words, which I intend not to write. Here is my story. From an early age, my mother and I had to chase my father at night. She would leave me in my pajamas on the sidewalk and chase him back. She went to banquets until 1, 2 at night, and I waited for her at home and asked about her. I remember once being locked in a room for 1 hour, and she didn't even bother to see where her child was. The same thing happened when I was pinned by the jacket hanger. My grandmother, who basically made me go to bed, did not tell me stories, but told me that if I did not fall asleep immediately, a witch would take me. Since I was 4 months old, my grandmother has started taking care of me. I had no friends at school because I was too shy. I constantly had sixes with which I tried to attract someone's attention at home, but without success.
Mom only talked about herself and didn't say a word about anyone else. Everything I wanted, like a book, a dress, or something else, I saved for breakfast by telling my friends I wasn't hungry. If I asked them to buy it, they would just laugh in my face. I love books and I can proudly call myself a book rat while my mother tried to distract me from it. My teachers praised me, but apparently she wasn't so happy. My father has a habit of breaking everything in his path, and that doesn't rule me out. Sometimes, when I manage to hide in the room, he screams and bangs outside. I remember once, as always, when they quarreled and beat me, I couldn't catch my breath, my mother interpreted it as a sign that I was looking for attention and she laughed at me. I remember how she tried to hit me, so I defended myself and pushed her away. After an hour of roaring, how I beat her, insulted her, and Grandma called, even though she was the one who literally spat in my face. We are now in temporary difficulty with money and this is an additional reason for harassment. If anyone can give me advice on how to approach them and what to do I will be very grateful. Thank you for reading and taking the time to read my story.
1 gene_inabottle answered
If there is a way, grab your luggage with your grandfather and move! These are really not normal family relationships! However, if he insists that you remain silent, you must turn to the social services, because you cannot live in this hostile environment for another 5 years, dear child. You will definitely be better off in a foster family than in this pathetic semblance of one!