I am a boy of 22 years old, but I am from a smaller town, district, but not very big. Last summer I started dating a girl a year older than me. I had just broken up with a longtime friend because she lied to me about being stupid and cheating. I didn't trust anyone - no women, no friends, I even doubted my family. It so happened that the girl and I started a sexual relationship, friends who have sex, however. She asks me at the beginning - I want a relationship or sex and I told her only sex or open relationship at most. I didn't want a boyfriend from my hometown, it's just that the previous one was from there and thoughts were invading my head, and I told you I had problems with trust. She said she preferred a serious relationship, but still got hooked and we had sex. We also went out, joked together, met our friends. It became awkward.
I fell in love with the girl. I thought I could sleep with another, but I didn't want to, I always imagined her. She is a cute doll. One night I offered her a romantic dinner at our place, but she surprised me with her answer. He told me "at first you didn't want to, now you want to - this is not a concert of your choice, plus my feelings passed." He generally has sex with me to satisfy his needs, but he doesn't want us to be a couple, if he meets a suitable one he would go with him. Explain it to me. I felt very sick. How to wind it? I guess she meets others, she is very beautiful, I am. I just love her. I'm crazy about her. Plus she is a Cancer zodiac sign, you should be prone to a serious relationship. I am a ram. How can I enchant her, I don't want to lose her? One more thing is that when I have sex with her I fall in love even more, but I can't stop, and then I'm sorry that she's not just mine. And the girl is not bloody just to mention, she, like me, was hurt, her former boyfriend beat her and he was her first. I hope he doesn't sleep with others now. After everything I knew, I acted like an idiot. What to do? Doesn't she do it to give me back? Sex between us has always been very passionate and romantic, even with my ex was not like that, with this girl I was more careful. Help, please upload this! I need help.
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lilithmature answered · June 27, 2020
Fight for her. It's good that you're having sex, it's affectionate. Don't push her, but tell her how you want a serious relationship, how you hold the person next to you, etc. Let her know what you can offer her. Show that you like her, but without expecting anything in return.
Just treat her the way you would behave if you were together. It is important to apply, but without demanding. She must come to you. I think this is the way to really win it. But I hope you're serious. She was right when she told you she didn't like it, come to me. If you get together and change your mind again, it will be very low.
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kkevjustin04 answered · June 27, 2020
Lose the tame, chase the wild work. If you do not appreciate what you had, then you do not deserve it, Women can also have sex just for fun and without any feelings. She is already emotionally detached from you, she only uses you for sex. The moment he meets the right one, he will stop having sex with you. I don't think you have a chance.
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kitty_mia answered · June 27, 2020
Be persistent and show her that you want her. But don't tell her, show her. And don't stop until she tells you she doesn't want more or God forbid.
You have no other option.
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jeugenel87 answered · June 27, 2020
Be consistent. Surprise her with a rose without expecting it. Pamper her without expecting. If she starts with the comments "this is not a concert wish" tell her the truth. That you can't help but be honest. Tell her you're in love and you want to fight for her.
If you want it - try.
If for a long time you pull and you get bored - break off any relationship and that's it.
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bobbiboss420 answered · June 28, 2020
This is usually the case: D what can I tell you, we girls are like that. When they first cut us off seriously and then decide that they want our thrill gone, somehow she has the feeling right now that you're playing with her and her feelings and you're fickle in yours. Just show her that you really like her (you even love her) :)
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pumpkyncandy answered · June 28, 2020
Her behavior is very easy to explain - she must have been hurt very deeply by her ex. He does not dare to reinvest feelings, especially since you have insured in advance that it will only be sex. But if you continue to have sex, I think you have a great chance to start already seriously - I, as a woman, assure you that in most cases, when a woman has sex, it is because of sex itself that feelings arise. Good luck.
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babygirl1994xoxo answered · June 29, 2020
Stop having sex with her. Say that you want more than sex and that if she doesn't want anything more and say you're done. Stay as a friend next to her. Also show that you respect her as a woman. Take care of her, but without being intrusive. That is, without things like - I like you, I miss you, flowers, candies, candles and things like that. But small gestures are allowed, such as - kagota will go out just as friends for coffee, for example, to bring her a cup from the cassock to the table where you will sit or ask her if she is cold when you see her trembling or give her your jacket either to let her lean on your shoulder if she's tired or just by going through a store together to take something dumb like a candy or something else she likes, to ask her how you are when you see that she is upset or some other small gesture . In this way you will show her that you respect her, not that she is just a toy for you. If she really had feelings for you, those feelings may come back. I KNOW WHY SHE REFUSED YOU. In her place, I would also refuse you. She just doesn't trust you and doesn't think the feelings you have for her are serious. He thinks you're just going to play with her and throw her away.
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miacalvin69 answered · June 29, 2020
Emmy, if you could have her, you missed her. I don't know what's in her head right now and if you have a chance, but if what she told you was sincere, you probably don't. It will be best for you to step back and stop having sex, and to stop seeing her for a while will also work well for you.