Hi, I'm a boy and I'm 15 years old, from a big city. I have a problem with girls. For starters, I've never had a boyfriend. Maybe it doesn't seem like a big deal to you, and I didn't think it was. However, I've recently started to wonder if I'll ever get caught? Until about a year ago, I was afraid to talk to girls. Then a girl came and I liked her very much. I decided to tell her. Well, she didn't like me, but it didn't matter. Since then, I thought there was nowhere worse to go, so I'm not afraid to talk to girls anymore. I've been to strangers a few times and asked them about Facebook, etc. (and I always just take their Facebook and then nothing happens). However, in general I see girls very often and I want to go and talk to them. However, somehow I think that when they look at me and they already think a lot of bad things about me. I'm not ashamed to talk to them, the problem is that 99% of the cases don't make sense because I either don't like them or they have boyfriends or they like someone else. I constantly write to girls on Facebook and Instagram, but in most cases I look like some desperate guy who doesn't talk to people and at best I'll get a new girlfriend. However, I want more than just friendship. I want a girl next to me, to hug her, to talk, to laugh at my stupid jokes. However, it does not work. When I try to sound confident, I am considered a bastard. When I try to help with something, I become too worried. I like to treat people well, but most of the time they treat me badly (I'm talking mainly about girls) or find it strange. I also don't think my appearance is the problem. I'm nothing who knows what, but I don't think that I'm ugly. Abe, I don't know why, but I can't do it at all. I will be happy if you help me. And please, without comments like: It's not time for boyfriends yet, everything happens with time, she has to like you herself. Not that I don't believe in these things, but I think if you want something, you don't have to wait for someone to give it to you, you have to work for it. Thanks in advance.
1 mallikadua answered
You have no money or you are ugly, there is no other option to dislike them