I have been with my friend for a year and we live together. He is 25 years old, we live in the same house with his mother and father. I don't know if it's just not normal for me, if I always want the world to revolve around me ... Before he left with me, he never separated from his parents, they lived on the same floor all their lives. Now because we are renovating our (2nd floors) and there is a bedroom room in which to sleep. Downstairs we eat with them, in a shared bathroom we bathe everything absolutely. But what is not normal for me is that when he returns from work instead of going upstairs to be with me to see me, he enters and sits downstairs with his parents, constantly sitting there ... thus it turns out that I have to I pray for your attention, go upstairs or when his mother and father come down there. In my opinion, we are young now and it is our time while we are still carefree to pay attention to spend time together, and this cannot happen as it always hangs with our parents. Yes, his parents are there, but he has time for everything, he has been with them for 25 years and they have gone that way and made a living. At first they didn't want me at all because they wanted his ex, how many friends tell him that they don't want me and her but he doesn't understand him and doesn't want to believe him because he doesn't believe they would do such a thing to him. When the floor was in order, his mother and sister would have taken it. If they had helped us, we would have chosen a stove, a washing machine and what not because we didn't understand ... we take the whole family .. Until now I had never seen or heard such a thing ...
1 lizmreow answered
Not at all, but not at all normal. Either you separate it in your apartment, or your future is ruined. There are many stories about such people of your friend - my father was like that. In our case, he ended up alone because his mother and father did not allow him to separate for the rest of his life - one divorce, a second, two children, and finally alone. If you see that he does not want to separate - do not deal with him. That will never change. I do not understand such people as he does. I sincerely feel sorry for you and I know how you feel. Unfortunately, he will hardly oppose such zombies by his relatives. Mommy's boy.