Please For Exact Advice

   A lot of people even have a child to have a reason to be together, obviously love subsides.

   Well, let her decide for herself what she wants. Who influences her and whether someone has influenced her decisions is not your job. Respect yourself more and don't bother her in any way. I advise you to step away from her and not look for her. Leave it to her to decide what she will do with her life, because otherwise you risk becoming annoying and you will achieve the opposite effect - you will repel her.

   The decision is hers in the end. If she is influenced by someone, it is because she is really insecure about her choice and has real worries about your relationship. You can safely tell her that you don't have to go out every day, but that doesn't mean you have to see each other once a month when you have the opportunity. To stop chasing extremes, there is a golden mean for everything. She will graduate soon, then she will study and work, she will take matters into her own hands. She is not yet mature enough not to be influenced by her mother, but that day will come soon. If she wants to be alone without living together, you have to respect her decision. Not everyone is able to live with another person aged 19-20. You live with someone and you think it's great. It really is so in the beginning. And then you stop arranging meetings, you find excuses to spend time together, because, right, you live under one roof and you always see each other. If you come home from work and you're tired, but you want to see your girlfriend, you'll be out for a while. If you come home tired from work with her, she's there, you may prefer to just stay in a room while you're silent and lying down or just sleeping. There is a significant difference between quantity time and quality time. Living with someone, you usually spend a lot of time together, but it is not good for you because it is silence, talking about laundry and driving for nonsense. It's hard, it's just cool in theory. In the beginning you have an incentive and you do everything with your partner, you go out, have fun, give yourself all your attention. Over time, your attention shifts to other things and some pointless meanings begin. If you have settled down, you manage and find an option to be as productive as possible in every aspect. It's much harder for young people, there are so many emotions raging there. I'm telling you from experience. He was not angry with her, but opened his eyes. She didn't grow up for such a relationship, she's not ready to live with you once she's influenced. Respect that, don't push her. With pressure you can persuade her to oppose and come to you, but for a long time you will hear about her self-sacrifice and at every difficult moment, she will regret that she was in a hurry. It really is better not to happen. Just convince her to see you more often. Otherwise, calmly and in a busy everyday life you find time for the one you love because you miss him. but for a long time you will hear of her self-sacrifice, and at every difficult moment, she will regret that she was in a hurry. It really is better not to happen. Just convince her to see you more often. Otherwise, calmly and in a busy everyday life you find time for the one you love because you miss him. but for a long time you will hear of her self-sacrifice, and at every difficult moment, she will regret that she was in a hurry. It really is better not to happen. Just convince her to see you more often. Otherwise, calmly and in a busy everyday life you find time for the one you love because you miss him.

   She claims that she wants it a lot, but her mother has been influencing her terribly for a year or two. she eats so as not to eat what she keeps with her like a rag and in the end she will listen to her nonsense to stay with her by force makes her take pictures with someone where she does not want and separately she tells her that she saw that she was not happy that we were going to part and there is not a drop of truth in this first she shines on happiness as she is with me and second once a person is sure of their choice they will not be ticked ...Help me how to get it in her head that this woman, no matter how much she is a mother on paper, fails her and will break her and imagine our plans

   The girl is 19, she is too young to know exactly what she wants from life and who she wants. At this age, the units are those ready for marriage, children and cohabitation. There is no way from school to be fully aware, to know what kind of partner you want, and to understand everything. Parents are for life, and men - today may be you, tomorrow - another. He may be trying to keep her from giving birth young, to miss a chance for you, not to come out listening only to you. And he may not like you as a boyfriend.