Need A Man's Opinion

   The problem is that a bent boy passes with his head in the ground I say it from experience. In order for the lamp in front of my eyes to light up, there must be some situation that will impress me just like a sheep at sunrise. I don't think that if you talk to someone (I can talk about myself) you will get a cold shower, a friendly conversation, hardly anyone would refuse to even transfer anything.

   And why is this woman a failure? You have to understand this and change yourself for the better, for yourself, not for someone's attention. With this thinking, even if you have a man, you will not be okay, even you will torture him, because of your complexes and personal problems. I don't think your problem is shyness. Either you are ugly, or your behavior is not adequate, but under adequate, understand - to be yourself, to declare with dignity - who you are, and for this purpose you need to like yourself, it is good to have qualities, not just high self-esteem . He works on himself first, our relationships with people are a reflection of ourselves, no matter how much we don't like, sometimes, to admit it.

   Be yourself! My best advice is to approach it with the presumption that there is nothing that can happen from a possible failure. You tried and it didn't work. But if there is a dialogue, even a light flirtation - it will always be a pleasant surprise for yourself. That is the key is to try! Just if you get a conversation beyond the first few sentences, look for a common topic, ask for interests or make a comment from your own point of view about something that has become popular lately. The response will tell you how to proceed.

   Relax, talk, remove this craving, these complexes, this low self-esteem. I'm not saying you're bloated - no, but if you're walking like a ghost, how can you be noticed? Dress well, take care of your appearance, do not be too curvy and in no case do not show this fear, this insecurity and feeling of inferiority. Be proud of who you are, pay attention to what you look like, and don't tie the conversation to your good man, I'm an insecure person - no! In companies like yours, when there is a stranger, get acquainted out of politeness, when there is an occasion, to talk to a man, and even if there is not, create one for yourself, but not on the topic of attitude and nonsense. Act, do not feel sorry for yourself and do not walk like a shadow, with your head bowed, how can someone notice you like that?

   First of all, raise your self-confidence - appearance, sports, weight loss, increase intelligence and language culture. You probably understand that these things are a constant process, it will not happen with a magic wand or a magic pill. You need perseverance.

   The cold shower comes from some idiots. Otherwise, if you like someone, just talk to him, even if he is a stranger. I am a man and I would be flattered if a woman liked me out of nothing, at least a compliment. I wish you to meet someone with whom you are very happy.

   Hi, to change the situation will help to change your appearance - makeup and makeup, clothes that attract sexual interest ... aham I mean make you beautiful :-), sports, diet and for a start to use some alcohol to relax you before a meeting. If you learn to relax with alcohol, then it is easy to relax without alcohol. If you start to attract interest, don't get dizzy and remember where you came from so that "God forbid he sees blindly", get together with a boy and drive each other without deviations.

   To n 1 He made me laugh with the sheep at sunrise :-) You should not miss any girl with her head in the ground - men with a good sense of humor ... although with a slight touch of self-criticism ... are especially sought after and desired! At least I like them a lot and I would be happy to talk to you! And if you talk to me with a playful story and a smile, I would definitely agree to laugh together! Thank you for the positive tone! And about the humor ... I adore the English one, self-critical, even black ... and laugh out loud, shamelessly, at the British, crazy sheep from "Shaun The Sheep" - a special greeting for you! I wish you luck and to be very, outrageously happy with a girl who will laugh to tears and there will be no boredom between you ... (that was all that was left!) ... no counting of sheep until midnight! :-) the author

   To n 2 and n 5 There is a lot of truth in your words - there is no way a man will like me if I myself constantly whip myself and shrink! I have started to seriously deal with my own cultivation and I hope it will help! Thank you for your understanding and words of encouragement! To n 3 and n 4 Sounds really tempting ... you don't bother to make contact with a man, you don't think about possible failure, you just throw away your complexes and yourself ... Why the hell am I radiant and funny with friends, and is there a man nearby ... my confidence is evaporating? !! There should be nothing scary about smiling and chatting ... Let go of the fear of rejection .. But ... I promise to try ... and try until it works! And if it happens, I will write here again! Because it will be thanks to you! :-) Until n 6 That's right ... well said ... the cold shower comes from some idiots: -) I will not pay attention to them, unnecessary waste of nerves, right? !! And I would be flattered by a man to like me out of nowhere, but so far I don't seem to have received such an obvious compliment! But I will not give up, I promise! Thank you for the wish ... to come back to you a hundredfold! the author

   Make fun of him (whoever he is), ask him to help you and then praise him, have fun with life and do not be ashamed to show it to those around you .. And remember - no one can make you great and special in your own eyes, except yourself! M 38

   By 10 We, the crowd, hope that someone will joke with us, because if we had the confidence to do it with others, we would not need to share here ... I still believe that it is still a purely male job to give signal and take the first step towards a woman! Otherwise life goes on! If something happens to me, no matter who speaks to whom, I will definitely write here again! Good luck to all shy people like me, let's give ourselves courage! the author

   If you can't handle it on your own, then you need someone with experience to guide you through the problem. I know from experience that one of the most successful relationships is when someone has praised you in advance to the person you like. What's more, if a friend of his has shared that he wants to be your boyfriend, the chance for him to want it becomes quite serious. What I mean:

   Author, be sure that you have already been noticed by someone, but he is probably curled up like you and worried about a possible cold shower - show that your shower also has a hot water tap, in any case you better make the choice, not let yourself be chosen. Men also like to be noticed, and there are thousands of ways to show someone that you have been noticed, and sometimes a smile does more work than countless words. And one more thing, lowering your head you don't see other people's eyes, they don't see yours, and the eyes speak the most - learn to read with your eyes and success will not be late!