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My Trust In People And Women In Particular?

By loveoral21 June 23, 2020 18 answers Last updated June 23, 2020

I'm going to start by being a man in my thirties. The problem is that I can't trust anyone, and especially a woman, I almost never trusted them, having done it once, and I'm going to get into the details! Even though he wasn't cheating on me after some cohabitation, he ended up stabbing me with the argument that she needed a real man! A real man in her head and that of her mother was an educated man who would work and watch a family and she was a housewife! Except I'm not that at all! I never finished my higher school because it was stupid to me and it still is! I'm smart, and I know three languages a lot, but I only deal with... I'll say it trade! Things in the gray sector inside and outside Bulgaria. I'm old-school in general and I have an awful lot of relationships and contacts with all kinds of personalities on all floors, but I'm living a super middle school. I got a car for $5,000. in my clothes are nothing special, to decent but not expensive and branded. I have a lot of money invested in properties, land and property in different places, on bank accounts in and out of Bulgaria, I do not flaunt anything absolutely because I do not want any attention to fall on me. I've secured my life for at least 50 years. I don't have to work anything, but it sucks that I don't want to stand alone. I've had a lot of relationships, but there's a point where everyone's asking me what you're doing? Or why you don't workweeks in a row lying down... and then you're gone for weeks? ! Where do you always get money for everything and not work??? What do you do? If it's not them, then their parents ask me questions. Of course, I can't, and I don't think I'm going to tell them anything, and I'm always bluffing them as much as I can! But sooner or later they put me in columns like a lazy, slacker, a man with no incentive, a man who can't look after a family, or a cashless guy without an education, and what's really far from the reality of me. How can I trust a woman or anyone I want next to me? I would never reveal what I do, what I own, etc. but I guess I'm going to be alone. Considering my parents are normal people living on a salary, and even they have no idea how I would trust a woman. Like I said once, I tried and got hurt.

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abubeach answered · June 23, 2020
They can't trust you. Your secrecy scares them, and I totally understand them. What a serious relationship you expect, since you're going to live in hiding and you're not going to give up completely. I wouldn't trust a man like that. Okay, it's a hell of a thing illegal, and you don't want to involve them, don't reveal yourself to them completely, but at least implied. It's normal to be asked questions like "What do you do?" and not to be a manicure and coffee sponsor, but because you're supposed to be thinking about family as a man in your 30s - and provide something. Think about it.
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annawynn answered · June 23, 2020
And if anything happens to you, the money and the properties, no one will know it, at least tell your parents.
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cumhornyyyzak answered · June 23, 2020
Everyone chooses a path in life, and every choice brings compromises. Your choice has led you on a path where a normal woman wouldn't accept such a partner, especially when it comes to long-term relationships... Accept reality, women like bad guys, they don't want to be their wives...
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crazy_couples21 answered · June 23, 2020
If you want a woman for a serious relationship, you have to trust. Every man has been hurt, disappointed, wrong and suffering, but if you want a real family and a woman without trust, it doesn't work. Get over that, albeit at the risk of getting frustrated again, but there's no other way. I wouldn't hesitate to try and trust...
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kawaiiyuno answered · June 23, 2020
If you want a woman for a serious relationship, you have to trust. Every man has been hurt, disappointed, wrong and suffering, but if you want a real family and a woman without trust, it doesn't work. Get over that, albeit at the risk of getting frustrated again, but there's no other way. I wouldn't hesitate to try and trust...
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mizmel answered · June 23, 2020
Yes, the thing about education and being a "real man" has nothing to do with it. It's about quality, not what you've graduated from. But not sharing what you do is very dubious. Most women would think you're doing something criminal if you're hiding it. I wouldn't go with a man like that either. I'm such a person that I doubt everyone, what's left for a man who doesn't say what works. And don't get me wrong, you may be wonderful as an attitude, but for me, it's not ok. It's not normal that your loved ones don't know what you do. Black Sabbath
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gaybitch96 answered · June 24, 2020
Oh, my God, another imaginary "millionaire," the poor boyfriend couldn't turn around. If you were rich and you couldn't work for 50 years and you're with a lot of money - you wouldn't be on websites and forums asking what to do. Poor thing, I really feel sorry for you. You'd better get yourself a really decent job that you can do or you're going to take a nap like a horse on an empty house in your imaginary world.
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anika_web answered · June 24, 2020
So... At 35, you think education is nonsense, you make your money in a criminal way, you've had a serious relationship, you can't trust you, but you expect to trust you while you're secret and hiding key things for yourself? No one would get stuck with someone like you. Or rather, no reader. First of all, an educated woman wouldn't fall for it if you found it stupid what she'd spent years on. No reader would go with a criminal who could go to jail at any moment, disappear suddenly, or lose everything illegally acquired. On top of that, don't spend your "earned", that is, it is not of interest to a candidate. Of course, no reader would go with someone who does questionable things and hides it from her. On top of that, with all your free time, you lie down and you don't do anything? Which normal would find this attractive? Her reasoning in the subject is super immature - she had expectations, but you weren't like that, why did you leave? Well... What did you expect? Seriously, author. Things are very logical. You've done this on your own. Either look for someone who's going to tie you up, or get tight and become human.
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nuke1989 answered · June 24, 2020
You're very slow ... Register a company in Dubai, write that it performs consulting services, sounds 3-4 stupid terms that one in a thousand knows them, not and you're ready. When you're asked, say that's your job and that you don't always need your clients, otherwise you've signed confidentiality clauses, if you have to say they're with the local and foreign offices, and they're not touching you, bat. Come on, so much of me! I hope you can help this!
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candice_cake answered · June 25, 2020
So, looking at yourself, you're smug enough and self-sufficient. Like any jerk. The really smart guy shows that he doesn't brag about his mind, because he's clear how much smarter he has and how many things he doesn't know. The fool thinks it's great, though. Live like you've ever been, keep your money, buy sex with them, but trust, family, love, devotion you won't buy. Besides, why do you have real estate and bank accounts? As you've been written above, a normal woman won't fall for you.
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conzolini049 answered · June 25, 2020
Reading your answers, in fact, from your point of view, things go in a completely different way, but also true. I've thought about it many times, but there's just no way, at least for now, that things are too tied up to give up because it's not all up to me, but to trust someone who can't keep quiet, for example, can be a problem, I'm in a very delicate situation if I have to trust the wrong person again. Sometimes I really regret that I've taken this different path. The only thing I can share is that in my 20s when my classmates were studying and becoming students older than me a friend took me for a walk outside Bulgaria and I saw him spinning little money givers as he was definitely not the smartest and always lied to her with money, even the people who lied to him were not smart in my eyes then I decided to try and cruelly go wrong. It's been a long time since I've been dealing with this, but then there was a whole other world of people on the horizon, and accordingly, they were just learning that I existed, after all, I was only 20 years old, if I hadn't seen all this now I would have been a man elsewhere, probably a person with higher education and normal work, I guess. Certainly not with such financial possibilities, but with a different life path. It was then for me to study higher and I could not see any perspective by watching my classmates of 5th in a room in Sofia on jars and sausages and I already had my own Opel Cadet car, then it was a mobile phone, solid pocket money and I set aside a little bit for my own home. Even I do not see the point in higher education now, if of course it is not higher from another country and university, after all, in Bulgaria we all know how much ours are appreciated here, not to mention outside the country (my opinion after all). I've shared some little things here that I share with every woman I've been with for a long time to figure something out, but that's not enough, but that's so I can say about "what do you do" and that's what I emphasize if we're in greater proximity. Even sometimes when he shares these things, there is even more digging, asking, curiosity, etc. Some of the comments are quite interesting. I'd say i've done it myself, but now that's the case. I may have a high school degree, but I've had my ass shortened to learn languages. I have taken private lessons to learn English, Italian and Russian and learned them freely in writing and speaking. They're too far away from an intellectual point of view, and I'm far from a thug. Besides, what's wrong with the site or me? Why can't I share things here, well, I was just interested, and apart from what I do, I'm no different than other people and I don't think I'm like. My site is interesting and I occasionally read some life stories to other users and I decided to share my own and hear opinions. Author
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sissy_twiink answered · June 25, 2020
I feel like those people with the money write the same guy. Em sori, bro, but I'm not one of those people who gets caught up in these themes. You're not like Mark Zuckerberg, by the 1930s he's already a billionaire, and even he's working, and you're parading that you've secured life for 50 years. If for 50, he did it in 500 years. I don't blame you for fiction with money, land and so on. It's funny that you're hoping to meet a woman who won't hurt you. Well, there's a little bit, but if you tell them what you're writing here, you're going to rot yourself. Personally, I do not know 3 languages, nor you, and I am convinced of this, but I know that I know English extremely well, I have graduated the language plus computers, I was in Sofia and even there I did not get a job on what I had completed. Then I did not study at all and my diploma is not the most excellent, but it is not the diploma that makes the person intelligent, but his way of thinking and the actions he does. And you, buddy, you don't have them, that's why you're writing fiction here. M23
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nikkiclaire1 answered · June 26, 2020
Moral men, outside this site is another, not as you write it. Breathe peacefully, women walk, walk and walk with men without a degree. And, if he has money and deals with irregularities, I do not believe he will be without a woman. There's a decent educated one, where are the women next to them? The woman cares about being a player, a fixer, an authoritative and a boss. Don't develop inadequate theories, life is another in reality. And to squat, facts are facts. And I doubt the story, because if it's real, it must have become a crooked eye by candidates for having it. There is no education in Bulgaria. It's another thing in life.
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luciferr_ answered · June 27, 2020
If you want Your Family, you're going to have to talk. Don't worry, the money won't run away from you. You're going to have to choose Sam to stay with that money or trust a woman. Choose Money or Family. When you die, your money won't come to your funeral.
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kane_au answered · June 27, 2020
12 you think you're in a bad place that the author has money without a degree, and you can't find a job in the specialty. Well, unfortunately, that's the reality in our country. Those with a diploma are quite often out of work and income and others without education fill their bills through dubious "businesses" and schemes. The fact is that in Bulgaria such individuals as the author have many, what exactly does no one deal with will clearly not understand. I am inclined to believe it because our country is first in crime in Europe with members of this contingent. With women, it's definitely going to be very hard if we talk about reading rooms, if you can't trust you how? In a relationship, everything is built on trust.
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miguel_lxpt answered · June 27, 2020
Only when I see such a spelling and i feel sick. What kind of education have you not completed, dear? You can't... you barely pushed 12th grade for sure. I do not know and I can not write! So much for how smart you are. If you know three languages the same as this... Bad. I'd never deal with someone like you. I can't stand a man sleeping with me and lying there all day. If there's going to be millions. It's frivolous and ugly. I wouldn't introduce a man like that to my family. There is no education, it is not clear what works, over 30 years with a tarsic for 5 thousand leva? What about your career, the developed, the environment, the hobby, your friends, your family? Is that why you've been lying around all week? You've secured your life. As much as he didn't graduate because he didn't want to. Tip - find a normal job, fix your spelling, find a hobby and new contacts. Otherwise, you'il die alone. Candy
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xkitty_katx answered · June 27, 2020
That's the one. Spend your money, where brother you're going to get between slaps with ties, marriedies, kids. Look, it's all interests and illusion. He's going to start raising your blood pressure with his stupid demands and whims. Spend, you're going to pay anyway, and at least it's for something worth watching. She's going to give birth, she's going to gain 40 pounds, but then she's going to say you don't love her. She's going to lose weight and find someone else, because if you see, you've ignored her. Don't bother at all. On this website, a woman to hear a good word about a man you won't see, let alone ask for advice from them.
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flowergal_ answered · June 28, 2020
I know poor people, but they're willing to shelter the woman by her side, give her their last shot, act like men. I know people like you, they're always "snuck," they don't have money, the women always want to pass it, they're always gone. I don't know any bulgarian super ankles. Because the Bulgarian man is trying not to pass in every way. For him to pass means to pay for the woman's coffee in the place. A woman is expected to work, to have children, if the man leaves her, she takes care of these children. And you Bulgarian men want to pass very cheaply. I don't know, i guess your mothers teach you that. Summer Borisova is full of similar men on a bench with women, most young. For 2 cans of cigarettes money, for powers, but to woo the girl, a rose to take her, to a restaurant to take her - you will pass. And these young and beautiful girls get used to it, that in life they don't have anything to do with it, that they don't have any money. Well, live alone with your mothers. A family is made with dedication. There are so many poor people, however, and a flower will take for the woman, and they will house her at home. That's how you make a family.