Hello Boy of 22 I want to share with you my most nightmarish experience. I have a 19-year-old sister. We live together in Sofia in the apartment of our parents, who spend more time than a year in the countryside. I work, pay all the bills and take care of as much as I can for my sister. She graduated this year and is currently unemployed. One night at 11 I heard that the TV in her room was working. I opened the door without knocking and was shocked. She was sitting on her bed, wearing a T-shirt and panties. She was strapped to one hand and held a syringe with the other. There was sweat on her face. I think that's when the poison entered her veins. She saw me, but she looked and went through me. Her eyes closed and she leaned back on the bed. I went crazy, screaming and thought he was dying. And then I thought about where I was, when she started taking drugs. The next day I started talking to her about stopping, about clinics. The problem is he doesn't want to. She lived to shake and drugs were her life, it was good. I threatened, but she countered that if she carried out her threats, she would take an overdose and "fly" forever. Please help, give me advice on what to do. Now I tremble constantly, whether he will not overdose in the evening or during the day. I read a lot of posts and everywhere it says, addicts are constantly increasing their dose. whether to overdose in the evening or during the day. I read a lot of posts and everywhere it says, addicts are constantly increasing their dose. whether or not to overdose in the evening or during the day. I read a lot of posts and everywhere it says, addicts are constantly increasing their dose.
Nasty story! In order to have a result, she must want the treatment.
Hello Friend. I've been through this hell, namely drugs. Ten years ago, my whole environment was with people who used drugs, and I know for sure that a drug addict's life goes on for about ten years after he starts shaking (and for some, far less). Your sister thinks this thing is harmless, and she obviously doesn't know how difficult and impossible it is to stop it. This is precisely because the experience of heroin abuse is in itself incomparable. In order to give up, she must first and necessarily realize her problem, accept it as a disease and ask for it herself. If you have drug-addicted friends who have given up or gone through this terrible ordeal, ask someone to explain to her what it is about because she doesn't understand. To tell her my "life" (I put it in quotes, because it can hardly be called life). If not, leave me the coordinates, I hope the administrators want to publish them! I would very much like to help, because I am about to get rid of this pathetic kind of life that I led and I said to myself that I will always help addicts, I accepted it as a mission. I wish you all the best. I will follow the topic.
Make her find a serious job, I think it will help her a lot to survive the drugs and separate her from the bad side of life.
I can't put myself in your shoes, but first I would like to share this thing with my parents. The next step is to look for options for a treatment clinic. She will not give up voluntarily! You also need to consult a specialist. I really hope you fight this addiction! Greetings and good luck. > М. 31г <
Since the people above have already said the first condition, "She has to realize for herself," my suggestion is to start somewhere. Be her companion as she enters the hole in Wonderland, hold her hand while the image of what is happening and the consequences that await her are fixed on her, because all this is a SHOCK. Awareness should be gradual and should be part of your daily routine, but it should be constructive and presented with a lot of love, patience and understanding. Make her feel protected and in a good environment with you, ie it is important that she trusts you. Don't show weakness, don't collapse in front of her, no shouts, threats, tears - that's how you make her believe that reality is exactly as she knows it - horrible and repulsive - and that her "faithful" heroine companion is right about everything, so she will love him more. Daily conversations with questions. Remember that the important thing is not for YOU to prove yourself right and prove yourself to her, but for SHE to realize that she has to value her life. And here the word "must" is an example that it is good not to use it too much in front of it, do not press it. Consult her, ask her how to help her. If she starts to pull and be aggressive, tell her that you are the only one who will help her and will do so, instead of giving her to an institution with strangers. This should be like a trump card for you. Pay attention to her, have dialogues, get to the essence of life, make her emotional, pour out something that bothers her, hug her then. Remind her that she is a person in need and that you are closest to her and that it is important for you to recover. Tell her you will do anything to get her back to life. Keep a cool head, think logically and don't collapse. Be with her as often as possible, be friendly with her, whatever it costs you - she should not lose confidence in you. Don't ask us when it started and how it is possible, but ask her! Let her share and pour everything for you - this is the first step. But for this purpose he won it! Good luck. Watch this together. I liked it a lot, I watched dozens of materials about drug addicts and drugs. One of the best films in its genre and even in the top 10 in general is the Bulgarian film about drug addicts in Sofia "Invisible", it is available on YouTube. Goosebumps are guaranteed. https: // www. youtube. com / watch? v = lFN8qMelByU One of the best films in its genre and even in the top 10 in general is the Bulgarian film about drug addicts in Sofia "Invisible", it is available on YouTube. Goosebumps are guaranteed. https: // www. youtube. com / watch? v = lFN8qMelByU One of the best films in its genre and even in the top 10 in general is the Bulgarian film about drug addicts in Sofia "Invisible", it is available on YouTube. Goosebumps are guaranteed. https: // www. youtube. com / watch? v = lFN8qMelByU
Well, because she's your sister and I can't tell you to dump her, just lock her up in your house for a while until she's done all the nasty abstinence. Of course, you have to be by her side, because she may even commit suicide. I'm not kidding, heroin is ruthless. But you have to be by her side, sooner or later she will pass. Then when it's all over you have to talk to her a lot, to help her realize what she will become and how far she will go if she continues to take. Good luck.
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Well, nothing interferes in the lives of others.