Don't think you're going to end up. Tell yourself that you are the biggest and most resilient lover in the world, concentrate on her body, kiss her, touch her, make sure you don't pay attention to what's going on between your legs. Start with a long foreplay, then tease her long before you get her in. You can rub it in your clitoris and lick it, annoy it with your fingers, but lightly and calmly without rewinding it, the idea is to excite her to a max, to ask you to punch her and concentrate on her sensations, not yours. When you get to the point of penetration, do not insert it sharply, but gradually, that is, keep teasing it, punch it a little, inch by inch, do not insert it all, let it conquer the passion, that it squirms under you out of desire, to look with that frozen gaze and lick it out of desire! It's very likely that she'il start asking for it, but still not at a time! Finally and slowly insert it all and start slow and gentle movements accompanied by kisses and beautiful words! Tell her how beautiful she is. Hurry up gradually, but avoid abrupt movements, except occasionally. That way, you won't know when you're going to steal for 20 minutes, and she'il be happy. If during the actual sex you feel it's coming, stop and concentrate on it. Kiss her again, touch her with your fingers, you can even take it out for a while until the excitement goes away. The result of such sex is that in the end she will really sneer like a kitten, and you will erupt like a volcano. It's very likely that your orgasm is together and you'il break the bed at the finish line! :). Ladies, are you wet?
Another way I can think of is anise drinks, but in the winter period drinking ice mastic is somehow unnatural, at least for me. Otherwise, ouzo and mastic work wonders. Hem increase erection and firmness, and prolong sexual intercourse.
And the third way I can think of is a containment spray.
I have the same problem and years ago there was Durex Performa - condoms with lidocaine. With them I lasted 20-30 minutes without a problem, but of course lidocaine kills 90% of the sensitivity. If your goal is to satisfy the chick longer at the expense of your own fun - that's the way, but these condoms are gone. However, you can take a tube of lidocaine and put some on your head, then put the condom on, wait a minute for it to work and start it.
With me, another option that worked is the - if my chick blows a whistle before the break-in, I can withstand a lot more dug. But I don't end up with.
Someone wrote here in the comments on the same problem that when you feel like you're coming, you're pushing and massaging the space between the end of the balls and the beginning of the anus. I haven't tried it, but I've memorized it. Try it, it could really work.
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It's called the start-stop technique. Try it on masturbating, it works effectively. After a 4-5 series you will feel the sensitivity decrease and you can make more and more.
During sex, figure out a way to go through this process until the break-in.
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