Hello! I did not find a topic like mine, so I decided to ask if anyone would give me advice or if he was in a similar situation. Girl, I'm almost 20. The reason I haven't done it yet is not so much the lack of a suitable person, but the panic I start to feel almost every time I kiss a boy. Panic attacks, depressive states, worries and low self-esteem ... all this prevents me from having a full-fledged relationship and a normal sex life ... As cool as it is for me to push with a boy I like, a panic starts to rise. , doubts, arrhythmia, I'm short of breath ... it's awful! When it comes to sex, even if I want to, I run away. I have taken measures, I go to a therapist, I struggle with my problems, but I still find it difficult to relax, and I want so much:
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Seek the help of a psychologist. I don't think the problem is a joke, but I believe you will be able to deal with specialized help. You are not too old, the right boy will come when you overcome the panic.