Hello, I am writing in order to get some really adequate advice and to calm down. I am 19 years old, my friend with whom we live together at the age of 25. He has a twin brother (they are identical), and here comes the problem, but I am jealous of his brother, there is a very strong connection between them, they constantly communicate. My boyfriend does not talk to me, does not share with me, does not get excited about our conversations, does not tell me anything when he has a problem, shares it with him, not with me, does not feel interest when he has already shared it with someone and received advice .. I am very annoyed because she tells him absolutely everything, and I do not like these things, whatever it is in the relationship to stay there .. His brother also has a girlfriend, both couples have been together for 4 years and we live on one floor, with her I don't like it at all "we look at blood". In fact, nothing secret can remain between us, his brother always knows where we are, who we are with, what we eat and drink ... I have no friends, only he is mine and I expect that when something happens he will share me and support each other ... I am annoyed that they are talking about women maybe the like .. Every time I call him his phone is busy and I get angry that instead of calling me to hear me, he constantly talks to the other ... I'm jealous because they have their own language to speak when something happens looking for him first, I feel in the background. :( I don't want to quarrel or separate, don't get me wrong, but cars, motorcycles, clothes, shoes are all the same .. When I buy something from my friend then his brother buys it ... There is always competition between us 4 So ... What should I do Am I right to be angry or do I not think soberly? I can't judge things only he is me and I expect when something happens to share me and support each other ... I'm annoyed that they talk about women maybe the like .. Every time I call him his phone is busy and I get angry that instead of he calls me to hear me, he is constantly talking to the other ... I am jealous because they have their own language to speak, when something happens they look for him first, I feel in the background. :( I don't want to quarrel or separate, don't get me wrong, but cars, motorcycles, clothes, shoes are all the same .. When I buy something for my friend then his brother buys it ... There is always competition between us 4 So ... What should I do? Am I right to be angry or do I not think soberly? I can't judge things only he is me and I expect when something happens to share me and support each other ... I am annoyed that they talk about women maybe the like .. Every time I call him his phone is busy and I get angry that instead of he calls me to hear me, he is constantly talking to the other ... I am jealous because they have their own language to speak, when something happens they look for him first, I feel in the background. :( I don't want to quarrel or separate, don't get me wrong, but cars, motorcycles, clothes, shoes are all the same .. When I buy something from my friend then his brother buys it ... There is always competition between us 4 So ... What should I do? Am I right to be angry or do I not think soberly? I can't judge things Every time I call him his phone is busy and I get angry that instead of calling me to hear me, he is constantly talking to the other ... I am jealous because they have their own language to speak, when something happens he looks for him first, I feel in the background. :( I don't want to quarrel or separate, don't get me wrong, but cars, motorcycles, clothes, shoes are all the same .. When I buy something from my friend then his brother buys it ... There is always competition between us 4 So ... What should I do? Am I right to be angry or do I not think soberly? I can't judge things Every time I call him his phone is busy and I get angry that instead of calling me to hear me, he is constantly talking to the other ... I am jealous because they have their own language to speak, when something happens they look for him first, I feel in the background. :( I don't want to quarrel or separate, don't get me wrong, but cars, motorcycles, clothes, shoes are all the same .. When I buy something for my friend then his brother buys it ... There is always competition between us 4 So ... What should I do? Am I right to be angry or do I not think soberly? I can't judge things
1 natalieoffduty answered
Honey, they were together in the mother's womb. It's normal to have a strong relationship. I say that because I have the same observations. My friend has twins, they are identical, but somehow I got used to both. I came to terms with the fact that their connection is stronger than that with me. I do not get annoyed, on the contrary, I talk every day with both, we share, and when I quarrel with one, the other makes us better. At times they come in more, yes, but in general we are fine.