Please give it to me without any comments. The problem is the following. I have been in a relationship with a girl for a long time, 9 months now, we generally fight at the moment for nonsense, but when we see each other and hug, everything calms down, otherwise we often fight on the phone, on Facebook. I'm quite jealous and already in the second, third month I already knew the passwords for Facebook + the whole story for the last 5 years about her, I even recorded something as she shared it with me, while deciding whether to have a serious relationship or not, I thought she was decent, she doesn't lie, she doesn't use me, but I missed a lot of important facts, namely that she is stupid, selfish and at times crazy. During the whole period of our relationship, I did not feel any jealousy in her, but last week we went out with a friend of hers, who has gathered us at least 5 times so far after we quarreled, and she is jealous of the fact that this friend of hers first made her pat her on the back, but she refused, and then me and I patted her 2-3 times. For the first time I felt what it's like for someone to do circuses on the topic of jealousy, I've done it to her countless times, unreasonably, but hers is nth times unreasonable, we were still together, this is her friend and I haven't massaged her, and patted on the back, we did not talk like boyfriends in her presence, but we talked because she was silent and we had a conversation, to sit and all to be silent. Some calm before the storm, I had not seen her in such a light just ... The day before I saw pictures of her, and one with a boy (she did not sleep with him, she did not kiss), but she rode for the picture with some idiot 2 years ago photo and I quarreled with her, why should there be such a photo .. memories I do not know what, I shout ok and I eat for the least because of this picture, I'm picky, but in this case there is something for it, and in hers there isn't? !!
The next day we were out with the car and I called her, let's drive a little. He drove, then on the way back he wanted again, I shouted ok, but I clicked on the phone .. in 5 minutes we would hit each other twice, the girl is hellishly dumb as I said and she doesn't widow at all, I had to watch what she was doing and arguing with me, I'm angry, I shout ok I'm wrong .. The same day in the evening I go to bed and I want to sleep, she does not have sex I do not know what. I was pulling on kisses and everything, but at one point I shouted come on, I'm going to waste a little time and we did what we do there and then I went to bed, but after 1 hour at 2:30 she wakes me up again for sex .. kisses me, it annoys me, I ran and pulled myself, I want you, I want you ... ok, a little bit again and at one point I shout let's go to bed, she didn't get any more angry with her sex and kisses and I was pulling again pulling, at one point and calling you want me, but I don't want you, leave me alone to sleep and she smelled and got angry on the other side. Now I know that I will be angry, we will see each other again and our drama will start again and we will be together ... In principle, for me this is the first serious relationship and when we part for a day, two and we are nervous, after all the emotions I miss her and I wonder how long this will last.
We are 23 years old. For her this is not the first relationship, but it is probably the first relationship with so many extremes, but when I'm without her I somehow try to see that this thing is not normal and not for me, another issue is that I can not to throw myself from relationship to relationship because I fall in love easily, it's hard to break up and I hate lies and use, I've never felt it once before, otherwise, with all these disadvantages, I have left 100 times, but in general, I harass her. My problems are with her sexuality. I had a period when I just didn't have any desire for about a week and she was angry, she got into some crises how I didn't want her, etc. She had a period when she wasn't very well for about a month and we didn't nothing, I didn't insult her once, I didn't get depressed, etc. I sat and yelled at myself when then, big deal, but her sexual impulses resume again and that's exactly when I need to sleep, so I'm got to get up in 8 o'clock, and she is currently unemployed and still asleep (now it's 14:14), that's why I consider it a great selfishness to scratch her ... she wanted me not to bother with nonsense at all. I'm not so sexy if you don't turn me on 100% with lingerie and it's not just sex and I want to eat, but to have fantasy in everything. We quarreled and now we will get along again, but I'm tired. And why is she stupid? That's the way it is, but I tell her where the mistakes are. In one sentence with 10 words she can make 9 mistakes, but at times her thoughts are like a small child's, but somehow this naivety makes me fall in love with her and love her in spite of everything, but we fight for the most the little one.
1 omfgcata answered
Dude, all I know from what I've written is that your girlfriend is very unconscious and has no idea what she wants, no spiritual development and improvement, just sucking and sucking your life energy. And don't forget that whatever you get together with, that's what you become - the stupid girl has decades to catch up to develop, so you're more likely to go to the red or just waste your time.