People Back Off For No Reason

Look, if it's one person, it happens if there's two of them - you've already opened your eyes wide, but if there's three of them, then it's you. You know what annoys people, but you don't want to admit it to yourself.

By the middle of the text, I knew you were annoying and obsessive. Obviously, you like to intrude and suffocate others, and that sucks. To avoid being there is a reason. Consult a psychologist. I think you have a behavioral problem that everyone but you has been seeing for miles. Candy

Are you critical and/or envious? Personally, I can't stand it.

There is no such thing as "female friendship" in principle. things are so emotional with you that it is hard to tolerate for more than a week, if only you did. Look, I'd be really surprised if you can't keep male friends around you. Unless the male friends are just some hitmen who hoped to sleep with you. Everyone else would tolerate you at least - and I don't see you being curvy and simple the way you write.

Are you from Sofia? Here, people are just like that- temeruts and crazy. The arrivals are mostly of this type, too.

I don't know the reason at all, and that's why I'm wondering. To number 1 from the author

You can't have any suspicions. In general, you sound a little obsessive, as if you have the expectation that all people should like you. I don't know what the reason is to write to celebrities, but it sounded strange. Unless it's business. If you want to praise their creativity, then this is done through public comments. Writing them a private message means to me to hold an answer. That means demanding attention, and when they meet you somewhere, they might be worried that you're going to get attention again, and the timing isn't right. Especially if you look at them with one, such an waiting look. I'm not a celebrity, but it happens to me that someone wants to praise my work, of course I'm happy and thank you to the person. But sometimes he keeps writing things to me, trying to tie up a conversation, and I'm busy and diverting politely. Then he starts texting me about every holiday, and I still feel obliged, if the person is kind to answer him, even though I don't really want to communicate, I really don't have the time and energy for it. Then when I see this person live, whether for a walk, if at an event, I'm really afraid to look at him, because it's possible that he'il still get a lot of attention from me. It takes me a long time not to get a hint if it gets uncomfortable and the worst of it to force me to be rude. What I'm not and I don't want to be. And I'm trying to pretend that I didn't see him until he literally stood in front of me, not understanding that this wasn't the right time and place. Then I take a look like that - don't even think about talking to me right now. The guy can be very cool and good, but he demands from the beginning. If he likes what I'm really doing, it's more appropriate to praise me publicly to support my business. No, to demand my personal time and attention. Maybe you pay too much attention to the people around you, and they worry that they can't fight back with the same thing, and instead of constantly hurting you, they prefer to stop communicating. The other thing that made an impression on me is that you haven't found any, not even a tiny reason in yourself. Maybe I'm a little more emotional. And you're pretty emotional. Many people find it difficult to communicate with emotional people because they are usually more offensive, sensitive and a little, as if you have to walk around them. And that's getting pretty tired of measuring every word. I don't know, I'm thinking. Now we're going to see how you respond to criticism and make it clearer.

5, the temerut is you. Normal people don't swear for no reason. Author, there's something wrong with your writing. Beautiful, smart, sociable, kind, overlapping, all sorts of times. I don't see any real reason why people should abuse you. Do you live in a goblins and dwarves that envy you all? You're missing a description. Assuming you're not exaggerating, and they're really starting to curse you, toothy... Crummy. You're doing something and you're not saying what it is. Sarcastic tone, constant pointing of error, hmm? There's no way everyone's crooked, you're right. So either ask your friend which parts of your "unique" character (a word often used to disguise disabilities) need an angle grinder, or stop looking for friends in the psychodispanser.

It's time to answer your questions. I've decided to answer you because number 7 would like to see me take criticism. About two- What's obsessive and annoying about me? It's just a day. I don't really communicate with people at all. In messenger, I only have a chat with my friend, my colleagues, and here we have someone from two months ago as a happy Christmas. I don't even write at all. Honestly, I only write on holidays to congratulate and so much. A psychologist, I've been to it, but it was years ago and it was on a different subject. At the time, I was desperate that if I didn't succeed in my job and couldn't prove myself, I wouldn't have the income i needed to live the way I live now, but I got through it, got over the problems, and now I'm working what I want. No behavioural problems were noticed at all. to 3- I'm not critical. Definitely. I accept people as poor, rich, gay, lesbian, drug addicts, decent people. I never told anyone why you were like that, why you're not who you are, why don't you wear what your clothes are. I was even asked by a boy how I accept people for who they are. And for envy, neither. I'm happy with my life, except that people are backing away from my looks, my boyfriend, my job. I don't have to be jealous. On the contrary, if someone buys a $1 million house, I tell him you've worked, you've made a nice house, not to malice. to 4-I had a lot of male friends, meaning I only moved a male circle. I was going out, we didn't have anything sexual. I had some best men friends, but my fiancé was jealous because they didn't like him and made me dump him and he told me I had to choose and I chose him. And for women, I had girlfriends, but I got dumped like I said. And there's the girl in me, going out for coffees, shopping malls, talking. I'm not an introvert. to 5-Yes, I'm from Sofia, a local sofia girl, but it doesn't confuse me with who's where. to 7- I'm not obsessed, as I said I don't even write to anyone, nor call. If I write to them regularly, I become obsessive. If I didn't write to them, then I was disinterested, i didn't look for them. And it doesn't have a golden environment. Otherwise, you're right to believe that I want all people to like me. I don't want compliments, i just want to say hi when you see me. Nothing more. I'm just not being sedented. I tell them celebrities, write them personal messages, that I like their creativity, and then I try to tie up a conversation because I think they can have ordinary friends. Why do you only need famous ones? A girl who is famous constantly goes out only with fans, even invites them to her house, let go to live, and when I write to her and I want her to go out with me, she ignores me, and I don't know why. And I stopped writing. I don't write to famous people anymore. Otherwise, ordinary people don't pay so much attention, it makes sense that if I have time and someone says to see each other, we go out, but if I don't have time, we don't go out. I'm not pushing myself. You've got a lot of emotion here. I'm not joking, I'm angry, I'm emotional quite a lot and I really walk on thin ice around me. But I don't show that I'm hurt, they say something I don't like, but I pretend nothing is there and I'm living it internally. I'm the only one who's been told that something has affected me. But if someone goes too far with me, I end up getting angry and yelling at them and stopping looking for them. It's good, it's good, but I have feelings, but you're right about the thin ice. Maybe I'il try to become famous so I can communicate with the famous. I guess there's no other option. And no, I don't want to have famous friends. Maybe they're normal people. I prefer normal ones, but I know a lot of people who go to parties with the famous and they're not famous, and I wondered why I couldn't have fun.

You're very detailed, mom. And people don't really care about you or your life, even your friends. So :) Otherwise, I'm convinced that the things you write, most of them are the way you said and you feel them that way. I'm not ruling out any "behemath" from making rumors and slandering you in front of others. And others, because they can't ask directly (yes, it's terrible, right in the eye), prefer to avoid you. You've got nothing to regret, you've obviously never been important to your "best" friends. And so on. Be alive and well!

From No. You exhibit classic symptoms of emotional dependence. You can read what this means on Google, choose to read about the condition from a psychologist's website, not from these women's sites. When you learn more, you'il know that things may be rooted in the attitude of one of your parents. If so, maybe you'il find it hard to work on yourself, and it's better to be referred by a psychologist.

8, I spoke of the people around her, not her. But you're also proving that the Balkans are a pulp with poisonous people - a misunderstood jumps without asking to offend! I feel bad about most people in the big cities, and I'm from Sofia, not that anything.