Hello! I am a 27 year old man. I have a girlfriend almost my age of about half a year. It is ideal - appearance, manners, behavior, intellect, soul. It is interesting and attractive. With a good job, good income. What initially attracted me to her was the way she made me feel. If I am next to her, if she touches me even slightly, I become the calmest and most harmonious person in the world, I do not feel any tension, she allows me to almost return to my carefree teenage years and just live in the present moment. She's great. But there's something that's bothering me. She has a regime in which she does not like to cheat at all: she gets up at 6 and up to 7 drinks coffee, from 7 to 9 walks the dog, from 9 to 17-18h. works (remotely, from home), from 17-18 to 19-19: 30 walks the dog, then cooks, eats, goes to visit his girlfriend or stays at home, at 10 pm he prepares for sleep and until 11 pm. she must be asleep. At the hairdresser, when he has to go, he goes on Wednesday at 11 o'clock. Go for a manicure on Tuesday at 9 p.m. every third week. Every second weekend he visits Kazanlak, where he sees his brother. The rest of the weekends he goes to Plovdiv, Pleven or Vratsa. Every summer he goes to sea in Ahtopol from 1 to 10 June. Every year he goes to his grandmother's village from November 20 to 30. Attends preventive examinations by doctors in the period 7-10. 01 every year and takes your dog to checkups every year on May 5th. It also shops on a schedule and with an accurate and clear list. The menu has been prepared for her for at least two weeks. I am always welcome in her schedule - she gladly welcomes me at home, we are happy to travel together to one of the mentioned cities, I don't mind participating in all her activities. But somehow there is no question of doing something according to my plan. For example, he does not want to come home. Only once in a thousand dawns did I make her come instead of going to her friend's, but her conclusion was that she preferred to see me at their place. I do not like our Black Sea coast and I offered her to go to a very nice place in Greece this year - she flatly refused and assured me that I would like Ahtopol very much. I suggested that instead of going to Plovdiv one weekend we go to Serbia with my friends - he refused again. When my friends and I get together, I invite her, she doesn't come. On the one hand, I am really fascinated by her and I feel very good in her company. But on the other hand, she clearly shows me that it is not easy to betray her desires. And at some point I can't judge whether in the future, if our relationship becomes more serious, I could expect to make united decisions or I will have to make non-stop compromises with myself. Coincidentally, someone has met this type of person and what are my expectations?
1 yg_treasure_official answered
This is a discipline that is very difficult to learn and forget, if he wants a family he will naturally change it, but if for nothing in the world you would either accept it or not.