Hello! I am a 23 year old woman. I have a daughter who is almost 3 years old. I am married, but my child is from my ex-husband. He (my husband). Behaves very well with the child. He sees her as his own. The problem is that we live with theirs, where his brother and his family live, ie three families under one roof. The children quarrel a lot and fight with each other. Especially his brother's little one (4 years old) harasses her all day. Her parents and grandmother pamper her too much all the children beat his little daughter. Last day she almost took my eye out with a fork because of a toy. Good thing maybe my jealous that I saved her. Her eye reddened and swollen. Yesterday she knocked her to the ground again for her hair and her whole mouth was covered in blood. I'm already afraid to leave her alone where he sees her hits her and not just a slap but just blushes her. Tell me what I can do. How to save your child from harassment roses. I talked to my husband about this problem, but he defends the other. "A child does not understand" is if she does not understand, that is why parents are there to teach her to distinguish between good and evil. When I tell him to get a place to stay calm,. he doesn't even hear me slam the door and go out. Please give me some advice. Since my child is a stranger, I do not allow myself to get into arguments, but the fact that they pamper their child too much other children suffer.
1 rachleary answered
Let him watch the child alone for two or three hours. Sam will see for himself that this is not a joke. And I can't explain it to you with the accommodation. I am a man of 40 and I am also pressured to go out. I can explain it, but no one can understand me. These are BGN 200-300 per month additional costs. No one can make me feel at ease under someone else's roof. You can't drive a nail into a picture, for example. Another question is whether they will tell you to leave with notice. And kind of give up what you should to chase the wild. With a woman and a child in his arms. We are in Bulgaria. We are not so rich.