I love my friend very much and I know that there are no perfect people, but sometimes I notice some hints of aggression towards me. I do not like. For the second time we had a physical collision. The first time was a long time ago, we quarreled and I hit him. I did it to make him realize what he was talking about. I didn't want to hurt him or compete with him, he is over 1.90 tall and probably weighs twice as much as me. He hit me very hard and I fell. Then we clarified, because I was also very guilty, and we forgot the incident. Here is something similar happening again. My best friend is going through a difficult time. We chatted all night on the phone because she was alone and in need. She shared many of her personal thoughts and concerns with me. At one point, my friend decided I was texting someone else and started pulling my phone. We pulled again, he began to twist my arms and pull me.
Since he had already pulled out my phone, I got angry and plucked it. Finally, he pushed, began squeezing my wrists, and said he could crush me. The next moment he grinned and began to reassure me. He was acting crazy and scared me a lot. Honestly, I don't know if he realizes what he's doing. I was angry with him for a few days and he kept following me and asking me "what happened?", Seriously? He is an intelligent man, it is strange that he did not understand. On the fourth day, I told him that it was not normal for him to use his power against me. He apologized to me "okay, sorry" and thought the problem was solved. I don't know, we're a young couple. I can't tell if he's kidding if he doesn't know his strength. He may be very kind and gentle, but at times it bothers me. He was really very aggressive at that moment. I use the "great" force when I feel defenseless and there is nothing else I can do. Why does he do it? !?
1 onegreatdivats answered
It doesn't sound harmless.