Hello! I hope they upload my story because I really need advice. I recently became quite close with a girl and we became inseparable. I feel very close to her and I can share everything with her. In the beginning we got along very well, but lately we fight quite often. In principle, neither I nor she are angry about all sorts of nonsense. But once she made me lie to her parents, and I'm very much against it. I'm not going to tell the story because it's very long, but she really made a big mistake because she fled to another city and she hadn't even told me. Eventually I started looking for contact with her friends and found out exactly where she had gone. When she came home, I was furious and I didn't look for her for days, and she didn't look for me. But the heart does not ask for a head, one day I looked for it, but alas there is no answer. I wrote to her for days and finally she decided to answer me and told me, that so far she has been offended by me for something else. Anyway, then we got better. Then we quarreled a few more times and of course I kept looking for her because I couldn't stand being without her, even though it was still her fault. And now again the same problems, we quarreled for great stupidity, but I promised myself not to look for her this time. It's been a week and she can't think of me. I don't know what to do, I care about her and I love her very much, but she does a lot of stupid things and in the end she doesn't admit her mistake about them and someone else should always look for her. I wonder if she cares about me at all ... Is she dumb, just like me now. Advise me what to do? Should I apologize to her again or wait? Is she a friend of mine at all if she never looks for me, I know it's stupid and childish .. I also know that there is no friendship without quarrels, but .. Then we quarreled a few more times and of course I kept looking for her because I couldn't stand being without her, even though it was still her fault. And now again the same problems, we quarreled for great stupidity, but I promised myself not to look for her this time. It's been a week and she can't think of me. I don't know what to do, I care about her and I love her very much, but she does a lot of stupid things and in the end she doesn't admit her mistake about them and someone else should always look for her. I wonder if she cares about me at all ... Is she dumb, just like me now. Advise me what to do? Should I apologize to her again or wait? Is she a friend of mine at all if she never looks for me, I know it's stupid and childish .. I also know that there is no friendship without quarrels, but .. Then we quarreled a few more times and of course I kept looking for her because I couldn't stand being without her, even though it was still her fault. And now again the same problems, we quarreled for great stupidity, but I promised myself not to look for her this time. It's been a week and she can't think of me. I don't know what to do, I care about her and I love her very much, but she does a lot of stupid things and in the end she doesn't admit her mistake about them and someone else should always look for her. I wonder if she cares about me at all ... Is she dumb, just like me now. Advise me what to do? Should I apologize to her again or wait? Is she a friend of mine at all if she never looks for me, I know it's stupid and childish .. I also know that there is no friendship without quarrels, but .. although it was still her fault. And now again the same problems, we quarreled for great stupidity, but I promised myself not to look for her this time. It's been a week and she can't think of me. I don't know what to do, I care about her and I love her very much, but she does a lot of stupid things and in the end she doesn't admit her mistake about them and someone else should always look for her. I wonder if she cares about me at all ... Is she dumb, just like me now. Advise me what to do? Should I apologize to her again or wait? Is she a friend of mine at all if she never looks for me, I know it's stupid and childish .. I also know that there is no friendship without quarrels, but .. although it was still her fault. And now again the same problems, we quarreled for great stupidity, but I promised myself not to look for her this time. It's been a week and she can't think of me. I don't know what to do, I care about her and I love her very much, but she does a lot of stupid things and in the end she doesn't admit her mistake about them and someone else should always look for her. I wonder if she cares about me at all ... Is she dumb, just like me now. Advise me what to do? Should I apologize to her again or wait? Is she my girlfriend at all if she never looks for me, I know it's stupid and childish .. I also know that there is no friendship without quarrels, but .. but she does great nonsense and in the end does not admit her mistake for them, and another must always look for her. I wonder if she cares about me at all ... Is she dumb, just like me now. Advise me what to do? Should I apologize to her again or wait? Is she a friend of mine at all if she never looks for me, I know it's stupid and childish .. I also know that there is no friendship without quarrels, but .. but she does great nonsense and in the end does not admit her mistake for them, and another must always look for her. I wonder if she cares about me at all ... Is she dumb, just like me now. Advise me what to do? Should I apologize to her again or wait? Is she my girlfriend at all if she never looks for me, I know it's stupid and childish .. I also know that there is no friendship without quarrels, but ..
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Frequent quarrels in a friendship are not normal, let alone the fact that your "girlfriend" blames you for everything and does not admit your mistakes. At the risk of offending you, the young lady in question apparently contacted you in the beginning while she was interesting to her, but she no longer wants to communicate with you and ignores you. I know how bad it is to lose a friend, but you don't need people like that. It is best to focus on people who will appreciate you and take you seriously, she let her break her head.