Hello. I am 22 years old. I have had a friend for 6 years and next year we are planning a wedding, as we have been engaged for 3 years and we already feel ready for this step. We both have a good job. He is my first husband (sexually and in every way). Our difference is a year. He is very hardworking, caring, handsome and loving and besides my future husband he is also my best friend. He is a great person and I love him very much. BUT! I'm afraid I might "get tired" of him someday. I could not imagine my life without him, as banal as it sounds. He is my biggest focus in life and I can share everything with him. We have talked a lot on this topic that if he does not feel ready not to hurry with the wedding or if he has not made a living. Every time he tells me that he has found what he is looking for and he doesn't need anything else. For a long time I have been reading the site and various stories about infidelity and so on, exhausted marriages without thrills, etc. and I am starting to be paranoid. We are also planning a child. I am afraid that it may change after its appearance, because there are many such cases. I do not dare to think about another man or infidelity. But I'm afraid for him. Men, would you spend your life with a woman (of course, he had others before me, but not serious) !! Give me an opinion on the topic! Thanks :)
1 emilysutton answered
My, I don't want to despair or insult you with what I'm going to tell you, but since you know each other as teenagers and in the next 10 years you will still change as characters, it is likely that you will get tired of him, but he will also get tired of you fed up with you. My advice is best to stop being interested in other people's relationships and enjoy yours.