People In The Small Town

   Which is this town or at least in which area is it, I am a woman in the same situation and we would be useful

   It was good, how do you find them and get along with such men !!! ???

   It has always been strange to me that the people of the small town do such nonsense. I'm sorry, but you're on their minds too. What do you care who says what, etc.? When it irritates you so much, grab your pears and live elsewhere. What else can I tell you?

   Hello, I know everything very well. The only solution is not to care, to have a few close people, the rest to say what they want. If you can achieve that. If you don't move, otherwise they will ruin your life. And finding a new man will affect him as they affect you. I don't live in a village, but I have a grandmother in a village, I know how to gossip. The gossip for me too, I go once a year and I don't beat almost anyone. They meet me on the street, talk to me and ask me, and I lie to them and joke with them. Lower slugs feeding on gossip and misery. Get out of there.

   It is very difficult for me to judge the real situation based on your scarce information. Some things seem quite subjective to me, such as that he had caught a girlfriend "for your punishment." He caught a friend to sleep with her .... On the other hand, I have lived in such small towns and I know how it is .... the combination of mediocre people and lack of other entertainment pushes people en masse to interfere in the personal life of others, to be stunned, etc ... Unfortunately, the only normal way to avoid the situation is to move to another place, which you exclude as an opportunity ... I would do something else, but this is purely male logic and no the mother has no will to do so: if they rebuke you for not letting him see the child, I would go to them and take him with the words. "

   Look now, you should at least care about his new girlfriend's parents, just because after a while she'll come to your hall and then they'll be ashamed to show up. People like your ex don't change and are unlikely to be any different with her. And for the rest of the people you don't care, look after your child, find another activity, go out with friends if you can count on yours for the child. Just delete it from your life, if he still wants to see it, don't restrict his access, but if he creates problems, file complaints where necessary. You did the right thing, unlike other women who have endured such harassment all their lives and their children become either abusers or victims. For people, as I told you not to care, it is very easy to give sentences on someone else's back without experiencing what you have experienced. Success!

   come to sofia, here you will merge with the crowd Catch someone take the child and welcome She is almost all of Bulgaria is here so two more or less is still this If there is no one I will find you only the moderators to allow and at the same time Sounds simply but that is the situation

   No way! What age do you live in? !! Watch your child and your own peace. Don't deal with them. They will teach you and stop dealing with you. Nobody knows what has never happened before, but apparently your fellow citizens have no other entertainment.

   Don't think about the others, make sure you are well, as soon as he finds another, it's not a commodity ... Don't care ...

   So ... I give advice immediately! You don't care, but you don't care! I went through the same ordeal, but! I have never, to anyone, given an account or explained myself. My family knew what it was about, and so did a handful of people close to me. From there, everyone should think what they want. So whoever knows you should not be influenced by intrigue. Well, he and I were making a great martyr, he wanted a child, he was waving lovers, but when they realized how much money it cost, he tried to take it home. He started threatening to kill himself, circus as much as you want! He did not pay alimony, I gave it to a bailiff and at least in this respect he corrected himself. He hasn't looked for his child for 5 years - he probably says that I don't give it to him. But knowing the truth, I don't care at all. Watch your child, you will see that sooner or later the truth will shine on its own.

   This is your version. What filth have you created, you don't brush your teeth, and nothing happens without a reason or counteraction. I can only remember such chirping stories.

   Unfortunately, this is the case in small settlements, people gossip and they judge without even inquiring how things actually stand on the other side. You have 2 options, you stop caring about people's opinion and you walk with your head held high or you take your child and move to a bigger city where no one will know you and you start your life fresh.

   And in the big cities people get confused and gossip, I don't think it's only in the small town, but it is massive in Bulgaria.