Hello! I have been a divorced mother for years. I live with my 16-year-old daughter. I'm worried about her - she's not going anywhere this summer. And almost every night, when I get home from work, we fight. The thing that makes me even sadder is that he hits me and throws objects. Let me be touched and turn blue. That's why I'm ashamed to wear T-shirts. This aggression in her worries me. She is clean - does not smoke and does not accept doping. In my fright, I even threatened her with the police. When I ask her why she behaves like this every day, she yells at me that I hated her, I was constantly annoyed with her, I was cold and she felt like an empty place, but I don't think that's a reason to behave like that. She also told me she hated me. Immediately after the quarrels, he came to apologize to me and said that when he was angry he could not recognize himself. I don't think I'm doing anything wrong. I see myself in a miracle. Can you show me if I'm wrong? Should we go to a psychologist or in social straight? Give me some advice, please, it is very difficult for me.
1 jerujiemas answered
You've spoiled it to the extreme and now you're paying for it. There is no respect or esteem. For her, you are a servant and a slave, obliged to give her money. This is only the beginning.