Hello! I have been reading the site for a long time and I decided to publish here as well. I am an 18-year-old girl, I go with a 30-year-old boy .. I know you will say that he uses me, etc., but the truth is that we have been together for 2 years and 3 months :) I have been very thoughtful for a month now. he never forbade me, stopped from something, etc., but if we live together or get married (I don't think the signature changes anything) when I finish 12th grade and then I learn if I will experience all the moments ... He he didn't forbid me to study, and we agreed on a baby when I decided I was ready (of course he was too). We have talked many times and he told me that he will not stop me from anything, that I can study, go to discos, etc. (of course, with him ...) now I also go out with friends, but constantly we call each other and somehow I don't feel good without him. But somehow ... I keep thinking these things ... He is an intelligent man and I don't think I will have any problems with him (for example, going somewhere, etc.). I say I think because I haven't had one so far, but that's exactly what I'm afraid of saying something else afterwards (not that I don't trust him, but I'm just such a person .. I look at the negative side first) We also have an option after I end up going abroad .. we are from a small town and we have no job .. all the people here have no money and can barely make ends meet .... I don't know the language, but he knows English, German, Russian .. do you think that is a good idea :) Please give me advice .. Thanks!
1 sxcstepsisters answered
He is not a boy at the age of 30! ;)