Hello, I am a 19-year-old boy and I have been with a new girlfriend for 3 months. So my problem is that it is very difficult for her to enjoy sex when I arouse her clitoris and it gets nice, but when the sex itself starts, no. My penis is not the biggest but it is not and the smallest is 15 to 17 cm (depending on the situation) thickness I can not say but it is very decent so if we try different positions nothing helps so far we have very light progress for her is enough for me to finish. But for me the problem is not that I finish quickly - we did it for more than an hour, there was even a moment a few days ago (we do it often and we do not give up), when I even hurt the vaginal walls and still a very slight sensation. Many of my friends call me to give it up because it only ruined my self-esteem but I love it and I have no such intention also before me there were only 2 and she did not feel pleasure with them this motivates me even more 19 I forgot to mention. Many times during sex I try to reach the clitoris and most of the time it doesn't work. Any ideas Q. I apologize for the spelling mistakes in advance (I wrote it quickly) and I only ask meaningful comments from people with experience and people who would really like to help me.
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I think this is more of a problem in your sexual culture than a girl's problem. Porn has clouded your brain and made software bugs. First - the female vagina is not so sensitive in general - through it we give birth to babies, as much as 3-5 kg. have to go through there. If the vagina was as sensitive as the male penis, it would mean that we would die from the pain. Conclusion number 1 - the female vagina is not a penis! Second - women, on the other hand, have a clitoris. The clitoris is endowed with up to three TIMES more nerve endings than the glans penis. The clitoris and penis were one in the early development of the embryo. A very small part of the clitoris is visible, it is stimulated by penetration externally and internally, but there is almost no woman who can not ejaculate clitorally, while only 30% of women can ejaculate vaginally - mostly women who have given birth and older. They gave birth because during pregnancy the blood supply to the female genitals improves, after birth the effect remains, and female sexuality learns over time, the woman matures sexually, it is not a reflex as in men, because the female orgasm has no relation (or almost none) ) to human reproduction. Conclusion number 2 - The female vagina is not a penis, the woman is not a man, it is not necessary to have intercourse to continue childbirth, but nature has given her a clitoris, through which almost all women reach orgasm. Third - Female hormonal balance changes depending on the period of the cycle in which the woman is currently (if not taking contraceptives). One cycle is the period between the first days of two consecutive menstrual periods. The cycle of most women is about 28-33 days. Somewhere in the middle, it depends a lot, the woman is in Ovulation - the egg is ready for fertilization! Most women before ovulation have a higher libido, cum more often and have a desire for sex, while after ovulation they feel lethargic, irritable and the cycle ends. The balance of female hormones is very fine. The woman is very fine, her moods and impermanence are not a myth. Factors such as insomnia, stress, disease also kill female libido. Conclusion number 3 - A woman is not a man! It does not have a constant level of the hormone testosterone, but in the body? the various female hormones dominate depending on the period of the cycle, on age. Fourth, young women are actually less sexual. Strange as it may seem - this is precisely because they are much more fruitful. Women up to 30-33 years is in its most fertile age, but women can also get pregnant after that - they become more sexual because they need more bullets to hit the target. At 39-42, a woman is considered the sexiest. Notice - young women often like teddy bears, babies (even in the picture), various small animals - this is because estrogen (pregnancy hormone) dominates. It makes these women more patient, less sexual, because in general in the past they were always pregnant at this age (in the caves people did not live long and the children died). Men were a corner - they died in hunting and wars. Nature has lost its job - young women who easily become pregnant are less sexual (and use less of the limited male resources), but are more patient with babies, while older women, in need of more frequent sexual intercourse for pregnancy to have less estrogen and to be correspondingly more sexually aggressive. And again to the plush toys and animals - try with your girlfriend - give? exactly a teddy bear - (from your point of view, complete nonsense) and you will see the happy one? face. The teddy bear is the most successful toy not because of the children, but because of their mothers - young women and girls get extra hormones of happiness when they see even a baby-shaped object - a big head and eyes, a ball body and short limbs - that's why we love little ones. puppies, kittens, babies of neighbors and moms, as well as BALL AND FULL MEN WITH A BELLY. (The same effect has been proven, among other things, in men driving a Ferrari at high speed) Conclusion number 4 - A woman is not a man. Her role in procreation is quite different. The woman. especially the young, can feel happy just from the intimacy itself, from the intercourse itself, from the cuddling and security that? gives the partner in life - to be able to rely on him, yes? shows his love, to have serious plans (babies). .... By the way - a woman is not a man !!! Porn presents it exactly as men imagine it, but the truth is that women's behavior in porn is typical of men, not women. Only a man can be as sexual as another man, but a woman has a different kind of sexuality because she is the mother of children, caring for the sick and the elderly. *** Over the years, your girlfriend will become more sexual, will find doors to new and new sensations in sex. Give ? time to discover your body, to be able to understand these sensations. Most women reach their first vaginal orgasm only after the age of 25. There are women who never reach it, right? We have clitoris, we can reach over 15-20 orgasms within 10 minutes, while men can change something in their innate reflexes only with long Tantra exercises. Don't share intimate details of your life with your friends. Be sure that their girlfriends under the pressure to reach orgasms only simulate them, while your girlfriend's orgasms will be real and you won't wonder - is it over now, or is she just squeezing her vaginal muscles and moaning cheaply like in a porn movie. Come on, calm down and good luck! while your girlfriend's orgasms will be real and you won't wonder - is it over now, or is she just squeezing her vaginal muscles and moaning cheaply like in a porn movie. Come on, calm down and good luck! while your girlfriend's orgasms will be real and you won't wonder - is it over now, or is she just squeezing her vaginal muscles and moaning cheaply like in a porn movie. Come on, calm down and good luck!
Dude, sex is not just flattery, size and duration. The pleasure of sex itself depends on what you do before you start. You have to make the woman want it before you start stimulating her clitoris as you wrote. Before that there are kisses, caresses, tenderness (maybe rudeness). It depends on everything, on the words you speak, on the way you look at her, the way you kiss and caress her. The first rule is - things should happen slowly. The second - without worries or tension. Your partner should be mentally relaxed and not feel ashamed, afraid or other similar feelings of anxiety. In real sex, you can't just flatter her and expect her to be nice. You still need touching, caressing, talking, a variety of poses in the place where you have sex. Take it out from time to time and lick it again, touch it, slap it, hold her by the hair. Or he may want you to be too gentle with her and turn him into love. In short, the key to solving your problem is in her guidance. She is the person who should guide you what she wants and what she doesn't. The more active you are in sex, the more she should be. You have no way of knowing what she likes and dislikes if she doesn't tell you. Every woman is different, and every time you have sex she may be on a different wave and want a different kind of relationship. Don't blame yourself for her troubles in bed because everyone is responsible for their own sexuality. Here she is to blame because she does not know how to do her own pleasure or at least does not tell you how to help her. You are not a fortune teller. She is the one who should guide you, and you should guide her for your own pleasure. In my opinion, it is too late to fix things in your case because you have already talked a lot about this topic and there is a problem in your head, and there is almost no fix, believe me. Listen to your friends and change it. You have no idea what it's like to be with a woman who knows how to enjoy sex, who has no restraints and makes you feel like a real man. After sex, you fly straight, but not because it was good for you, but because you saw her pleasure. Most women are full of trees and selfish in bed. They blame the man next to them for each of their misfortunes. Keep that in mind and run from them. Let someone else deal with them. who knows how to enjoy sex, who has no restraints and makes you feel like a real man. After sex, you fly straight, but not because it was good for you, but because you saw her pleasure. Most women are full of trees and selfish in bed. They blame the man next to them for each of their misfortunes. Keep that in mind and run away from such. Let someone else deal with them. who knows how to enjoy sex, who has no restraints and makes you feel like a real man. After sex, you fly straight, but not because it was good for you, but because you saw her pleasure. Most women are full of trees and selfish in bed. They blame the man next to them for each of their misfortunes. Keep that in mind and run away from such. Let someone else deal with them.
What I can offer you is the missionary position, but you should try to be close to it. You get exactly the effect you are looking for. The other is - face to face or spoons. And she will have to move ..., however. If it stands like a tree, it won't happen.