For several years I have lived in Sofia in relatively close proximity to the center. Until one time I had no problems with any of the neighbors. I did not get acquainted with anyone because the majority of those living there are elderly people or young families with children. Since I do not fall into any of these categories, we have no common themes, but with some people pozdravâvahme at the entrance, if we go through and so. At some point, that changed. In a short period of time I started to notice that some guy was standing at the entrance when I got back from work and kept eyeing me. What's more, I feel like he's looking at me kind of mean, and when he's gone, there's a bunch of spit behind me. I once decided to go with him up close to see who he was. Then it started: that guy shouted "What you look at me" and started calling me with ugly insults. Frankly, I was quite shocked because I didn't expect this verbal attack, and I've never done anything to expect a similar attitude towards me. I went into my entrance. I was relieved, but I was offended by what happened, and I thought I couldn't do anything. After a few days, I saw him with an old woman and I went to them, the guy walked away. I told the woman I was offended, and if that happens again, I'm going to complain to the police. Then the guy came in and apologized to me, but he never said what he wanted, what the problem was, and why he decided it that way. One other time, on Friday night, I had bought a bottle of wine because it was a difficult week and I decided to relax, and I had no power to leave. A retiree was at the entrance, came to me, and began to question me whether I live there, who to, etc. Culturally I replied that I did not owe him explanations. It seems he didn't expect such an insensitivity, he was visibly annoyed and accused me of being in some people from a top floor to drink and to raise scandals. That's when I don't know any people from the entrance, let alone I'm going to drink in them. Locked that must have held an authorized position, policeman or military, to have the nerve directly to interrogate and accuse. In the neighboring entrance, the same one where he lives, and he who insulted me lives a young family. The man is a very nasty type, with tripe, shaved head and puny hands, lame with one leg. One night I was walking by the block and he was waiting for me. A ridiculous conversation began, in which he started asking me questions: What are you doing here, why are you standing at the entrance? I looked at the house windows to steal! I have a job, and I don't steal anything, but how dumb and insolent it is to go and say something like that in the face of a stranger. All these situations make me think that there is some attention to me, whose reason I can't fathom, no matter how hard I try. It is clear that all these people are extremely cheeky and insolent, but there must still be a specific reason for these attacks on me. And these people, with their aggressive behavior, probably have the confidence that they are Sofians and Stannis. I have the impression that there is no real problem here, but just some of the complex and negativity that all these guys try to get on someone, and because I seem a calm and intelligent person, I become a comfortable victim.
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666eric_cumshow answered · May 25, 2020
Yes, he often talked to me at the entrance. But he's never broken a good tone. If they greet me, respond. If they ask a simple question, I answer. No one asked me about PIN, only if I live in the block and how long I've been here. Because I live in a lodge, I know I won't stay here forever, but I don't want to spend the next 4-5 years of my life in a feud with grandmothers in front of the block. I understand you want to keep your privacy, but by not answering them that you've moved in recently, they're starting to pull the conclusion that you don't have a job around the block, and that makes you a problem for them. You're talking about a bunch of old people living in this place for years, and they don't have that kind of activity at this point. It's a lot more sensible to tell them that you're a normal person, just recently, not a drunkard or a pervert or a thief. Don't be uncooperative, you're not doing a favor. Definitely they don't care who you are, but a smile and a good tone to the strange neighbours will greatly facilitate your stay in this place. People just don't know you, they can't tell you're living there and they're paranoid. They may not be in their minds, and they might not look friendly to you, but try to behave human and do not create unnecessary headaches. A 3-minute conversation on common themes at the entrance won't kill you.
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serinaswon answered · May 25, 2020
So what if you're standing there? You're on the street, if you're going to stand on the platform, you're in a public place, you can get on a train that hasn't left yet, and when it's time to go, get down, if you don't have a ticket, or plan to travel, the conductor won't ask you for a ticket, before the train starts – whether you're looking, filming or recording something – it's your business! No one has the right to be chased from a public place! Next time, you tell him he has no right to be chased from a public place! It's a living discrimination
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margot1998 answered · May 25, 2020
They seem to be doing it out of fear. Problems make you old people or handicapped, as I understand it. Maybe you're in strict terms and not very welcoming. Reading the second time the story I'm pretty sure they're doing it out of fear. Try the following tactics-smile, swap some other line, be a little more open to the surrounding. Especially to senior seniors. Grandmothers. Defend yourself in a sniping and a sympathetic approach. Hang with brief information to calm down that you are not a serial killer and a thief, secretly partying with the troubled neighbors, which you obviously have. It's just that people are cowardly, frightened, beheaded, and slightly moved by all the stress that happens to them and the garbage they eat. Maybe it's just a joke of fate and aims to teach you some sociability and extra attention to the people you unintentionally live.
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sofi_sweetcam21 answered · May 25, 2020
Most likely a bored gossip girl has put on a gossip or a rumor about you, and now suddenly you're suspicious of everyone without a gram of guilt. I don't know what to advise you, but next time try to kindly explain that yes, you live there and yes, you can go home whenever you want. Don't give them any details, it's just that the idea is not to look suspicious or unkind. When they see you're not some kind of criminal or who knows what gossip is about, you're going to happy. But be polite and try to distract all doubts that you're hiding something. I'm not saying you can make friends with them, but at least see that you're a normal person. Unfortunately even in the big cities it has this rustic mentality. Every newcomer is skinned, tracked and, of course, advertised for anything. When the time passes, you will happy. As the few years pass and become accustomed to your presence you will no longer be interesting to them and will leave you alone.
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penelope_amazing answered · May 25, 2020
And I am, only in Varna! I don't understand the attempts at convergence, cos I want to see them as well as the rest of the block! Don't let the Demek notice me! I'm uncomfortable after work to get into the block, at the entrance, all the observers. When I pass a bag of groceries, they ask me what I spend. And I'm alone, and I'm actually taking the most ordinary things, I'm not pampering myself, but I take some other bottle, and I'd rather drink it myself. Because I live in a room without an apartment, at one time I developed a habit of knocking on the door, for some stupid questions, I told them to stop, cos I'm going to the police! For the complexes you are also right, in killed people struggle to make you a fool, because, not that something but you do not have an interest in them unconsciously in every aspect. But know one thing, people are proud, and they accept our behavior in a rather misconstrued way!
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lisa_and_bety answered · May 26, 2020
But he doesn't have to explain that he wasn't a thief, but dumb as hell, that he would say so! And just the old guys are more excited about who you are, so they can sleep peacefully. And avoid to open them, ' cause they're the bosses there. This is my 2nd comment (from Varna), on the assumption that I was gone all day, came out that I was stealing their jars, unique idiots, that was not my mind!
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babygirlfriend answered · May 26, 2020
Apparently they're paranoid, they used to keep them in asylum, and we didn't hear about them, but their meds don't drink those schizophrenic, the decision is not to pay attention to them, and the trains don't miss some who ask like they are journalists-not all, but some are those who think they can ask anything-what the journalists are asking! Or move to a house! At least there will be a dog meeting you-usually in every house there is a dog in the yard! This option is best! You leave this beast and you're ready!
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sweet_amilly answered · May 26, 2020
From the author:
Most likely, it's probably someone who put libel on me. I'm even pretty sure it's that retiree who said I drank with some. Looks like he got angry that he wasn't respektirah by his personality and decided to take revenge by setting me up at the entrance. He came to talk to me two or three times again in his tone. It was in cases when I went out to the store, and with suspicious accuracy, you were waiting for me when back. It makes me think that from the neighbor of my dwelling hear when I pass and call him. There are some retired people, and they, poor, are around the clock, and this gives them the opportunity to keep track of who I'm going home to, when I go out, etc. I'm uncomfortable with that, but it looks like these old men are so loopy of their uniform existence that they're easy and interesting and they keep watching me thoroughly. But these are the peculiarities of life in a large block, you will still find someone to start a bad tone for no reason. Unfortunately, there is nothing to do because the real no problem. There is only one dislike, and there is no cure for this medicine.
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hotelhorny answered · May 27, 2020
Hi. I've seen the shared by you recently. I have exactly the same problem, but the difference is that I know exactly who spread what gossip about me and from there and the attitude of people to me. I trust you completely that this is possible and that it is happening in our world. With you, I guess adults are bored and invent different versions to fill their time. The internet says that in such situations, as much personal information as possible should be submitted to fill the gaps in their imagination. It's the only thing I've managed to figure out about such situations and sadly from Internet articles. I wish you good luck in dealing with the situation.
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carlhung_69 answered · May 27, 2020
You seem suspicious and obviously unsociable, and you're increasing their anxiety over you. These are old people who are living as guardians of the bloc. They lived in it, probably more than 50. And know each other from their youth. And you now alone, young... Neither old like them nor family with children like those from the second category you enter and hang out there... Who are you, what are you, why do they want to know you?!
So, be polite, trade some grandmothers story on time, do them a favor, smile, don't be a jerk... Release them from their anguish, satisfy them the curiosity to calm down, that you are neither a thief, nor a drunkard, nor any other embarrasser of order. To teach you that you are a "good boy" according to their criteria and to calm down.
They have no other job, and they watch who comes in and out all day..., they experience it as a face control of the block.
I live in a large block and here made the front door to be opened only with a chip, with access only to residents (or one of the blocks should open you if you know), as well as the elevator also with a counter chip and finally the month you pay according to how much you enjoyed it... But that's another topic.