Hello! I have the following problem and I want advice. At the age of 22, I was raped. I was a virgin. After that incident, I didn't want to look at a man, let alone have sex. After a certain time / about 6 years/nature more or less said its word and naturally the natural urge to have sex awoke in me. I found a partner, but it turned out that there was a small but not insignificant obstacle to it. I feel hellish pain at the very attempt to penetrate me.
We tried 2-3 times but to no avail. Eventually, he gave up and left me. I have a good friend with whom I shared and we decided to see what it was all about. When he tried with his finger, there was no problem with penetration, but when he tried to insert it, he told me that he felt a barrier. He entered me once but in a very naughty position. After a while, we tried to do it again, but the same problem arose - the pain. Can anyone tell me what this is due to? Is it psychologically based or am I just too narrow? Please help me!
1 the_foxes_say answered
I think a gynecologist would help you more than any opinion here. Success!