Hello, I am a 22-year-old man, I work, I play sports in my free time, but I don't have a boyfriend and I have a lot of experience with women. What would you advise me where to look and talk. I am from Sofia. Thanks
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women do not deserve attention, if they do not come to you do not be humiliated to go to court them.
Nachi, it's complicated, almost like inventing a Mendeleev table. You can go out with a friend, get a beer and position yourself in a garden near two girls. You talk to your friend about various interesting things for you and at some point you talk to the babes. In the evening - you take a beer with a friend and go to the park, spot two girls on a bench and ask them if it's convenient to share your company. You take a friend and go to a cafe full of people - during the day, a bar - in the evening, you set a table with two girls and ask them if there are two free chairs on their table. You go to the bookstore, spot a girl on the bookshelves, and talk about books with her, and it's good to read something. If the conversation starts, you say that you like the conversation very much and you ask the boy if you would like to have tea and a pleasant conversation for about 15 minutes in the nearby Viennese pastry shop. You take a friend and go to the gym, have fun there and find out if two other females are having fun around you, throwing you a casserole. You take a friend and go to a bar with standing people, a rock bar, for example, with a relatively regular clientele and during the evening you set a goal to get acquainted with the whole place. You go there once a week and talk to everyone, you join the clientele and you start getting to know the girls you like in particular, but you don't stick around and don't cling like jellyfish, you play it socially. You take a friend to the frisbee park or play badminton, you position yourself near a group of girls and at some point the frisbee / feather falls close to them, you ask if someone wants to replace one in the game, the other can sit next to them, another option is to ask if they want something because they will go for beer / potatoes / aloe juice. In general, you realize that women are not something scary, and they want good company, even to "reject" you is normal and there are others.
Honestly, I'm very surprised. "Work on yourself" during the time you need to communicate with both women and men. School, training, didn't you have classmates, parties, now colleagues? I can say that I'm crazy and I've always been, but even I found a wife and boyfriend before that. I've kissed some girls at parties (quite rarely, but there have been). Abe, things happened. And despite the fact that I've always been some kind of pound on top, neither beautiful nor ugly to say the least. I'm crazy, in general I'm not into conspiracies, to go and annoy them. If I were a woman, I would most hate such annoyances that shrink and start to make fun of me. It happened that I had to talk to someone casually or provoke a "casual" situation to catch up. I can advise you that too. If you happen to say a word or two, you have to relax and just talk about some standard things. For example, I've always been very anxious, but if it happens, I imagine that it's someone I've known for 25 years and I'm through .... what will I say in general and start talking. If you start thinking about how to impress her, how beautiful she is and all sorts of nonsense, you will look really funny. I advise you either to write to some girls or, if you have an incident outside, to use it to talk. You can have things in common, go out in nature, skate, politics, I know, even football. Many women already like this. If things work out that way, you'll find out for yourself. I hope I helped you, in recent years I have not had so many meetings and conversations with various women, especially a meeting as it should be, because my girlfriend and I have been together for 13 years and there is no way. But this, which I tell you before was valid. And I wrote to them in chats, what nonsense. For example, I start them with some complete nonsense, without greetings, assl and various nonsense about how beautiful she is and such nonsense.
There are many quality youtube channels for this job! I advise you to follow mindful attraction and AMS.
Listen to number 1. And if you are looking for sex, go and pay. Nothing special and you will understand that it is complex to want to have a girlfriend in front of others.
Wherever you see someone you like, you talk to her. The place doesn't matter. The important thing is to be confident and well dressed. Another option is to enroll in dance courses, beauty courses and the like, where there are women. Another option is in bars and discos.
This mindset and maintenance pattern will not happen. It will happen when you mature, when you are denied once or twice, when you stumble and get scalded. What you are asking is also like asking how to give pleasure to your partner! Don't ask us, but the lady, so find a girl and show attitude, respect, tact, be careful and gallant - a man, a gentleman. But not inflated, complex and selfish, you can do it!
@ 7 didn't they call these stickers?
Number 1 was ahead of me, well said.
Up to 9 Am ... no? Unless 22-3 year olds are aunts for you.
Strange .... I'm getting a divorce to be like you. Well, no pleasure .....
11, you need a higher diopter :)
The best dumps are at the university! If you are from Sofia, run to Sofia University .... In the subway, especially on warm days, female pheromones are carried in the air ... At work too, but if it does not happen from the first days of the new job, patience is required until the new and correct colleague came ... You play sports, so in your gym in your own waters, the gym suppresses me, but there are many other girls who die to be taken down by someone there ... And not for fun in 94 and 280, too becomes a dump.
14, that's right! The chance of the losers is with beautiful, intelligent, but still having no life experience women, so to speak - students who came from nowhere. You catch one, you get pregnant and ... you have a wife all your life!
Most tips are good and there is a lot of bread in them for your problem. Just don't listen №8. And you will succeed.
You go to a bar, you like a Bulgarian woman - you say you are a foreigner, you drink a drink and after 1-2 hours she came to you!
Up to 13 I'm sorry, but it's not. No one says there are no older women, but beauty salons, dance classes, and especially clubs and bars are full of young women. Not everything is just one or the other. But to say that they are all "aunts" is unrealistic.
"If you start thinking about how to impress her, how beautiful she is and how stupid she is, you'll look ridiculous." That's why you impress them, how smart, good and powerful they are. Unless she was a rotten virgin - then press how beautiful she was, because her father never told her;)
19, you're either fucking or you haven't seen an eye doctor yet.
19 chains of darkness!
UNTIL 19 ABE HER !!!!! I hope YOU go face to face, but he is drunk and plays with a fork ...
If the author listens to the men here, he will have to die alone. The woman wins with attitude. Falsehood is felt very quickly, no one can play a role forever. Find a common language with someone, don't be ashamed, no one will swallow you.
To number 1 I think the man should be the "hunter". Since when do we women take the initiative? Not that there's anything wrong with that, but quite a few women would do it even if they liked you, it's really better for a man to act first, you're still the stronger sex, aren't you? Or soon we will have to fall on your knees and propose marriage to you (there are already such cases) because you are very important. ;) I call such "men" travelers: D I'm not saying that you should always do everything or run after the ass of someone who doesn't deserve it, but what's wrong with taking the first step, God. To the author: First find 1.2 girlfriends girls, communicate with them so you will understand a little - more about women. How to act, etc. Go out in more companies and generally be more sociable and I'm sure that you will come across a girl.
No woman accepts a seriously unknown man to meet her in a cafe, on the street, in a bookstore or just like that, and I'll tell you why: because tomorrow or the same day the person in question will do it with someone else. And unless he has been waiting for the right woman for a long time, wanting to see her and not do it in the 5th minute, he looks desperate. Not that we women are not flattered by such a gesture, but it will remain just a gesture.
Looking at the vote on comment1, I am convinced that this site is full of evil scammers.
23, sticky, was a man, sticky. What aunts?
FROM 1. to 26. A man should not do anything for a woman. Until recently, women relied on their socially developed privileges to enjoy a special attitude, which makes them very happy precisely because they do not deserve it, so it comes as a net lottery win. Today, they rely mostly on nude photos on social media to hunt carp. Sexologists also say that the female urge is as strong as the male, so women can no longer pretend to see "looking for love" in each of their sexual partners. You can tell men travelers (which implies how much respect you have for men, most women like you do not have) but what they say about you you will hardly ever understand ...
26 - A game of hunter and prey can only be played if the prey has no right to speak. This is how it was played in the past with the so-called stealing of brides in the villages. The bride is the prey and the bachelor is the hunter, the bride has no right to an opinion and cannot say - no, she can only accept her destiny as prey. This is the essence of the game prey hunter. To expect today's men to play hunters is ridiculous, because today's conditions are not like that, today's women prefer to play games of "what it looks like", "hot-cold", "who should take the first step" and so on. n. For them the essence and the realization of the relations themselves remain in the background, they do not facilitate them, they make them difficult to the point of impossibility with their claims and pretense. That's why happy relationships become less.
31 - Very well said: "Expecting today's men to play hunters is ridiculous, because today's conditions are not like that, today's women prefer to play games of" what it looks like "," hot-cold "," who should take the first step "etc. For them the essence and realization of the relations themselves remain in the background, they do not facilitate them, they make them difficult to the point of impossibility with their claims and pretense." Which to me is very similar to the manifestation of frigidity on the part of the female sex - for them it seems far from important to be with someone, simply because they feel close to him and feel feelings. It's different in their head! But that's why money is already being spent by almost everyone (not to mention everyone). If you have to have a love affair with someone because you like them and there is an attraction, it will certainly have dramas, murmurs, pretensions, women will not fail to show how much their "mind" and a lot of wasted time and at most to follow a dubiously happy relationship ... While, however, the money plays - the track is vacated and everything starts to go on honey and butter. Good morning Bulgarian women! Tell your tariff:
A thousand and one excuses why you don't like women. Wait and wait, wait for some cool tits to come, knock on your door and throw yourself on your neck while you spend your life playing dumb video games. Evolution sifts people like you.
To number 26! The advice you give is a pure lottery! It's as if I'm telling you to rub one or two tickets, go through one or another booth and I'm sure your luck will smile ... Okay, but not at all !!! The modern woman, en masse, has not built the necessary femininity and does not know how to behave with the opposite sex! This makes her in many cases inadequate to the situation with a man next to her and instead of expressing herself as a woman with dignity, not to tell you what she looks like ... With your comment you confirm how you, modern women, do NOT deeply understand social processes and the time in which you reside. You have outdated understandings of the male manifestation of instinct and attraction to women; I'm not saying that they are wrong - but they are outdated in terms of time !!!! If at one time it was normal for men to steal women, to buy them, sell, now is the time for women to offer, sell and steal men. Nowadays, many women will cut a man who is interested in them, but on the other hand it is super easy for women to just choose someone to be with and offer themselves to him, and the probability of success in this case is many times greater to have sex for the benefit of the woman - ie. when the woman is the active party. This option eliminates almost any quarrels and tensions between the man and the woman as the man would incline to any proposal from his, usually, wide range of "potential women who become"! To number 33! If your comment is provoked by your lack of large enough and well-shaped breasts, I can say as a man, expressing the male view of things, that this is not a major problem! The very lack of proper communication with the opposite sex, which feels satisfactory on both sides, is a much more glaring indicator of modern relationships. After that, the difficult transition in a relationship or the super easy one, without any delays, is a subsequent degree of degradation of the "love" relationship man-woman! The blurring of the boundaries with the age of the partner, the excessive commitment in which the man is put by the woman and her excessive security requirements even before the beginning of the relationship, the lack of adequate role of the woman in this relationship, except with the purpose of sex and offering a company (in the sense of the growing distance of ourselves as subjects; the elimination of that inherent subjectivity and the offering of an object, to be quoted - woman, sex, vision, luxury, therefore higher status in society for men; on the other hand: man, money, power, luxury, raising the status of women in society)! These are much more pressing problems for modern man - man or woman does not matter, because we tend to lightly ignore and even depersonalize ourselves as individuals, as a subject who moves his destiny, and to accept a common stereotype. , in the implementation of which to invest all the resources we have - be it material, energy, spiritual. It all comes down to the realization of this modern (which does not turn it into a natural, in the sense of the human soul) paradigm, which has become a stigma before the implementation of current sexual contacts and long-term commitment! Where is your primary problem with breast size or male genitals now? They are fading somewhere far back in the issue of things !!! From this point of view, I can tell the young author to build himself as a man, with dignity and honor, for which to fight and defend. And women, if they are living in their time, appreciating their femininity, will come to you on their own! The modern woman has a different image and model of behavior from that of the woman in the 19th and 20th centuries. WOMEN, START ACTION !!! The modern woman has a different image and model of behavior from that of the woman in the 19th and 20th centuries. WOMEN, START ACTION !!! The modern woman has a different image and model of behavior from that of the woman in the 19th and 20th centuries. WOMEN, START ACTION !!!
Number 1!!! Your comment should be posted in public places, in restaurants as gifts with coffees, on billboards, etc., to be a slogan for men how to treat the modern Bulgarian !!! I fully support you