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One Year Without Her

By luxyshy June 08, 2020 8 answers Last updated June 08, 2020

Hello, everyone! Maybe it's weird that I write these lines, but somehow I'm going to feel better. I'm a 25-year-old man with a good job and a home of his own. Exactly a year ago, I broke up with maybe the woman of my life. I was madly in love with her, and I would do anything if she could be here next to me and not write in this forum now. She was two years older than me, I forgot to mention that fact. So it all started very quickly and violently. We were both madly in love with each other (at least I think so ) we didn't fight (we just didn't have to do it, as we got along without a problem ), sex was on a level, we met with relatives and friends and so two years together. And the day comes when she tells me she doesn't want us to be together anymore because she wasn't happy. I tried all sorts of ways to talk to her, to contact her, but she hadn't just blocked me on all social media, and my number of course. I have no idea why to this day. It's just wanting to share it somewhere.. I'm sorry for my lost time reading this, but somehow it's good for me to share this event. And at the moment, I haven't met another girl I love. I have not loved it since then. I hope to meet the right person soon because I'm fine, I'm just not happy, I miss love...

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maliksexboy answered · June 08, 2020
I understand, and I feel for you, my friend. The grief is so ena sad that you love her alone and become ridiculous once it's shared.
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evielynnroads answered · June 08, 2020
Friend and I was in the same situation, my first love changed me, I fought over 5 years and nothing, I'm alone now 7, and it hurts the same way, try another and don't get deeper because it gets scary, I'll get to suicide after a year
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hotchester answered · June 08, 2020
If she's gone, she's the woman of your life... Everyone has a choice, and everyone lives their own lives. No one owes us anything, and everyone can walk away from anyone's life at any time. I'm sure you've ever turned your back on a girl... It'il be more time, the memory of it will fade, and then you'il meet another one.
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kaykay5286 answered · June 08, 2020
Find yourself an 18-20 year old dick. You don't need old ones, gather your mind. M27
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yulisa777 answered · June 08, 2020
As you describe it, she certainly wasn't madly in love with you. You just built an ideal image of her that doesn't exist. No one leaves a man he loves. Not to mention do it from today to tomorrow and break up any relationship. You didn't know that girl, and you just fooled yourself. Something like this happened to me years ago. We were together for a few months and in a similar way it suddenly changed. He didn't leave immediately, but within about a month we had our contacts. Then I thought, just like you, that I had lost the woman of my life and lived with that thought for over half a year. However, because we had mutual acquaintances, over time I began to learn some side things, and after a while she reappeared on the horizon, as if nothing was. So, gradually, I got to know her as a person, and it turned out that my idea of her was absolutely wrong. So don't be sorry. You got rid of it very easily, and so did I. A lot of people understand at 45-50 and over that they've been lied to for years.
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annmarie_love answered · June 08, 2020
I'm in a similar situation. It sucks, but what to do. We're moving forward to develop and get better than the person we've been. Learn from mistakes and use them for development, that's what I do. I feel bad, I'm sick, and other problems are on my mind, but what the hell, should I go die? I still respect and love myself, and if someone decides to leave, well, he's right. It's his job. I'm basically trying to think things like that and motivate myself. The only thing that saves me from going crazy. I realize that in this situation, if I'm my own enemy, it's going to get worse.
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julieta_miya answered · June 09, 2020
I've only had 15 for 15 years, and how long have I been through my bed...
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noahsuxx answered · June 09, 2020
In all likelihood, either her feelings have disappeared or she's fallen for another and she doesn't have the valiant to admit it. To block you directly and hide instead of explaining it to you is a pity, but surely the problem is that she is guilty and ashamed of her and wants to finish it all faster.. You're going to meet another girl now focus on hobbies, sports and friends until you get back on your feet completely and everything will work out.