Hello, I am a man of 34, my wife is 26. We have been married for 3 years, and I have known her since before 6 and I know what she did before me, in short, she is not a woman for 1 man. I don't have a problem with that, and she and I allow ourselves something foreign from time to time, once we did a group one. We are already thinking about children. Recently, however, she told me how she was not very comfortable when we do anal and even told me about a specific man, with whom she did it from behind some time ago and she really wanted to be with him again before she got pregnant. This specificity has already started to bother me a little, she claims that she has nothing to do with it, it's just the best and it was on her ass with him. I wonder what to do with her, whether a threesome to control things, it is clear that if I forbid her she will go again and fuck with him ... complicated work! Tell me!
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I don't know, man, I don't understand these liberated understandings. Although I am your age, I have old understandings. I haven't even cheated, imagine. I am even convinced that my wife did not sleep with anyone other than me in her 30s. And yet we are not bored and we have quite passionate sex, even every time I have the feeling that I do it with a different one, even though we have been together for 10 years. If you have a feeling of lisp in bed, you will look for other partners. But I am convinced that this is an inner feeling and does not depend on external factors. So until you understand yourself and sleep in 1000 women, you will still miss something. You will even miss him even more, because if from the beginning you attributed it to the lack of women, then you will fall into a frenzy and panic about how, after so many partners, you may still miss something in sex. So is your wife - she wants to compensate for her inner lack with external things, but it can't happen. And all his life he will want to be satisfied, but no.