Try something out of the ordinary. Why don't you run to a friend they won't think of. I don't know if you have the so-called "awe" that most children have, but when you get bored, there's nothing wrong with hiding with a friend, a relative, or people who will understand you. Try it with your aunt if she doesn't mind. My mother and aunt were like that. My mother is older, but at the same time "stupider". However, my aunt did not treat her badly and does not do so to this day. To this day, they help each other. The problem was with their parents. Gradually, my mother hated herself and kept telling me that she was stupid, that she was useless, even though that wasn't true. So, can you answer me: 1. Do you hate your sister? 2. Is she thinking of something more than you or is she trying to get into your situation? 3. Did you tell your sister how you were feeling? If the answers are: 1. No. 2. He understands me and tries to help me. 3. Of course, she is my sister! It does not need to pay attention to your parents and their attitude towards you, especially if you are sensitive and emotional. Learn something very important that most people don't have: don't care about anything that doesn't make sense. In this case, you can just imagine. But if the answers are the complete opposite of what I told you, rest assured that you can escape;). P.P. For №3, if you didn't tell her, do it and see the result. Not that anything, but can you reply to the comment in the messages if you don't have a problem ^. ^. girl / 14 years It does not need to pay attention to your parents and their attitude towards you, especially if you are sensitive and emotional. Learn something very important that most people don't have: don't care about anything that doesn't make sense. In this case, you can just imagine. But if the answers are the complete opposite of what I told you, rest assured that you can escape;). P.P. For №3, if you didn't tell her, do it and see the result. Not that anything, but can you reply to the comment in the messages if you don't have a problem ^. ^. girl / 14 years It does not need to pay attention to your parents and their attitude towards you, especially if you are sensitive and emotional. Learn something very important that most people don't have: don't care about anything that doesn't make sense. In this case, you can just imagine. But if the answers are the complete opposite of what I told you, rest assured that you can escape;). P.P. For №3, if you didn't tell her, do it and see the result. Not that anything, but can you reply to the comment in the messages if you don't have a problem ^. ^. girl / 14 years Q. For №3, if you didn't tell her, do it and see the result. Not that anything, but can you reply to the comment in the messages if you don't have a problem ^. ^. girl / 14 years Q. For №3, if you didn't tell her, do it and see the result. Not that anything, but can you reply to the comment in the messages if you don't have a problem ^. ^. girl / 14 years
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This is the eternal dilemma, especially of the older child, who has lived as an only child for some time. Your problem is that you are same-sex and twin. There are no such problems with three children, so it is recommended to have either 1 child, or three children, or five children, but never an even number, but anyway. You describe the problem from your point of view, but for your parents maybe is quite another. Besides, your parents are just people and they make mistakes. In my opinion, if it is true that they are ignoring you, they are trying to manipulate you to change in the direction of your sister. She's probably just playing their whistle more than you are. However, if you talk to her, you will understand that it is not easy for her to always meet their wishes. People like her sometimes break up and make a revolution :) You just don't play their whistle or you're not that, which they have imagined and imagine that by refusing attention, love and comparisons they will change you in the desired direction. Error! Yes, we all have the right to unconditional love from our parents, but not all parents are willing or able to give it, simply because they are damaged children of parents like them. The solution for you is to accept things as they are. You can't change your parents, but you can get rid of your jealousy and look for bridges to your sister, who most likely really loves you the way you are. Separately for the dog - it is family. Don't take it personally, but most likely your parents themselves wanted a dog as a child or your sister was just more convincing and had to do something to get that dog, but the dog is here - it's yours too. It's a pity you feel that way, but self-pity doesn't work. Learn to love yourself, to look for pleasure in things outside the home, you in turn to love people unconditionally, and your parents love you in their own way and want only the best for you and therefore try to manipulate you to be more -good student and so on. It is a pity, however, that they do it with rejection, denial of love and attention .... forgive them and you will feel better.