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2 hennyyrahman answered
A person who does not show any attention and tenderness to you does not deserve you. There may be another on the horizon, so it doesn't reflect you anymore - there is a new, more interesting toy. Drop it and look for a person who will appreciate you and show his love!
3 JeliseGold answered
You are very far from the truth! You are just beginning to gain experience in the relationship between two people what is possible and what is not, what you can expect from the other and what not. One person can never fill your whole world and the whole universe - remember it well. Nor is it reasonable, possible, and achievable for you to demand such a thing from him. Not that your friend is a flower, but you are also a child's joy ... You look at things very idealistically. 90% of people live like you and your friend all their lives!
4 KRZYSIEK543210 answered
Number 1 is absolutely right. In fact, you suffocate him, but you definitely don't realize to what extent. You can't ask anyone like that from their friends, whether the relationship is a year, two or more. You shouldn't do it either - in your case voluntarily. Now you think you are not wrong, but in time you will make sense of things in his own way. Find a balance on this issue, because if you continue you will separate. Moreover, you define his friends and obviously him as well, quoting "some squirrels with a child's mind" - in fact, you are largely with one. I hope you don't insult them like that in front of him ... You think he should compromise, but the opposite is largely the case. Think really, look at the situation realistically.
5 redlightdistrect answered
Keep in mind that friends and boyfriends are not interchangeable. You have no right or reason to want to give up your comrades for you. Honestly, I'm surprised he didn't break you with these crazy conditions you set. bile
6 milavert answered
Grab one, hit the other. He's right he can't turn his back on his friends because of you. Just as it was not right for you to do it. But you are also right that it is impossible not to pay any attention to you all night - not a word, not a gesture, not anything. You have to find the golden mean. It is true that when you love you make some compromises - it is very rare not to make compromises. But it's not just about him, it's about you. You can't ask him to fuck his friends and just call him a compromise, because that's not a small part of him. Make some sense of who will go out with whom and when and that's it. It is not the end of the world. In the real world, a relationship like yours is stable and good, as number 3 said - 90% of people live like this all their lives. Your first relationship is - it's normal to make that mistake, but you're losing a person right now,
7 ErikaAH answered
Therefore, never neglect your friends, whether for a boyfriend or something else.
8 lady_shantal_ answered
Your dear, your idea of a love affair is very wrong. If you do not shake off these romantic notions, you will suffer a lot in this life. And don't think that if he doesn't act the way you want, he doesn't love you and doesn't care about you. Give freedom to your partner and do not demand anything and do not expect him to reciprocate with what you have given and you will be much happier and more satisfied. Love and rejoice and give
9 benjaminnotley answered
I know your story so well. Are you S.
10 MichelleeAndrew answered
If a person loves you he will never leave you in the background, after all, and ignore you! A few months ago I broke up with my ex-boyfriend for exactly the same reason, but he also had very good girlfriends and one with whom he went to the cafes with his friends instead of me. They talked all day. When I make a remark to him and he shouts I have friends who need me and I don't want to lose them. I was patient enough and finally left, because even when we had no caresses, he hurried to finish and disappeared into the other room. We went out in a day or two for 30 minutes. After the end, he kept looking for me and begging me to get together, roaring, promising me, but I had decided that I did not need a person who did not need me. A friend had told me, "When you're wondering where to go, ? Just forget it and find another one and remember, he is not the only one, many more will come and go in your heart and when you find the person for you, you will understand why it did not work out with the others!
11 alexxx_fiore answered
Dear girl, I understand to some extent how you feel. I've been in a situation like this, never mind that I'm smaller than you. I think to be brief, my advice is: Give him another chance, and with him, the necessary freedom and start seeing you and your friends, with whom, as far as I understand, you don't go out much anymore. But after a while, talk openly with him and share your desire, tell him that he is important to you and that you want to spend more time together. I think he will like the patience and understanding you would give him and he will understand that you really care about him. If he cares about you too, he will try to satisfy your desire ... if he continues to disregard you, just find someone else. Good luck and remember that patience is important!
12 madicam answered
Dear girl, most women in the beginning think so and voluntarily give up everything without anyone asking us to. We want the other to do the same to give us all his time, but men are not like us. They keep their interests, activities and friends, which is actually normal. In order for your friend to pay attention to you, you have to be interesting to him. This does not mean constantly talking to him and doing some miracles, you just have to learn to have fun without you necessarily need it, to have your own interests and they are not related to him, to be happy and to have other important things besides him. Then there will be something to talk about, to rejoice, to develop. There are many books on the relationship between man and woman, search and read.
13 sylvia60s answered
The truth is in the spirits. If you do them well and you have no boundaries in bed - the problem is solved. He will drink with you, because then he will know that he will get a nice s * irka and he will not sleep for his people.
14 bigsexyass69 answered
To the Author. As far as I can see your spelling, I think you are an intelligent girl and you will understand what I am going to tell you. I don't think you understand what love means and to love. Your idea of love is different. I think you have succumbed to doubts and you are already vibrating at a different frequency energy with your friend and he accepts it. It cannot be explained simply by radiating such energy to him and he receives it unconsciously. At the beginning of your relationship, everything went well as I look at what you wrote, but then things changed because of that. If you haven't broken up, there's still a lot of hope if you still want to fight for it, if you don't start visualizing and thinking about how you met a new partner. Here, read this book and you will understand many things about the life of Louise Hay - Heal your life. You can watch the film translated into Bulgarian, but it is not very detailed. Zake
15 diegomartir answered
You are both small, but you will grow up. You can't be helped at the moment, your age and experience determine your feelings. Take it easy, for example, with the fact that many people have been in your situation, this is the only meaningful (and very true) thing that can be said in love suffering. If you do not perceive your situation as unique, you may suffer less. And time fixes all suffering of this type, a guarantee. _Az_
1 DyskretnyiKonkretny answered
From all this I am left with the impression that you are the one with a child's mind, but this is completely normal. To love means to let the other be as he is. And why don't you concentrate on loving him and not having some expectations and when you are not fulfilled to immediately draw conclusions about him that he doesn't love you and so on. What he does is his job. You should be happy even if you spend half of your free time. Because it is your first relationship, you have nothing to compare with and you look too idealistic. Girls are very influenced by romantic movies. They think that everything is very turbulent, good ... In life it is not like that at all. You are very selfish if you want to dump your friends for you. This will not happen. If you want your attention and think that some boy can give it to you at all (all day together is a very bad idea) is looking for another. From my point of view, you owe the boy an apology. Change your requirements. Find other activities when you are not together ... remember that you are individuals and everyone is responsible for their feelings. Just because you feel neglected doesn't mean he makes you feel that way.