I am a woman over 40 and I want to get married a second time. The person is decent, educated, caring. However, there was absolute hell. My friends told me that I was crazy to get married, that it was unhealthy to sleep with men / true, I tried before with another /, but they did not ask me how I drove her for so many years alone with the children on holidays and weekdays. My aunt visited me at work to talk to me - I would make a big mistake, I had to live alone, the children are always angry, they do my tricks, they raise my blood pressure, especially my daughter, and my mother raised a great scandal, I scream like crazy if marry this idiot, simpleton, fat, etc. she would not look at me while she was alive, she would give up on me. I only had to live for my children, then raise my grandchildren! He sets my children badly quite consciously. He does not live with us. For a month everyone, including my student son, they boycotted me completely and didn't even want to talk to me. They don't know me. His do the same. We met in a miracle. Only one of my cousins said: Fuck them all! The bad thing is that it affects us badly and we started arguing about other people's simple things. Tell me what to do
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I am a man of about 40 happy with 3 children and a woman with whom I get along. Girl, aunt mom and dad at this age can be neither advisers nor judges. Live your life. The children will understand you sooner or later. You don't have many opportunities and chances left / I mean the years / don't be angry !!!! In old age you have to have a man next to you. If you love someone at this age - BRAVO. Decide for yourself, but I advise you - Listen to reason. You will hear a lot of opinions here. Choose the right one for you and be happy !!!!!!!!