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June 25, 2020
2 jasonhuneyyy answered
Everyone thinks differently, that's hers. Next time, ask her if she wants to, don't look bad at the woman for that..
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June 25, 2020
3 cumwithme8787 answered
In this case, you're petty too. You're angry about her petty reaction months ago, that you're even mad at you for not finding out then, so it's nice to order it.
You're the same as the :)
At least your husband's a good guy.
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June 25, 2020
4 edenasia answered
I think it's a lot of nonsense. I have a habit of asking twice if someone wants something to eat, and I almost always leave food if I think the person was ashamed to ask for it. Maybe it's just that the woman didn't want to put things in your stroller or ask you to buy her a whale- cat, so she accepted that it wasn't polite that you didn't ask yourself. Older people often forget themselves and become childish sometimes. Nothing fatal happened, and your husband's ingesting for you, so you better forget it. She's treating you well, she's taking care of your relationship, she's not mean, and she's your friend's mother. There are such mother-in-laws, the world will tuck you in, and you, for a comment related to dessert, get angry and write it off as a person who deserves your respect.
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June 25, 2020
5 missmarrisa answered
It's a man's act! It's really rare for men like this. If it was my ex, he'd be silent like a fish.
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June 25, 2020
6 dorianso answered
Horror! She gave him a home, but not really her, but her father! Horror!
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June 26, 2020
7 erikalustx answered
You don't fall any lower. You're used to it. Your husband paid the bill, your father provided you with a place to live. And you went to discuss your husband's mother, who gave him a life when they were obviously financially ill. And to tell you the truth, in my family, everything is divided. It doesn't matter that I didn't miss anything and we didn't limit themselves. That's how my parents were brought up, so I was brought up. It's called respect.
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June 26, 2020
8 canelahot_hot answered
Your husband chose a woman who looked like his mother. So you're a home, actually your father, and you're not carrying your child, and your grandchild, you're a big deal, such a dream is a dream to bring grandchildren, not their own children.
It's time for you to realize a little, and if you want to be respected, first you have to show respect, don't blame your nose, and realize that you're not the only one who can give birth to grandchildren, and this woman is your husband's only mother. Even if your man of love for you, always have one thing on your mind that you're wearing a boy (if you want to eat sweet) and treat his mother the way you want your daughter-in-law to treat you one day.
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June 27, 2020
9 kateandlove answered
What does dessert have to do with the place your father provided, that's all I didn't understand. I mean, when your father sheltered her son, and she shouldn't say and stand in a position peacefully beside you?
You don't realize, but your attitude is so offensive. Not to mention that you didn't make a penny for this place to present it that way.
Well, by that logic, your father can tell you "if I've provided you with a place to live, you're going to be quiet, and you're not going to open your mouth for trifles, that you're going to blow out like a dirty kitten." Aren't you going to be offended by his very attitude?
That statement didn't make a good impression on you. Otherwise, her pettiness is annoying, but not because she's from a village, but simply because she grew up in another reality and in a different spirit of upbringing. Accordingly, there is another understanding, which does not mean that it is inferior to you, but simply different.
But that doesn't mean you have to pounce on her first signal. Because if you're willing to embarrass her in front of people and beat her up with the can, that means you're petty too. And not just petty, but mean.
I don't blame you for not proposing to her, because we younger people have different understandings, and I justify you for that. But judging by that, your statement about the place and how you were going to put it in place, I can tell you that there is still a lot to learn about manners and respect for people.
I know that people like you don't give a damn about the opinions of others, and my opinion doesn't matter to you, but don't wonder if you suddenly find yourself in a bad relationship with most of your loved ones.
And if your father ends up among those close to you, then you'il have to look for a place.
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June 27, 2020
10 1greatfoxy answered
Why are you attacking her now? And I say, "my apartment", and I didn't actually buy it, but my parents. The girl meant that their home was secured on her side. That she didn't get her mother-in-law.
I totally understand her. And my mother-in-law attaches great importance to who ate what and how much he ate. He counts our canapés and watches us. I even got angry when I bought a rather expensive birthday cake for my child (her own grandchild). And the money wasn't in her pocket, nor did she support us.
So, do not rush to attack, look at other countries.
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June 27, 2020
11 devilssexdoll answered
12 , it's not about the word "mine", it's about attitude. Even if she was, it's not right to put the question that you're almost in her place, you'il keep your mouth shut.
And secondly, it's not that they counted her canapés, it's that she's right and excited to propose. I don't blame her for that, but her attitude is staggering. She's going to put her in place, God, keep it safe.
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June 28, 2020
12 kisswetlola answered
She made a pass, she might have just switched off, or in general, she was used to buying for herself. But even if it's the latter, it still doesn't seem appropriate to make a vocal remark.
When I don't like something, I mark it for myself and don't comment so as not to offend the person. I'm not a conflicted person, and it hurts me a lot if someone directly rebukes me.
So, in order for their daughter-in-law and mother-in-law to be on good terms, there is no need, such tweem, is it necessary? Nobody's perfect. If we go for everything, make remarks, where will it go?
One day, if I became a mother-in-law, if something really annoyed me, I'd share with a friend, but never personally to my daughter-in-law. I wouldn't want to ruin a family because of pettiness, and I'm not going to interfere unless it's something extremely fraught! That's what I think.
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June 28, 2020
13 nathan_hall answered
"that I'm going to grab five whales, for example, everyone has their hands to take if they want... It's even funny." - yes, your selfishness is ridiculous! What would have happened to you if you'd asked someone else if she wanted dessert like that? For sure, his mother wouldn't have asked for it, but it's human to ask her, after all, she gave birth to the man who pays your bills. I wouldn't be surprised if you want to pay you a place tomorrow. Learn the lyrics to the song "re-toured the mountain." There it is sung, "libe frogs from day to noon, mother mourns all the way to the grave." A woman makes her humanity respect you, but you're ungrateful!
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June 28, 2020
14 babybella22 answered
14, agrees that the mother-in-law didn't do well, grumbling, but agreed that the author doesn't like it below. If for you a grumble justifies "putting a place" and the insisting that her son lived in her father's apartment, for me such an attitude is by no means more worthy than the mother-in-law's comment.
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June 29, 2020
15 tinapretty answered
"Everyone has their hands to take," sounds selfish to me. For example, I always ask if someone else also wants such a dessert or whatever I get. Even if I'm pretty sure they're going to say no, I'm still asking. Besides, my mother-in-law doesn't justify it, because no one owes anyone, and say you didn't comply or just be brought up in any other way. Besides, the fact that you secured a place for her son, I'm sorry, but it sounds arrogant. It's like if it's not you, he has nowhere to live, not even you, but your father. I'm not meant to offend you, but that's just how you sound on the side.
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June 29, 2020
16 joaisaza answered
Number 10, take it easy! You seem to be some mean mother-in-law who thinks that way!
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June 29, 2020
17 draxdragon answered
She wrote her story very nicely. Not to say we think the same way, and we're in the same position. Where does she take a pregnant woman's mind about whether she got dessert or not? She doesn't have or is looking for a reason to sing and make intrigue. That her brain is 2st. and does not contemplate that the pregnant women have different urges from the rest is at her expense. Your father provided your home so that he could tame himself a little. Can you imagine her giving the apartment what a gypsy she would be? Respect her because she's your husband's mother, but you won't let her climb on your head. I've got mine in such a hole that she doesn't dare get out of there. We're not going to keep their head down and put our heads down in the face of a simple mentality.
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June 29, 2020
18 br4ttyk1tty answered
Since I'm looking at most of the author's attacks, and what's the point of not giving the mother-in-law dessert??? Oh, my God! But the mother-in-law will make an obscene comment from a spiteful mother-in-law. I'm a man.
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June 30, 2020
19 twilight_student answered
I don't care about your attacks, but let me stress that I've never called my mother-in-law for anything, I'm respectful, and she likes, praises me, I also like her and appreciate that she could have been in a worse situation.. I'm marrying her, but the particular dribbling shocked me. WHENEVER I eat something /I have bought something/ I offer to others.. But when we shop for all the time in a big store, when she wasn't even around me, that she wanted her to go, I don't think I was the one to blame and that I did who knew what.. Her son was paying, not me, that she was ashamed to tell herself or take the stupid whale if she wanted it so badly. Please don't judge it too far for stupidity.
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June 30, 2020
20 antonellaheart answered
No19, with that mentality, you have nowhere to lower your head, you have fallen so low that you can't talk about rural upbringing! You're a big hero, you know what holes for your mother-in-law!?, hang her on the rope!
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June 30, 2020
21 mikebranch answered
Dear commenters, do not you understand that the author is a young woman and mother, and her story is extremely emotionally written by the experience. Why are you attacking her?
Your husband's a good guy, and get married. It's not nice for a child to grow up with celibate parents. Don't listen to those fools who tell you that marriage doesn't matter.
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June 30, 2020
22 shirli_fox answered
21, author, your mother-in-law isn't right, but you're too prime-signaled when you're ready to think of something so small. Let's say you're more emotional.
However, this statement about the apartment definitely does not show respect and maturity. Not to mention the apartment isn't even yours. It's a little funny "with someone else's meer to do," but if you don't care you're like that, OK.
Instead of not caring, you could have learned a lesson, but it's for you, because with that attitude to people, you're going to be a duck. I don't know you or anything. I'm just advice, and you already know.
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June 30, 2020
23 balieykelly answered
17
But in this case, she wasn't around you, you didn't comply and you took only for yourself. As I said in my previous comment, and my mother-in-law, I don't justify it. After all, no one can read thoughts and know others when they want what, and it happens that a person does not comply. But on the side of the day, the behavior of both of you continues to seem petty. Is it worth it, since otherwise you're on good terms and respecting each other, you can hardly grab your hair for some stupid dessert? That's just insane. I don't know if it's your pregnancy, or if you're generally more emotional, but I'm kind of advising you not to get carried away with this kind of nonsense. It's a big deal that you're dead! It's really not worth it. I understand, if it was something serious, and it... who took what to eat, that's funny. You poured your emotions here, now smile and don't think about it anymore! :)
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July 01, 2020
24 jacketla answered
Number 22, why, for starters, why don't you go back to first grade, a little to remember the material. Discussing me without knowing me is pure, if you ask me, but that's a different matter. I'm not going to pay attention to your limited tinges that only prove your low brain function. Perhaps you are, too, a vicious mother-in-law whose life is built to stalk in the bed of the young. Why do you think that when you have a son, you should mess with each other and forgive you all. Women without activities and personal life. And it hurts a lot when you have another woman on the date, especially fine-tuning independent. And how envious I saw here that the girl had an apartment! So that half of them pretend to be very spiritually elevated and stand on the principle of "A bent head, a sword does not cut it."
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July 01, 2020
25 marco88fun answered
I'm still wondering about this picture. The mother-in-law was not well-behaved, a pregnant girl to go and scoln that she wanted to eat something and took it. What am I wondering, like these days, no considerations with pregnant women. It's a good thing he was the author's father, that having a roof over your head, that if you lived with the woman in question, he'd comment on everything under her nose every two minutes. They mother-in-law love their son-in-law and grandchildren very much. Don't take her seriously and so much for such petty things so you don't have to be on her level. Let him grumble.
You should have asked her if she wanted anything, that she could give birth prematurely for you. And she could have bought separately, not comfortable putting you in the stroller.
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July 02, 2020
26 datdudebehigh answered
Author, next time you're going if you're going to the store and ask her. You dear mother-in-law, I've got something to eat, do you want me to take you too? Like little kids.
I don't see anything wrong with your behavior. You're sick, you got it. She's not small. When he wants something, he picks up and drops in the cart.
Or did you have to break it into pieces and give it to the mouth? Maybe that's what she expected.
Drooling.
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July 02, 2020
27 amie_12 answered
It's interesting how you keep beating up on a little story months ago and trying to bring it in like a huge drama.
It's also interesting your answer, you feel attacked.... or just find what you need: an occasion to sneer and "defend yourself."
I'm starting to think about whether your husband mentioned the "beat samara, feel the donkey" thing.
Now don't jump on him :)
You're just a little man, author.
And I have a home of mine, and it would not have crossed my mind that I had "provided a home" to the sweet. It's just that two of us love each other and live together, that's all!
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July 02, 2020
28 nkboi answered
From the author: Thanks for the comments made and I apologize for my previous comment, only now I have seen that it is with mistakes, but I wrote it on the go.
The story, of course, on my part is forgotten, and I wouldn't think about pushing it now, because I'm extremely aware of how unknowable it is, especially months from now. I wanted to see if it was normal for her reaction to this act of mine, because I'm not hiding that, knowing late, she's letting me down, she's capable of getting annoyed at it.
Anyway, it's past, we're not going to ruin our otherwise good relationship.
For the apartment I have never pushed anyone, I have said so, in the insleed, that it is still provided by me, whether it is not by me personally, by my father, and that she should be smarter and more thoughtful to me in this circumstance.. Don't you think so?
Interesting how I came out black, interesting
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July 02, 2020
29 emili_stone answered
No33, women like you remained 1%, woefully insufficient for the many intelligent and conscientious men! That's why decent and healthy families are a rarity. Young "women"(I do not want to use the correct definition of them), have become gold diggers, petty to the extreme (comments prove it) and apart from biological gender identity, there is nothing else female in them. A yaz to the beauty and tenderness the Lord God has given them! He put a gray substance in their head, but he didn't give them any creases. Protect God from women like that! Such and the Istanbul Convention will not save them, malice and greed are not treated!
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July 03, 2020
30 89and91 answered
Quote: No34, the author:
"For the apartment I have never pushed anyone, I have said so, in the insle that it is still provided by me, whether it is by me personally, by my father, and that it should be smarter and more thoughtful to me in this circumstance." Don't you think ?"
She had not insisted that the mother-in-law would be "thoughtful" that she (in fact her father) had "provided" a home for her poor poor son, who would otherwise have lived in a box of rain.
Well, I've also "provided" a home for my wife, I'll tell her to put her rags on (and her mother too) and that "she should be smarter to me" (that is, keep quiet).
I did not know that "securing" a home for the mate is the criterion for him/she and the parents to last. God, I can't believe I'm reading a comment like that.
You're taking it out of your husband like a scumbag who, thanks to you, the poor guy saw what it's like to live in a place of housing. Oh, God, you're so generous that you let him go and he's going to taste shelter.
I have no words! I hope one day life turns so that your husband can buy his own place and your dad can kick you out of your "your" place, and then your husband will "shelter you" and tell you how you have to stay in the corner and keep quiet because he 'sheltered you'.
I'm omersen from what I've read! I'm sick of it!
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July 03, 2020
31 hornebees answered
The woman's pregnant, maybe that's why she looks at it that way. Try not to pay attention to.
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July 03, 2020
32 yummy_tony_ answered
Number 36- what a drama, what a circus! Omersen was vomiting... Please don't take it so far, and with such drama, it doesn't tear you apart personally after all!
Does it make sense to repeat that I've never done this with my husband's place? Or everyone here seems to be reading what they're doing. Y'all offensive people!
Not only am I not pushing anything on him and demanding, but I'm the one who's wearing the rags of the two of us. He's a man with a capital M who doesn't allow anyone to climb on his head and make remarks or raise his tone, so I've been doing a lot of hard work. But he's kind to me, of course, and I don't make him a victim.
Omersen was, he was terrified... here I describe how I dismembered a man...
Come on, please, a little more masculine ;)
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July 03, 2020
33 _wow_girl answered
I acknowledged in comment 36. I hope the author and the poet at number 19 still read the subject.
Ladies, a pregnant woman is a special case, but it's not anything unseen. No one's going to put you on a gold leaf and a curling mat with a fan. I wish every woman to have a mild and tempting pregnancy and healthy children, but do not abuse.
Let's get back to the topic of housing. Are you and your husband going to create a family or are you going to be roommates? What's with the expectation that someone's going to be pushing their rags? If he had a place and you, as his wife, had settled in there, would you shut your mouth on everything your father had?
Read your writing a few more times along with the comments. His mother doesn't owe you anything, but you owe at least a little respect.
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July 03, 2020
34 bluediamond_ answered
What are you attacking the girl? A little selfish, but mother-in-law isn't a flower to smell. This is not the first, but the hundredth article in which you all attack and blame without meaning. Not until 30 comments about one big leek, shame on you!
One girl
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July 03, 2020
35 hot_princess_21 answered
I'm One girl and please if the moderators post my comment, add this one: your friend is great, don't drop it and show him mine and the comments on 1 and 6.
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July 04, 2020
36 hanna_foxxy answered
When rural women give interviews on TV, they don't look like them to me! They're pretty radiant! Your mother-in-law has grown into the past so much that she's forgotten herself! And he's always sticking her nose where it's none of her business! That's why you young people have to go home and get what you need! Respect your privacy-mother-in-law is a kind of intruder and doesn't mean you good! I'm like when I figure them out the second time-adios! It's like she wasn't pregnant before! She doesn't care what other people want!
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July 04, 2020
37 mack720 answered
In this story, it bothers me nothing but the emotions that accompany such a small event. True, it is important the principle, but close people to look into their hands who bought what does not bode well for the future. In my opinion, both - both wife and mother-in-law - have shown a lack of tact. It's polite to ask the older person if he wants dessert, even more so if - as the author herself says - he lives in poverty. We share a home with my mother and always comply. My husband, if he buys ice cream, he'il take three straight, and if she doesn't want to eat right now, leave it in the freezer for later. The mother-in-law, even if she was offended, should have been silent, not making vocal comments about such a trifle; however, she is more experienced and can close her eyes to the young daughter-in-law's omission. So, I think, the conflict-daughter-in-law is just beginning. You, author, are the younger, the stronger, and the smarter and the cunning are supposed to be. Well, use these qualities for the benefit of comfort in the family. My grandmother used to say "A woman must be an artist" and she was right. My mother-in-law and I are first friends, but every time I do something sweet, I'il send her my husband to try it, or I'm going to take her coffee myself. And she in turn loves me like her daughter. And peace is achieved!
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July 04, 2020
38 kate_kampbell answered
I think they've been commenting on mother-in-law here.
First of all, i'il tell you, the mother-in-law isn't human, she's a diagnosis. Unfortunately incurable.
I would, in principle, absolutely inertia snatch a few desserts, for the simple reason that I am taught and find it normal and natural. But her reaction in this case is so stupid, there's not a point.
Mine was baking a duck the other day. Everyone breaks and sits at the table. That's four of us. Me, she and her two sons (one of whom is my husband)
She took some bones and inside she found the "poor liver" (unfortunately I do not know what the real name of this thing is, but it is very tasty). She pulled it out and... he split it into his two sons.
Then she decided she put a lot of skin on her plate. He tore it up and split it up again.
And then you thought, did I not want to... I told her there was enough in the tray, and I'd get one.
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July 04, 2020
1 esmeralda_hill answered