Problems With A Teenager During A Divorce

For many reasons, my divorce has been dragging on for a year. During this time I take care of my children, a boy of 14 and a girl of 16, almost alone. I am at work almost all week and I don't have much time left for them. My husband does a lot of nonsense in front of the children in order to hate me, as he puts it. He constantly insults me, threatens me, etc. The children are confused and obviously want more. Thus, towards the end of last year, it was established that the boy hardly went to school. He shuts himself in, forever at the games in front of the computer and doesn't want to talk about it. He promised to go, followed by a bunch of conversations with a classmate, school psychologists, the principal, prohibitions, punishments, and whatever we could think of but didn't. He finished the year with exams. Now in the summer he started to be late with the explanation that it was still light at 9 pm and he was returning home at around 10.30 pm. He got together with arrogant and impudent friends and started trying to set conditions for me and to be arbitrary. Again a bunch of conversations and punishments followed and the effect is temporary. His father wanted us to separate them and for him to get rights for one, but not for him to look after him and his parents so that there would be someone to exercise control and study. He started accusing me that because of me the children would fail and continued with the insults. I did not agree, but at one point I began to think, seeing that I could not handle the situation. His parents are conscious people and will do everything possible for the children. Two days ago, the little one did another stupid thing. He went out in the middle of the night and, despite my ringing, when I felt it, he turned off his phone and did not return until morning. I know they're going to play games with a friend, but I was very worried. In the morning I decided to send it to my husband's parents, because I obviously can't do it, and I don't want the child to fail. I want to clarify that this issue has been discussed with the child all summer, so he knew that there was such an option. It depended on him, more precisely on his behavior, where he would be. Today we told him / because his father is here / about our decision and although I know that this is the best decision at the moment, it is very difficult for me. I don't know if he will adapt there. He goes to a smaller town but to a better school. I'm worried. His father won't be there because he lives and works in another city. I don't know if he won't start doing the same tricks there. Now the only thing I will fight for is the rights to remain with me and if something fails to get it back to me. Am I doing the right thing Is there anyone else with a similar problem to share their experience? because I obviously can't do it, and I don't want the child to fail. I want to clarify that this issue has been discussed with the child all summer, so he knew that there was such an option. It depended on him, more precisely on his behavior, where he would be. Today we told him / because his father is here / about our decision and although I know that at the moment this is the best decision, it is very difficult for me. I don't know if he will adapt there. He goes to a smaller town but to a better school. I'm worried. His father won't be there because he lives and works in another city. I don't know if he won't start doing the same tricks there. Now the only thing I will fight for is the rights to remain with me and if something fails to get it back to me. Am I doing the right thing? Is there anyone else with a similar problem to share their experience? because I obviously can't do it, and I don't want the child to fail. I want to clarify that this issue has been discussed with the child all summer, so he knew that there was such an option. It depended on him, more precisely on his behavior, where he would be. Today we told him / because his father is here / about our decision and although I know that at the moment this is the best decision, it is very difficult for me. I don't know if he will adapt there. He goes to a smaller town but to a better school. I'm worried. His father won't be there because he lives and works in another city. I don't know if he won't start doing the same numbers there. Now the only thing I will fight for is the rights to remain with me and if something fails to get it back to me. Am I doing the right thing? Is there anyone else with a similar problem to share their experience? I want to clarify that this issue has been discussed with the child all summer, so he knew that there was such an option. It depended on him, more precisely on his behavior, where he would be. Today we told him / because his father is here / about our decision and although I know that at the moment this is the best decision, it is very difficult for me. I don't know if he will adapt there. He goes to a smaller town but to a better school. I'm worried. His father won't be there because he lives and works in another city. I don't know if he won't start doing the same numbers there. Now the only thing I will fight for is the rights to remain with me and if something fails to get it back to me. Am I doing the right thing? Is there anyone else with a similar problem to share their experience? I want to clarify that this issue has been discussed with the child all summer, so he knew that there was such an option. It depended on him, more precisely on his behavior, where he would be. Today we told him / because his father is here / about our decision and although I know that this is the best decision at the moment, it is very difficult for me. I don't know if he will adapt there. He goes to a smaller town but to a better school. I'm worried. His father won't be there because he lives and works in another city. I don't know if he won't start doing the same tricks there. Now the only thing I will fight for is the rights to remain with me and if something fails to get it back to me. Am I doing the right thing? Is there anyone else with a similar problem to share their experience? Today we told him / because his father is here / about our decision and although I know that this is the best decision at the moment, it is very difficult for me. I don't know if he will adapt there. He goes to a smaller town but to a better school. I'm worried. His father won't be there because he lives and works in another city. I don't know if he won't start doing the same tricks there. Now the only thing I will fight for is the rights to remain with me and if something fails to get it back to me. Am I doing the right thing? Is there anyone else with a similar problem to share their experience? Today we told him / because his father is here / about our decision and although I know that at the moment this is the best decision, it is very difficult for me. I don't know if he will adapt there. He goes to a smaller town but to a better school. I'm worried. His father won't be there because he lives and works in another city. I don't know if he won't start doing the same numbers there. Now the only thing I will fight for is the rights to remain with me and if something fails to get it back to me. Am I doing the right thing? Is there anyone else with a similar problem to share their experience? I don't know if he won't start doing the same numbers there. Now the only thing I will fight for is the rights to remain with me and if something fails to get it back to me. Am I doing the right thing? Is there anyone else with a similar problem to share their experience? I don't know if he won't start doing the same tricks there. Now the only thing I will fight for is the rights to remain with me and if something fails to get it back to me. Am I doing the right thing? Is there anyone else with a similar problem to share their experience?