Naked At Home

   What can I tell you ... First - do not look for guilt in yourself and do not impute various nonsense. Just because he looked at some nude photos doesn't mean anything. You use this as an explanation for his behavior towards you, for the fact that he may not notice you enough. Much has been written and said on this subject, there is no point in repeating what many others have said. I advise you to ask him directly what bothers him to walk more naked, that he doesn't like you or has something else, and why not tell him about the photos. We cannot guess what is going on in the minds of others and ask them to know what we need. That is why it is necessary to speak - directly without detours. If the problem is in your appearance, even if it is perfect, what does such a man do with you, to go looking for luck. And you kill the complexes of the mind, if he truly loves you,

   I get tired of a lot of nudity and I've even read that it leads to apathy and lack of desire for sex in many men. Just naked or naked women everywhere. Nothing mysterious, nothing interesting. He may not want to get used to your nudity for that. It is a sign of intimacy, of making love, and if it becomes everyday - it gets tired.

   Because it is a guild ...

   A sense of ownership - we may stare at someone else's, but towards our own - it is stricter, there is not much distraction and a little order may not be useful, but there is no harm, to know who the boss is. Winnie the Pooh

   from the author - I talk to him but denies .... it is justified that a neighbor could see me ... even when the blinds are open ....

   Militia / post 1 / Maybe so, he is afraid that someone might see you. There are men who have a very strong sense of belonging and addiction, even ownership. But that doesn't make their wives feel nearly neglected or offended. On the contrary, they reach obsession and obsession with love, they are ready to fulfill any whim. There is something else here, but only you know it or you haven't understood it yet. If it has always been so, why do you notice it only now, if it is recent, the reason is not your home, nor in you, believe me. However, whatever we talk about, you need advice, you have analyzed the situation many times, I know. Once his answer seems frivolous to say the least, just stop paying attention to him. If he doesn't threaten you with something, let him talk. Your home is your territory / and his / her / and each of you should feel comfortable in it. You want to be naked and you're just naked, that's it. Tell him you chose this way to seduce him, and his remarks only keep you away from him. Ask him if he will like it if you start avoiding him and live your life hidden behind a veil. What he's showing is hidden jealousy I guess, so reassure him that you're home and there's no one to be afraid of. Good luck and I hope everything goes well. that you are at home and there is no one to be afraid of. Good luck and I hope everything goes well. that you are at home and there is no one to be afraid of. Good luck and I hope everything goes well.

   And my husband, if he could, would burn all my clothes, but I'm not comfortable unrolling half-naked. Besides, I'm convinced that if I go like that, he won't be impressed any time soon.

   you are not tired of him, and you are a complexist, I tell you - sorry and with your bad mood you spoil his fun. Besides, it's not bad to ask him what kind of underwear he likes and so have fun. I've been with mine for almost ten years and I recently found some nightgowns that I spend the evening with ... Buy him various magazines like Playboy and ask him what he likes, don't worry that the man has seen naked women - human well, for God's sake - men are guided by the visual, not the other way around - he likes naked women. I don't know a normal man who doesn't look at babes with pleasure, but it is clear to them that they are not real - they like it. Don't you like a model, but that doesn't mean you don't like your husband or that you would do something with the model - Brad Pitt is Brad Pitt - he's cool, but I wouldn't do anything with him ... So your husband also thinks, let the man look after himself, it has nothing to do with you. More communication and learn to like yourself - you will not get younger and you will not be as beautiful as now, if you do not like yourself, how do you want your husband to like you?

   From the author: Number 8, I'm not a complex, I have something to be proud of, really. I don't think it's a good idea to buy him such magazines or do such tricks at home, our relationship is, how to say, very strong, because no one masturbates, no one watches porn, we just both look only at our own bodies, complete fidelity. I hope it doesn't sound strange to anyone, but I really feel good about it. :) Number 6, thanks for the help, it really helped me a lot. Last night I went like that again and he teased me, pressed me, etc. I think it was just a period, he said that he hardly slept from work, because he gets up at 5 every morning. Thanks! Thanks! :)

   Author - but you want advice, then "cracks" - what do you really want. In my personal opinion, you have a rather strange and unhealthy attitude towards sexuality as a couple, but if both are happy and satisfied - everything is great, but they should always be TWO. I advise you not to dig through his computer anymore, especially the internet protocol, but he knows you, he wipes it safely, he doesn't dig for anything in the world office computer if he has a smartphone, don't hire a detective to monitor him where he goes after work either before work or at lunch - you may not like it and it may not fit into your pattern of sexuality, which makes you happy in your relationship. PP I call your sexuality "strange" because, at least according to modern science, men are driven by visual stimuli in their sexuality, have at least 19 half-erections a day, thinking or seeing women, to be healthy they just need this (blood supply). In my opinion (let the gentlemen say) there is no normal heterosexual man who does not want to watch naked women or porn - the whole industry is made for them and it is for me at least to put it mildly "strange" to forbid a man to be like that in his sexuality ... I don't know a man, a man who forbids him to masturbate - but I know a lot who would say that cows are purple, so that their partner is happy, what they do ... that's their job ( this is how it should be). However, if this is normal for your relationship, as well as the idea that it is complete only because you do not masturbate - success, different people, different ideals - only if one only has them, the other usually secretly catches up so that the partner his to be happy ...

   10, I only agree about masturbation, but they may not have to. Otherwise, how did everyone who wrote it decide for sure that men were visual and women what we are? As visual as men are, so are women. The nonsense "a woman loves with her ears" comes from the fact that she no longer emphasizes the appearance of the woman, because she has become a sexual object, no matter how much you want it to be so, and to justify men with nonsense of the kind that they were more visual. There is no proof of this, everything is based on cultural differences. Modern science had said so. Again, proof, apart from the fact that men usually watch porn? Have you thought that there could be other reasons? Once upon a time there was no porn, what? Even now, out of dissatisfaction, they constantly have problems.

   Number 10, the only thing that matters is my opinion. I think I have a relationship that many people dream of. Really :) Regarding masturbation, I didn't invent it, he did. In which there is nothing wrong. It's just that when we have sex, we do it together. We don't separate, we go out together, we hear each other often. I have nothing to follow him for, and those photos popped up by accident. I trust him completely. I am not interested in modern science, nor in haute couture, because they are both creations of bored sick brains, and then their followers write and spread from left to right. Again about masturbation - we trust each other and no one fucks the other. I'm sorry that it happens to most couples and people are disillusioned :)

   I don't want to disappoint you, but things change a lot over time. So believe in yourself and enjoy the moment!

   Militsa / psychologist / Hello to all the girls who were excited about the topic. I want to tell you that all kinds of people come in here, this is an open tribune and everyone has the right to express an opinion. The author of the letter asked for it. But there is something called respect for the problems of others, for their personality, and everyone must take that into account. I know that some of you are more temperamental, more direct and direct, but let this not border on insult and cynicism. For some such a problem will be funny, for another terrible, for others tragic, as you say different people. When we can't help someone, let's just pass them by, not use offensive qualifications and make final assessments. It is very difficult, almost impossible to help without face-to-face conversation, eye contact is invaluable, and people those who write here really feel bad, believe me. Not all of them have the time and financial ability to pay for help. The Internet is currently saving the day. Do any of you know what situation you will find yourself in tomorrow? Will the one who is currently a step back and we laugh at him not turn out to be getting stronger? Think about it.