Children or young people as you prefer - my children and friends are 14, 15 and 16 years old respectively. So far they have not had boyfriends. You will say that I may not know, but it is not so. On the contrary, I even encourage them to be more open in this regard. They are a mixed company, they go to the movies, play cards, ride a bike and go to the beach and that's it. Meetings, cafes, not to mention parties and discos - they neither go nor want to do that. Birthdays are celebrated, for example, at McDonald's or a pizzeria. So, in my opinion, some children develop earlier, and others later, and that's it. As for the contacts - of course, the initiative must be mutual. And you to call and suggest what to do and vice versa. Don't turn the real world into a virtual one! Stay in front of the computer, but live contact is another matter. Not to mention
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Instead of wondering how it's right because there are no rules for it - pick up the phone and call. No one has to think about your entertainment. Look for it yourself !!!