Hello, in short, for me. I forgave my husband for telling me to go home and the kids would be watching his sister because I told him I wanted some privacy and help me. I don't get along with his sisters. Today he went with our big son (aged 3) to his sister to pick something up, I thought he'd pick him up and they'd come right away, but he decided to talk a little bit. I didn't like that, so we had a fight. He never protected me in front of his family. They make me what they want. They talk to me the way they like it, and my husband's a third. I had a fight with my husband once, and I first sought his sister's help. Watch the kids and we talk and shout away. If it were 22, . :0 the kids were asleep for hours, but I really wanted to have a good time and get along. Her husband came with us, I told him don't act like a family consultant, go upstairs to my house, then we'il come. He started calling us to fight. Then I told him he was fine then go. I went up to my house and he was screaming at my door and I didn't owe him, but my husband would have kept me quiet, if I had been locked in the door, they wouldn't have stopped screaming and they'd wake the kids up. I tell my man that it's his job to tell them to respect me, that I'm his wife, but he says he doesn't know why he doesn't say it, and he's just unkind. This isn't the first time this has humiliated me. I have a few kids and I'm pregnant. I'm considering a divorce.