I am an 18-year-old girl and I am about to graduate. Since I am still studying, I live with ours. As for school, they have never limited me and set rules, they are not the ones who want me to be perfect. But I myself am studious, more modest and shy, but ambitious and hardworking otherwise. However, the problem is in the control over me and their behavior - it has not changed since 1st grade, seriously! To them, I'm still the little girl and they're looking at me in a pot! I understand that they want to protect me, but that's too much. After all, I am already a woman, whether they want to accept it or not. I have never been one of those who go to discos, get drunk, go out in big companies and do not go home. I go out for coffee a maximum of once a week during the day and 100 calls from them follow - where I am, who I am with, what I do. Now the vacation is even tighter! I will celebrate the first new year with friends, and our people are about to have a heart attack if someone doesn't do something to me. I chose a dress that was tighter (not naked, it's warm), and my father said I wouldn't wear this even if I had a sweater and pants. We argued a lot and finally I said that at 18 they have no right to tell me what to do. I know I live in their home, but I've always respected them, I can't stand it! They don't let me have a boyfriend because it's good to be a virgin until I get married or live with a serious man, like we're in the 19th century! And they are not Muslims, they are not even believers, they are just very old-fashioned! I'm not a money launderer, a drunk or a drug addict, or a boy. What more do they want If I really moved out, I won't let them interfere with me! I love them very much, but conversations don't help. First they argue that they think well of me, then they roar at me that they love me very much and they won't do that again, and finally the old song in a new voice! I also have a little brother, he is also obsessed, but he is quite small after all. PP My father's parents were very strict (my grandfather - a former general, my grandmother - a teacher), they, alive and well, have a very big impact on my family. We live in a medium-sized city otherwise, albeit a district one. And my mother comes from a village, and although they are quite educated with my father, they are not broad-minded and have a conservative mindset. I decided to share so you know what it's about. The other grandparents are the same and influential. In fact, I am alone against everyone. My father's parents were very strict (my grandfather - a former general, my grandmother - a teacher), they, alive and well, have a very big impact on my family. We live in a medium-sized city otherwise, albeit a district one. And my mother comes from a village, and although they are quite educated with my father, they are not broad-minded and have a conservative mindset. I decided to share so you know what it's about. The other grandparents are the same and influential. In fact, I am alone against everyone. My father's parents were very strict (my grandfather - a former general, my grandmother - a teacher), they, alive and well, have a very big impact on my family. We live in a medium-sized city otherwise, albeit a district one. And my mother comes from a village, and although they are quite educated with my father, they are not broad-minded and have a conservative mindset. I decided to share so you know what it's about. The other grandparents are the same and influential. In fact, I am alone against everyone. The other grandparents are the same and influential. In fact, I am alone against everyone. The other grandparents are the same and influential. In fact, I am alone against everyone.
1 takeyourtime623 answered
Well done to you. Here with such discipline everything will be fine. And not at the age of 16 to give whistles to drink and take drugs. Listen to yours and you will succeed. In time you will be very happy and grateful to them. God bless everyone with such parents. I have seen the consequences of bad parents who have given up on their children - such children become criminals and then have no friends and cannot find work.