I have a question because I can't explain it myself. I had 2 intimate partners + my current boyfriend - 3. I've done orals for the previous two, but I'm not for my current boyfriend .. Before I didn't mind doing it, but now something is stopping me and I don't know what it is .. Please for some opinions. Thanks in advance :)
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No one owes anyone! Even in love and sex. You have no desire for something - you do not. If your friend doesn't show understanding, it wasn't worth it. And remember from me: He who gives a lot, in the end is still fucked. It's elementary :)
if he doesn't do it to you, he doesn't do it to you, it's that simple ... The fact that men rarely do women in porn doesn't mean that women don't need it either, so ask for yours and give it to him. Apparently you went through the last 2 so they used you for it and didn't do it to you. Personally, I didn't do such a thing to women, I never even wanted to, but I took my girlfriend more seriously and now, if I don't do it, I'll go crazy, it excites me to do a hell of a lot to her, and then I can show claims she how to make me. If only she did that, if I didn't do it several times in a row, I feel like a super big user and I'm not happy.
The thing that stops you, I think, is the fact that this man just doesn't turn you on enough. (at least judging by myself de)
This is your choice. And sometimes I have no desire for it, other times I have a great desire. Every single thing you do in bed should give pleasure to both. If you do it just because he wants to ... he doesn't deserve you. Without a desire on your part, no matter how good you are, you will not give him much pleasure. Men feel this. Try 69 ... It starts, the more it arouses you, the more you will want sex ..., and then it will be in front of your eyes. You may want to.
You must be wiser and now you realize what nonsense you did before, and that "love" and "sex" are not synonymous.
In my opinion, it depends on the boy, on how arousing he is and whether he predisposes you. If the love game is short or there is none on his part, it is normal for you also not to want to take any initiative. If you have been together recently and you are not used to each other yet, maybe this will pass with time and you will want to give him pleasure in this way. BUT even if you don't, don't look for the cause in yourself. Sex is a mutual experience, not only one can do the "job" :) Personally, I had not made oral love until I met my current boyfriend. With him everything is easy, calm, I do not have any complexes about myself and what I do. Apparently he does that to me.
Well, tell yourself straight that his penis repels you, or is too slimy or unhygienic. It's not scary - there are just all sorts. There are those you can't get enough of and others you hate to even watch.