Sex is for pleasure and it is quite possible to have sex only with someone without commitment, without feelings and such nonsense. You don't have to love him to sleep with him, you don't have to get used to him as long as you both know that this is non-committal and the only thing you are looking for is sex for problems, for sharing NO. In such a long relationship, it is quite possible to have feelings at such a time, everything ends before it's too late. This is great for single people instead of dealing with engaging relationships and additional annoyances, and the problems they create just to have fun. I had such a relationship with a man, if it can be called that at all, we only wrote to each other or called to discuss when and where, we do what we do, and everyone from where he came began to pay me a little more attention at one point and it all ended then I did not have a gram of feelings, but I did not want them to appear. After about half a year we met by chance and started looking for it again, but somehow feelings awoke in me, in fact he was the culprit, he started to make me go out, he behaved terribly nice and well, but he didn't want a relationship and that's it. I didn't want to fall in love because he is like that, he doesn't want relationships, but the hell his attitude was completely different, we started sleeping together and only in the morning we started going out to cuddle and he didn't really want anything, but I think I made the right choice. I stopped everything because I didn't want to fall in love with a man with whom nothing would come out. After a while I tried again with another, but I didn't like it, I preferred different ones for 1 night than so, because sooner or later you get used to this person. Now they will call me most easy or bloody, no, I don't consider myself one, it's better for me with more partners and less times than relationships, which will end painfully and there will be tears and dramas. Now I have a friend with whom I am, but honestly if I had a lover or we just had sex, everything would be much better now there are quarrels, there are problems and sex becomes a kind of obligation and not just a desire. This passion and this desire that I had no longer evaporated, I just know that I have to do it once and for all, it is my duty not to accept it as a pleasure anymore. Who wants sex has sex, who wants relationships deals with relationships this is my opinion at first it's good, but then gets tired of the feelings they have they stay, but sex definitely gets boring. J. 23
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I don't think a normal woman can have a long sexual relationship with a man without being attached. Paid priestesses may be able to, but not ordinary women. At least that's what my experience and that of my friends show. F, 38