Open Relationship = Humiliation

   And why do you deal with it at all?

   Why do you stay in this relationship after feeling that way? Free yourself and see what new life will offer you, believe in good relationships between people and in love and you will happen to be loved!

   You yourself do not respect yourself when you have a relationship with such a man. Don't you think you deserve more?

   what does open connection mean? just sex? How old are you? Why do you tolerate this? And where on earth did he find this one?

   You know it's your own fault. I haven't done like you and I wouldn't, so I have nothing to write.

   it is not the one who eats the pie who is mad, but the one who gives it to him. I don't see him forcing you to let him fuck you like he wants, to behave the way he wants, and not get anything in return. People treat you the way you let them, if you let them treat you like a rag, you will be a rag if you have respect for yourself, and they will respect you.

   As I read, I feel disgust at both of them, from him because he is garbage, and from you because you are obviously the same when you put up with him.

   Why do you appreciate that? Get rid of it in a second and block it from everywhere and without believing promises and lies. Why was it, why are you so humiliated. Emmy as an old school to go find someone to satisfy him. You are cheaply manipulated, and you sit and crush and humiliate yourself. He is complex and arrogant, he has realized that he can manipulate you and satisfy him sexually and he acts you. Such a jester deserves to be dead to you forever.

   I wouldn't be with a man like that, you deserve more.

   Hello, no woman deserves such behavior! It is clear that your "friend" uses you for sex, I would not let them treat me like that! And it is very important for every lady to take care of him, he obviously doesn't care what you want and whether he will make you a child is still his. You better dump him and don't look for him you love you don't love your used and he doesn't want anything more from you! I'm sure he even hangs out with other chicks if that's the case I don't know what you're waiting for.

   God, where do you find these idiots? Do you move with circulators ?! Or is this some kind of complete fabrication?

   Uh, why do you deal with oligophrenics? Being tolerant of such a person does not speak well of you and your mental abilities.

   As you are guided by hypergamy, so be it - you will suffer humiliation.

   I don't understand why you're complaining. You yourself agreed to have such a relationship. If you don't like it, why do you tolerate it? Because of one sex that not only you don't like, but on top of that you're just looking for it? Don't you have a head? And why are all men guilty now? And women had to endure? You are talking nonsense. Those who want to tolerate, I would not tolerate a jerk who is not good at bed. Even less would I bother to look for it alone. But you're really a bit congested when you put up with this complex. If you want sex so much, then get someone decent who will respect you, be a lover and look for you. Or buy a vibrator. But don't blame others for your bad decisions. I have had several such connections, everything was ok. Well-mannered people who respected me, never made me do something I didn't want to do, they didn't behave like complexes, they were careful in bed, they made sure I was fine ... So you catch the first dead drunk jerk you spotted hunting at the bar, and then you complain. Well, it's ridiculous.

   Did she fall in love with a stupid peasant "playboy" with childish thinking and even complexes. This is so common today, but otherwise you are bored and run out of connections there as you call it. You are humiliated by yourself that you tolerate such an attitude. I don't know what your movie is like, if someone talks to me so directly, everything ends instantly. I would call your condition emotional masochism.

   In fact, you are humiliating yourself. No one is forcing you to be with him. If you continue to be with him, then you tacitly agree to these terms.

   You humiliate yourself, and he just takes advantage of your low self-esteem and dependence on him. Just take matters into your own hands and put an end to it. Otherwise you risk being like that with everyone, and being a doormat. Is one sex worth everyone's trash can?

   Shoot in the buttocks and look for another fool

   I read, read and read and got nervous. Many self-respecting people came up with this topic. Oh, how could she let anyone make fun of her like that? I would never allow it !!! Ok, you wouldn't, but there are people who allow it. I don't think that makes the author mentally retarded. She fell in love with a sadistic complex. And let's execute her now! Author, I understand how you really feel. You want to prove yourself to him subconsciously and it's like winning him. It's just that this person is manipulating you through his actions and you think it's love. Men are very manipulative creatures and know how to influence us. I was so sick and I got rid of it. You can too, now you think you can't, but try. Give yourself a chance, there is no guarantee that after it you will meet a normal person, but it is worth a try.

   mind and cycle if they do not come on time - do not wait for them.

   So, so! Lots of grandmas, skinny kid! Ah, it is easy to give advice without the counselors being victims. Author, such will be the fate of most vagina owners! He was angry at emancipation, and it relieved men of their duties. Democracy, what to do, and women's "independence" from men was a fact in the 21st century. Don't be surprised by what is happening to you. This is proof of the true value of the female sex after female emancipation! As for the most ancient profession, it is still very relevant. Today, a woman cannot offer anything else to a man, since she no longer wants to give birth, raise children and take care of the home. And from there follows the question .... what is a man's wife for, except for pleasure, for free or for a fee.?

   Such relationships do not have to be humiliating, but mostly they do. If you are not on the same page with the person, if one is more emotional - end with him. Not only did you agree to such a relationship, but you did it with a man who didn't seem to deserve a hand. Sex is for two, it is largely a matter of matching preferences. You want him slowly and gently, he wants him rudely and perversely. You obviously don't love each other, you don't understand each other and only you are willing to compromise. There is no way to get it. You fight with yourself, so you feel humiliated. Under whatever circumstances you have sex, if you agree with everything that happens in bed, you will not feel humiliated, but if you do it almost by force, it will still seem very humiliating. Stop looking for that great "player", you won't rise in anyone's eyes, if you are more perverted. There is nothing wrong with being liberated, but it must come from within you, and with you especially with this man, it is not so.

   I understand the open relationship this way - you are behind, but everyone has sex with others and his partner accepts this. I may be wrong, it didn't happen to me. But as it says here, the connection seems to be open only at one end? He does what he likes, she tolerates him because he was cool, modern and I don't know what. She allows him to treat her like a rag and then asks how far tolerance should go? Well, everyone is different - for some it is zero to such arrogance, for others it borders on infinity. Not to mention that there are masochists. And do not rush to put everyone in one bowl - there are valuable men, good and careful. You may not have come across one, number 19 too, but there are others. In your place I would not continue with this one and in the future I will be more careful in my choice.

   In almost every sentence I read how you yourself do not respect, honor and love.

   The man thinks he's doing you a favor. The more you give, the more he will want from you. You don't say exactly what you expect from this relationship. Don't take offense, but a woman with self-confidence and self-esteem (the most desirable) had not tolerated such treatment. You have to set boundaries and rules for passing them, for example: - anal is higher intimacy, 6m exclusive relationship - without a condom is for an exclusive relationship - if you don't like sex, don't have sex

   Run fast until you're pregnant! What will you do next with the baby? I had an acquaintance who had sunk a "businessman" from the other side of the country. They saw each other for a while, from time to time, for dinner, a little sex, and again in two or three weeks. He took her on vacations, great love ... And when she bloated, she disappeared. Here's a nice open connection, but only on one side. I am almost certain that the "businessman" has made several more such connections in other cities. And she, the idiot, thought a baby would tie him to her.

   I once overheard a conversation between two women on the street. One shouts: - And why should I be with him, just to fuck me from behind and wash his dishes? Abe funny, but there is a reason.

   Open relationship, just for him, try to play with someone and see what happens next. Your friend is the type of man who thinks they are only allowed because they are men.