My story is quite long. I will try to tell it briefly. I have been having problems with my wife for some time, there is no understanding, but constant quarrels and eating and apostrophes on her part for what not. in short, we do not understand each other. not a day goes by that we don't quarrel over even the smallest. we are generally a young family of almost 4 years with one child and it can be said that we live more or less normally from a financial point of view. My wife applied for a job at an institution and was approved and hired, after which her weekly business trips and daily trips began. this something hindered our relationship and the quarrels became even greater. I began to imagine what I was doing and this hindered my work, which is my main income. I became incapable of work, etc. I asked her to talk to me and solve the problem. I asked her to leave this job and I promised to find another like it. there was a great debate. I also said that it hurts our relationship. she accepted and took unpaid leave on my advice if we thought about it and decided that we could get over it. the date of the decision approached and it became scary. she said that this job was her dream and her future. I was scolded a lot and in the end she agreed if I would pay the insurances through my company. I agreed. but alas, the day before the day she left, she decided to tell me that she was returning to this job. to travel and sleep in other cities (seminars and trainings). I explained to her that I was suffering and I couldn't do that because I was going crazy. then she told me that she had made a decision and went to this very job. and that she was not interested in anything. it was her badness for her. I told her if she tried not to come back. he picked up the child and immediately packed his bags. I called her on the phone and she explicitly told me that it was a matter of a few months of travel and at most a week and even a few more to sleep in other cities. I asked her to cook, but she refused and stated emphatically that she was leaving. I talked to my mother on the phone and she shouted at me that since I took her daughter in broad daylight she has not seen (the two share a lot, now the mother has to) I said if she doesn't come back and refuse, this is the end. then he told me that he preferred his job to me. I went straight and asked her to think, but she refused. he left and called me all the time and told me that she was with me again and I was the one who pretended to be interesting and if I accepted her she would love me more. I don't know what to do because I love her. but I think her action is wrong now the child is with her mother, and I can't see him after those words he told me. I asked my wife to leave and return to our city, but she refused. at the end of the week I will go home and I don't know what to do. please give opinions
1 toby411 answered
You are a great JEALOUS. The woman has found a job that she likes, and he makes her leave. Why !!! Are you afraid that there will be no one else? Think about whether your grumbling is constantly the cause of your quarrels. What do you want to stay locked up at home and not go anywhere.