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Pain During Vaginal Sex

By louise_mv October 16, 2020 40 answers Last updated October 16, 2020

My problem may be a little dumb. I am a girl of 16. When I have sex a little longer and it starts to hurt. And one more thing - No matter how hard we try, my friend can't put it in my back.

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crazy_girl4u_ answered · October 16, 2020

   You have to try to get it in yourself. But try slowly slowly until you feel good. He will come in on his own and you will probably want to be inside. Feel him empty. fucking

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syria_babygirl answered · October 16, 2020

   HELLO, YOU ARE STILL VERY LITTLE TO HAVE ANAL SEX. IF YOU START FROM NOW ON, YOU WILL HAVE PROBLEMS, BECAUSE THE MUSCLET IS GRADUALLY RELAXING. STILL, IN RARE CASES, YOU CAN DO IT, FOR EXAMPLE AS A SPECIAL GIFT FOR YOUR FRIEND. RELATING TO PAIN PHARMACIES ARE SELLING SPECIAL MOISTURIZING CREAMS WHICH ARE USED FOR BOTH THE VAGINAL AND THE ANOS.

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nairo.quintana answered · October 16, 2020

   To the topic is for no comment, but ... 1. Take read a few books, become literate, find out what sex is and then wonder where to get it back

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Cocoabunni69 answered · October 16, 2020

   Well, it's normal for you to be in pain with more sex and it's the same with me, and I don't know about the back, I don't give it there :)))

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cwthe100 answered · October 16, 2020

   Honey, forget about anal sex! This is disgusting! Terribly unhealthy and full of pain. If you don't want to make a fuss over time ... don't do it. Now many things in the craft will say that after a while you get used to it and it's even nice ... Don't! And you don't mention where exactly it hurts during normal sexual intercourse? Could it be due to not getting enough moisture and rubbing? And you're still tiny ... but everything will be fine. I wish you success and smart! Only with a condom!

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izumisun answered · October 16, 2020

   Everyone is different

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bubamilfx answered · October 16, 2020

   Well, let me have your problems - with perseverance everything is achieved, but you need intelligence for this job .... and a few years more ..

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thekevinsalazar answered · October 16, 2020

   Honey, isn't that a little small for these things?

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riri_dada answered · October 16, 2020

   I'm not. I'll be 17 soon. Just don't scold me so much for my age. The first problem is much more important.

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kababies answered · October 16, 2020

   What can I tell you, I'm 15 years old and I've already done it for the first time. It wasn't the most pleasant thing in my life, but it's not a pain to die. just one piece of advice I give you do not have anal sex because of a friend of mine grandmother and works in Greece. and she told me how the Greeks loved anal sex very much and now that they have accumulated a few years on top and it is a muscle and it relaxes and without feeling it starts to fall out and so you better have fun in front of you and the pain is normal go Ask at a pharmacy and immediately find a solution.

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lovely55555 answered · October 16, 2020

   LISTEN TO SLADUR4E, GO TO THE GYNECOLOGIST! DON'T GUESS6! IN NO RARE CASES IS VAGINOSIS PAIN DURING PENETRATION, ON A MENTAL BASIS! DON'T WORRY! JUST TALK TO A COMPETENT PERSON! SUCCESS!

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milknmilf answered · October 16, 2020

   I think you have to forget about anal sex is really disgusting. Pleasure is not preferable. Well ... you still say the last word, but if you think a little more about anal it won't be bad! Good luck darling ....

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AllyAnderson answered · October 16, 2020

   If you want to do it in the back, you have to be well moistened and relax ... it may hurt a little, but everything will be fine, it's not scary .... and I did it with my friend for the first time 3 days ago ... just relax and everything will be ok ... good luck darling ..

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rockie91 answered · October 17, 2020

   Mila, I think it's better not to have anal sex .. this is something disgusting and painful for me, but you decide .. it's SUCCESS !!

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loczek11 answered · October 17, 2020

   Many of my friends have said that the best orgasms happen in the anus, so ... draw your own conclusions

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itspapsdood answered · October 17, 2020

   :) Girl, do you know what anal sex hides ???? Remember, when you go to the toilet in great need, where do you get relief ??? And if you know, how many bacteria are there? And after anal - make it vaginal and you will bloom and tie! About the pain during sex - you don't get aroused enough, that is, or it's a little rough. Just tell him to stop when you feel pain and get aroused! It is! Think with your head, not with ....... Medical student

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peteredmiston answered · October 17, 2020

   Any young girl who has not tried anal sex or tried 2-3 times with a teenager who does not yet know if he urinates or has sex, will tell you "anal sex is disgusting and very painful." Then comes the legend that mothers and grandmothers protect their girls' buttocks, that the anal muscles relax over time and you will start pushing one day. It's like someone telling you that if you go to the gym after a while, your arm muscles (for example) will relax and you won't be able to move them. Anal sex is very pleasant and even useful if done properly. Always with a condom, with a lot of lubricant and if after anal you want to have vaginal sex, you have to change the condom with a new one. In order to be as pleasant as possible for both of them, the girl must have previously washed her ass (enema), so she will not be afraid of dropping out during sex, nor will it be dirty and smell. I know that now all eighth graders who read here will think of me as some crazy or pervert, but after a while they will grow up they will understand how right I am and how pleasant anal sex is.

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gokhan.degirmenci answered · October 17, 2020

   Bravo № 18. Things must be explained in an intelligent way! This is the way younger people get knowledge and good advice. This is the way to get a good sexual culture! You are very right and I think so. Girlfriend of 36! Cheers !!

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mrpar440 answered · October 17, 2020

   I want to tell you darling that it is better to wait a little longer to grow at least 20 to start anal sex and again for vaginal sex at 18 so you will grow they will expand and you will be much more pleasant.

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exgordinhoo answered · October 18, 2020

   Hello, I am 15 and I will go to a party with my friend, he has been asking me for a long time when we will do it, but I keep putting it off and I promised him that I will let him go to this party. torn condom pls help me party is after 2 days

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republicrecords answered · October 18, 2020

   Well, I can't tell you anything, I'm afraid and I don't make others successful

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alicia_start answered · October 18, 2020

   Everyone should think that what they know is stronger in my vagina is my opinion

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redgirlhot answered · October 18, 2020

   Well, let me tell you, just look for a solution to the problem, I understand some things, I'm younger than you, but I've already done it twice and it was great. I have no complaints.

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bibliskistihovi answered · October 19, 2020

   Where is the world going .. 15-16 year olds have sex. Where did you go to take off your pants after you did not understand the basics. It hurt .. the back was missing .. Get literate a little later then have sex. You're just pathetic ... you're talking about things you don't understand at all and you want help from people who can't know exactly what your problem is. A 16-year-old girl writes about anal sex ... so do you have any idea, girl, how exactly this happens. Judging by what you and your friend have written, he doesn't seem to know what to do.

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salutation9 answered · October 19, 2020

   agree with 27. No longer 15-16 years old and as I read and 13 there are and are proud of this great understanding.

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cloudystr8pecker answered · October 19, 2020

   Off quo kat is a little bee and I'm 16 and I have sex and quo of yours .. ?? The girl wants to ask you why and you rush ..

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selestagold answered · October 19, 2020

   Number 2 was how small she was at 136 to do it

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guinness answered · October 19, 2020

   Once you get along, do it, but with someone more experienced who knows what he's doing. I personally mn. I like anal sex during intercourse I get so wet from in front of me so much that I feel uncomfortable because of that I have no words just :) Always use a lubricant and a condom for anal

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AddieD answered · October 19, 2020

   Wow ... CHILDREN! You don't have menses yet, but you have started having sex! And anal? !!

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ladystarkie answered · October 20, 2020

   №5-Enough with these traffic jam tips! 579

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Love_HaruChan answered · October 20, 2020

   № 33 if you ask me № 5 is very right .. I don't think the advice is for traffic jams .. take read some literature on what anal sex leads to .. practice and then express an opinion .. and I had an acquaintance who liked to put it there but finally the anus and it became like a May rose but everyone knows about themselves .. if you like it do but do not label a traffic jam of people who know the consequences and are aware of how things are.

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LusciousAss answered · October 20, 2020

   Since I have never had sex I want to ask what is anal and what is vaginal sex?

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mazedesire answered · October 20, 2020

   № 37 :) how old are you :)) - anal sex is in the ass :) and the vaginal front in the bagpipe hahaha, I don't know how to write it :))

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macigrace answered · October 20, 2020

   If I didn't know what anal sex was, I wouldn't ask!

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marmaladeonix answered · October 20, 2020

   I get fucked anal regularly. It was difficult for me the first time too, but it gets used to. Swallow it and spit it out so it will get wet and if you buy a humidifier for her - it helps. Good luck.

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nooralotta answered · October 20, 2020

   Don't listen to number 2 at all, you won't relax a muscle (unless you're a prostitute and only give there). I also started with anal also at 16, I am currently 20 and I have no problems. If you do not have the opportunity for an enema, "fix" at home: 2 hours before sex you go out in great need, then go to the bathroom and wash well with the ladies' shower (bought from the pharmacy and costs up to BGN 10) and some intimate gel. Use a lubricant (necessarily water-based) or Vaseline (in a box) and MANDATORY condom. Let your boyfriend arouse you nicely and gently put his finger in your ass until you relax completely! As for vaginal sex, you just need extra hydration because you're still young and you can't completely moisturize yourself ... your pain comes from rubbing. With the use of lubricant or saliva, things will get better and you will fully enjoy sex! Success :)) 32

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sadbaby6 answered · October 21, 2020

   The purpose of sex is to reproduce humanity, to play with the passionate pleasures of the flesh will lead to stupidity for everything there is a measure! Excessive sex can lead to a loss of intelligence, because it consumes a lot of mental and physical energy and can fall into a dangerous direction in life, because sex is very distracting and knocks down the thoughts of anyone who overdoes it.

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sensual_vanessa answered · October 21, 2020

   Dear young ladies and gentlemen, do not engage in non-standard sexual practices that lead to life risks if you want to live on. good life beware of this evil, if you have extramarital sex before starting a family with other partners you will suffer severe consequences, what a person has sown it will reap in the future and everything will be clear! (nothing can be hidden) if you want to have a clean sex life be faithful to each other for the rest of your life, do not change partners because God loves your faithful halves, never cheat! love one another and bless one another with love and peace

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bigdaddyd1134 answered · October 21, 2020

   Hello! I am a girl and I am 18 years old. I have a friend and I love him so much that I decided he would be my first. He is 19 and it was his first time. Well ... we did it a month ago somewhere, and the first time it hurt a lot, but the pain didn't go away, it hurts, not so much, but when I hurry a little more it starts to hurt and I start to dry down pretty quickly down there .. Probably this is the cause of my pain. He is quite careful, and I'm very quick to hurry, but he quickly starts to hurt me, to make me uncomfortable. However, at the beginning of intercourse, it hurts when he puts his penis in me, but it passes quickly, but this is quite normal for inexperienced girls in foreplay. Then, once his cock is in me and it's at a medium-slow pace, it's pretty cool, but then it happens, which I wrote to you at the beginning We decided to buy a lubricant and be at a slower pace until I get aroused enough and only then to accelerate the pace as a solution. I hope I helped someone. :) I would also like to comment on 12-16 year old sex practitioners. I do not support or tolerate a girl giving her virginity from 12 to 15 or even 16 years of age. I think that at this age a girl is not fully mature, not only physically but also mentally, to have sex. Yes, I know that not everyone is the same and it depends on the person, but even if you have a friend and he insists, then he is not the right one .. And if he doesn't insist and you want to, don't hurry, virginity is one .. And if you are more great and you have a serious friend and you love each other there is nothing wrong with giving him this gift after 15 or 16 years of age. The important thing is to be sure that he is the right one and that you will not regret it afterwards, also the girl must have some maturity, because nowadays they have sex only because it is fashionable or because everyone does it. And before you have sex, it's good to be a little interested in this topic, to read .. For example: whether it hurts or not, that it depends on many things, that it is not a promise or the like .. You have to think with the head, ladies and always with a condom. I wish you success and thank you for your attention. :) that it's not a promise or anything like that. You have to think with your head, ladies and always with a condom. I wish you success and thank you for your attention. :) that it's not a promise or anything like that. You have to think with your head, ladies and always with a condom. I wish you success and thank you for your attention. :)

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swedishpm answered · October 21, 2020

   It is normal for you to be in pain ... the feeling is more like burning, isn't it ... it's because you rub yourself, but to know that the boy hurts sometimes not only you ... but it won't happen in the back until you relax;)) ) I know from personal experience; **