Please Help - My Mother Does Not Raise The Issue Of Bra

   Buy me yourself, is it that hard?

   Amy goes in a swimsuit (it's still something), I guess at least you have a swimsuit: D

   Amy, there's no way, you need to talk to her. You have nothing to fear.

   Talk to her or go buy one yourself.

   A friend had the same problem. It was even worse. She hadn't worn a bra until 8th grade, but she had breasts. Her mother didn't want to buy her a bra, so she wore the tops of her swimsuit. We went together to get her first bra. After that, things seemed to get better. I think it's because the mother subconsciously doesn't want her daughter to grow up so fast. Get yourself a bra if you want to go out with friends who can help with the choice. There are also ones on the market of BGN 2-3 each. I wish you success!

   I completely understand you! When I was your age, I was also ridiculed because I needed a bra. I told my mother, although I do not like to talk to her on such topics, and she took me and bought me. So she told her mother, she also went through these things and knows what to do. If you're so worried about telling her, go buy it yourself. As he said, №5 has 2-3 leva each. But eventually she will see if you are wearing a bra and a conversation on this topic will be inevitable. :)

   Darling and I were like that, but in a nice moment I just went and told her that everyone wears bras without me and she bought it for me the next day :) just say it :) good luck :)

   I put on an eighth grade bra for the first time. I didn't want to put it on earlier. The bra is uncomfortable. Without being full, I have a big bust that formed precisely because I wasn't wearing a bra. It's awkward for your mother to buy you a bustier.

   I sympathize with you my name is Lachezara and I am 10 and I have a bra and I really talk to my mother! you have nothing to be ashamed of! Good luck

   And my mother was like that when I was 12, I was much more developed than the others and I really needed a bra, but my mother didn't raise the issue at all, and I was ashamed to tell her. But once we talked about something and I turned the question into a joke, then my mom said: Hey, do you really want me to buy you a bra and that's how it turned out.

   I sincerely laughed at the topic: D Well, your mother doesn't have to raise the issue: D If you haven't talked about it at all, then buy a bustier, if she had such developed breasts, she would have noticed and bought you a bra! : D Go with friends to a store, the bustiers are 3-4 leva each! PS "I have breasts like any girl" First, at 12 I don't see what breasts you have, and second, not every girl has, I have 6th grade friends who don't have them yet! 9 - on ten bra? ; о Ж, 13

   I will follow the topic, I am 14 and a half and I also don't have bras ...

   It's better to buy a bustier, it's more comfortable. And it won't kill you.

   The bust is comfortable, but often does not hold the bust firmly enough, and the bra, especially the one with straps / those metal things that keep coming out and they are watching / is also under criticism. That's why I found a compromise option - a sports bra. It's something like a bustier, without straps, with two cups, it looks like a short tank top. As a girl with a relatively large bust, who loves to play sports and is comfortable, this is the best solution for me, and I guess for many other girls who just did not fall for this miracle. http: // media. 3suisses. fr / portail3s_img / 3S / FRA / produits / vis_zoom / 3/8/3/8 / 10038388_1. jpg Something like this is, but without a zipper and clearer, than cotton ...

   I'm like you too! I am younger and have small breasts, but I am very uncomfortable watching the children in their class see their bras or the straps (because I don't have a bra, not because I think they shouldn't have it). That's why I don't want to talk to my mother, and I don't tell her much. And this will be the top of the ice cream. Once when I was in the rehearsal of a children's clothing store, I heard the saleswoman tell my mother that at this age we were starting to develop and we needed a bra, but she didn't say anything. And my mother didn't tell me anything, didn't ask me, didn't talk about the conversation. Out of so much anger, I want to do it like this: I ask my best friend to come home and put on a jacket, but with a blouse underneath, with which, if possible, to distinguish the bra and the straps and to wear more to the mother. we. Ah, and I will apologize for her shame: P. And for balms and makeup and perfumes do not give me. Well, I don't want make-up, but I still felt uncomfortable because I had acne and a girl asked me why I didn't apply foundation so that my pimples wouldn't be visible. I feel like I'm five. And I live only with my mother and I can't even tell my father. Here, is it work to say such things to a man: D

   Hello! My problem is that I am 13 years old. and I want to wear a bustier, but I don't know how to tell my mother. Please help me! Thanks in advance!

   Number 19, save from BGN 3 to 5 and buy two bras, cup A, what is your mother for? This is your body and you can wear whatever underwear you want

   I already have a bustier, but I'm ashamed to wear it because I don't know how my mother will react.

   I can already see how lucky I am! The funny thing about me is that my mother notices things before me! She raises these topics herself. On it I can share absolutely everything that excites me! I am glad to have such a mother. Dear girls, do not be ashamed of your mothers! However, they will not beat you or force you because you are already growing up and need such things. Otherwise you can sit up to 30 without a bra! PP I'm 11

   I'm 11 and I have big breasts. When I was in 2nd grade, a friend wore a bustier, the only one in the class, and on my birthday she gave me a personal gift - a bustier. I showed it to my mom and she said I was small for it but I didn't think so. The next day I put it on and felt better. She didn't realize I was wearing it until last year when she wanted to see if I was wearing a tank top. she understood and bought me something else. I will now be in fifth grade and go home alone and on the first day I will go with my NDP and buy a bra. When I get home, I'll show it to my mom and she won't argue with me. Can anyone tell me how much a bra costs?

   8, bras do not stop the growth of breasts, personally I have changed three sizes, and I wear a bra seriously from about 11-12 years old. Also, after a certain size, it is definitely not appropriate to wear without a bra. The nipples are outlined and it looks quite challenging, which leaves others with the impression that you are looking for it, if you understand me. 11, I don't see why at 12 you can't have breasts, everyone develops at a different pace, plus why do you think that only girls with big breasts need bras? 15, the quality bras do not get the banelles, it's all about what you will come across, otherwise your idea is very good. 24, depends on the brand, quality, etc. There are bras of 2-3 levs, there are also 50-60 and up. At H&M, for example, there are many nice models and they have a good value for money. I have a few from there and I am very happy. Now on to the topic. You have to tell your mother that you don't feel comfortable and you think you need a bra / bustier because, for example, you don't like the way your nipples look / show under your clothes if you're wearing something tighter. Tell your mother that you deliberately wear loose clothes and stay in a jacket in the winter, I hope she understands you.

   Emmy, go buy yourself, I'm 13, I'll be 14 and this year I carried it right, mine are small, but I don't leave home without a bra! In November I went and took a friend with me and bought one, I collected money, and yet the little ones are not more than BGN 5, it's not that much ... I said that my neighbor (she is for 10th grade) has it. gave .. And what if you tell her that you bought a woman, she will understand you in my opinion .. then she realized that I bought it and did not tell me anything, because I did not have enough and I went and bought another ... when I was with my aunt we went to a lingerie store and my mom and aunt bought it and if it wasn't for my aunt to raise the issue of buying my mom I wouldn't remember ... or if you're ashamed to tell your mother turn to grandma, aunt, another relative ... :)

   I don't understand why you are ashamed to talk to your mothers. They are the person who will be by your side all the time. They are women. They understand you. I am 13. I have been wearing a bustier since I was 11 years old. This year I wore a bra. I approached it this way: we were in Jumbo and they sell such small bras, which are not with cups, but with triangles. I went and started looking at them until my mother came and asked me if I wanted to buy them. Since then I have got a bra, bustiers and bras with cups. My advice is: Talk to your mother, or collect 5-6 leva and buy yourself a bustier or bra. They are not expensive, and they are available in every lingerie store. ;) Good luck. : 3 В., 13г.

   I am 11 years old and have been wearing a bustier for 910 years. But I think it's time for a padded bra, but I'm ashamed to talk to my mom about it. There's only one lingerie store in my town, if I'm not mistaken, and it's run by a man. The thing is, I'm ashamed to ask a man to offer me a bra. Besides, I don't know what size I am. Will you help me? !!

   Well, I'm 12 and I'm wearing a cassock. until this year I didn't wear it but I sweated my mom and she gave me hers which was small and she kept it for us when I needed it. So far, I've been wearing a padded bustier.

   Hey I'm 11 years old! At 10 years old. came to me. I calmly discussed this with my mother, but at the age of 9. and a half even at 8 years old. Mom brought a bag with bustiers and small bras and everything happened to me! I didn't even ask her! Sit with your mother in private and tell her :, Mom, I see that my friends are already wearing bras and I'm a little ashamed to be without a bra! Can you buy it for me? ''. It is :)!

   Well, I suggest you, if not a bra, then at least have a bustier. Otherwise they sell very comfortable bustiers with padding and it will be convenient to wear them again. :)

   Hello! I'm 12 and I haven't worn a bra or a bustier, but I need one now. I want to tell my mother, but how ??? Kaka and 10th grade and she wears bras, she goes out with my mother about it and everything is fine with her, but I don't know how to tell her. Everyone in our class wears, and most have nothing, they wear bras. Please help me.

   Hello! I am 12 and last year I had this problem. My breasts were growing and growing (hormones) and I was uncomfortable in the summer. I discussed it with my friend, who is 3 years older. Then she offered to give me her bustiers, which are small. I agreed and it's very convenient for me. Besides, it is not good to wear bras from this age. I was born first in our class (it doesn't matter, it's all about the body) and the second girl is 4 months behind me. I have developed the fastest so far and I do not wear a bra, and now 2 of my class wear the smallest size and still do not fill it, they think only of the boys, they roll in front of them, this shows "theirs" someone has liked them so far). So far I have had 3 boyfriends, the first one was from the summer of last year, and we are together with the last one. I don't use make-up and tempos, and the boys like me. So, from now on, boys (most) are looking for the natural. I deviated a little from the topic, but this still needs to be said. My advice is to consult with an older friend or sister, if you have one, you can buy it yourself - I bought it, but I haven't worn it outside so far, you can tell your mother directly. Somehow take up the topic or, as they said above, look at the bras in a store, you can also tell your aunt - every aunt is like a sister. ZZ-tell your sister. I don't have a sister, but I was in the same situation;) I hope I was helpful :) you can buy it yourself - I bought it, but I haven't worn it outside so far, you can tell your mother directly. Somehow take up the topic or, as they said above, look at the bras in a store, you can also tell your aunt - every aunt is like a sister. ZZ-tell your sister. I don't have a sister, but I was in the same situation;) I hope I was helpful :) you can buy it yourself - I bought it, but I haven't worn it outside so far, you can tell your mother directly. Somehow take up the topic or, as they said above, look at the bras in a store, you can also tell your aunt - every aunt is like a sister. ZZ-tell your sister. I don't have a sister, but I was in the same situation;) I hope I was helpful :)

   Hi I don't know how to tell mom I think if I tell her she will never let me, but I know I will always wear a bra

   Hi I don't know how to tell mom I think if I tell her she will never let me, but I know I will always wear a bra

   Hello, I'm 12, I wear bustiers without pads, 64 breasts and 75 breasts (WTF ?!) and I probably fill the smallest size bra, but my breasts grow a little sideways and I still have to push them into the cups -_- I think that is enough info. Looking at how long ago the original topic was written, I will not answer it 38/39 - first of all, looking at a person with a double post. Is your mother strict? I suggest you turn the topic to careless talking. Maybe even a slight hint of a joke, but not much so that your mother doesn't take it as a real joke. Instead, you can explain to her that you are already developing and you will need at least a cup of A without banelli. Are there any girls around / around your age who you know and wear bras? You can compare yourself to them by talking to your mother and explaining to her that since there is not much difference between you and them, you can also start wearing a bra. Just keep in mind - do not intrude on her! If he tells you he can't wait maybe a week or two and start the topic again. Also, don't complain about, for example, "It's not fair" or "I have to wear it" - it will probably only strain her nerves, but without it it is preferable to catch her in a good mood. Honestly, I hadn't even asked about a bra. I was in a lingerie store and after my mother took a bra she asked me if she could take one for me. I told her she could and took one of the smallest. That's what happened to me, so I'm not sure if the things I suggested will work, but I hope they work. If he tells you he can't wait maybe a week or two and start the topic again. Also, don't complain about, for example, "It's not fair" or "I have to wear it" - it will probably only strain her nerves, but without it it is preferable to catch her in a good mood. Honestly, I hadn't even asked about a bra. I was in a lingerie store and after my mother took a bra she asked me if she could take one for me. I told her she could and took one of the smallest. That's what happened to me, so I'm not sure if the things I suggested will work, but I hope they work. If he tells you he can't wait maybe a week or two and start the topic again. Also, don't complain about, for example, "It's not fair" or "I have to wear it" - it will probably only strain her nerves, but without it it is preferable to catch her in a good mood. Honestly, I hadn't even asked about a bra. I was in a lingerie store and after my mother took a bra she asked me if she could take one for me. I told her she could and took one of the smallest. That's what happened to me, so I'm not sure if the things I suggested will work, but I hope they work. I was in a lingerie store and after my mother took a bra she asked me if she could take one for me. I told her she could and took one of the smallest. That's what happened to me, so I'm not sure if the things I suggested will work, but I hope they work. I was in a lingerie store and after my mother took a bra she asked me if she could take one for me. I told her she could and took one of the smallest. That's what happened to me, so I'm not sure if the things I suggested will work, but I hope they work.

   If you go to dances, you can tell your father that the teacher wants you to wear a bustier. Since it is not his strong point, he will buy it for you without arguing. While mothers would say that you are small and similar.

   I haven't worn a bra yet, but it wasn't easy with the bust either. My mother started laughing. He was going to blow it up. I made my own bustier. I took a tight-fitting tank top, cut it as I wanted and put an elastic band to fit and yes.

   I'm 12 and I'm wearing a bra! Quite ordinary, neither small nor large. The thing is, our mothers went through this and I don't think it's so embarrassing to ask her! :)

   Buy it for me. Don't be five years old. Take care of yourself. Save some money out of pocket and buy.

   A sports bustier would also work for you. Don't buy a bra yourself the first time, you won't survive the size. If you are not ashamed, go with a friend or ask the saleswoman.

   Number 11, what are you laughing at? My breasts started to grow when I was eight years old. In 3rd and 4th grade I already had small breasts, at the age of 11 my cycle came and in 6th grade I already had a big bust. Some girls start their development earlier, there is nothing strange about that.

   Just take it yourself

   I have the same problem. I am 12 years old and my breasts are not very big, but it is obvious and at school they make fun of me that girls who do not have breasts wear bras, and I do not. I want to talk to my mother but she's a person who thinks I'm pretty small for things like that. She bought a bra for my sister because she went to dances and they wanted it. I've worn it several times and I really like it (the cup is not a big A65). I mean, I understand girls who have breasts (small or large) and wonder how their mother will react by telling her that they want such a thing and that they are already big enough. I'm thinking of daring to tell my mom soon that girls wear bras at school, and that I want to too. If you have other ideas please let me know! Thanks in advance!!!

   To number 52. Just go and buy it yourself. The malls have bras for girls, not women. And they are not so expensive. Or take your mother to a lingerie store. Pretend to look. Look at the little bras ... and she can curl up. Success!

   An interesting fact is obtained. It strikes me that in the topics of beaches, sea, many mothers say that they buy their little daughters a few pairs of swimsuits with tops (????), because it should. It's as if something will happen to them without a top, even though they don't have developed breasts. And now in this topic it turns out that mothers tell their daughters that they are still "small" to wear bras. Where is the logic ???? They buy their child swimsuit tops when he is 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 years old, and they don't buy bras when it's time, it's perverted. Everything is turned upside down when you don't have to do something that is too early, and when you don't have to do what you have to do. But it's all the other way around in other areas of life, so nothing surprises anymore.

   Hello, I suggest you share with your mother! After all, she also went through this path and I think she will understand you no matter how emotional she is. Good luck! :)

   Take a picture of your breasts, upload them and attach the link here to make it clearer. Because one is big breasts for one and another for another.