Hi friends! I'm 21 years old and I've been in a relationship with a man for two years! We're very much in the way of him because he's 45 and I'm 21, we live two streets and we're very much in hiding because he's married! I told him a hundred times to get a divorce, and he says that getting divorced again would be the same, that I can't go to him, and that's because my parents are adults and cancer patients..! I know it's wrong to go with a married man, but from friends, we came to boyfriends and our relationship became very strong, at least that's how I feel it - I love him very much and he loves me once a week, we talk for hours on the phone and when we always cry and cuddle! There have been times when we've been fighting over small things -jealousy and here's the problem -he always tells me it's a hindrance, that he loves me very much, and he deprives me of a lot of things! When I call him out sometime and start pulling, he starts to accuse me of having someone else, that he loves me very much and can't share me with anyone, and I'd better break up, and my heart breaks..! I love him very much and he loves me very much but sometimes he behaves like he's just for sex with me, and he says it's not just about sex with me, that I'm for everyone and he loves me and what's wrong with asking him for me and not on the other, sex in our relationship came about 7months ago. We've been getting to know each other for two years, we've just gotten to know each other, when I want to rest and lean on his shoulder without having sex, and the last two, three, 4days we haven't seen each other, he's starting to blame me for having someone else, and he's my first virgin when we met.' I love and can't do it without him and he loves me, he says he needed a woman by his side and found her, and regarding his wife she has lovers and from 6 am to 7 pm she goes to work and gets her different cars..! I ask you for advice since a few nights I can not sleep anymore do not get along, because the other day I wanted to meet and come to pick me up in the car from the neighborhood, that I was not in the neighborhood, deliberately to pick me up in the car from another place, not to look at us, I was waiting for him, I took a shower, I got ready, I took the flash drive to watch and I waited for I waited, but he was delayed before we talked on the phone and he was happy to see you, I waited and when he came to the neighborhood was angry said that and the two neighborhoods are 15m away. he was stopped by the police, and he quickly left the apartment to pick me up without papers and put a belt on. They put an act on him and brought me back to our neighborhood, neither kiss nor anything, he said he did not want to pass on his negative energy to me, that I have no-fault and a man, that sometimes there are dark days and wants to be a little alone and that he is not set for sex! I felt really bad as a prostitute, I cried, then we talked on the phone, and he told me when you don't understand me to find someone else and that love is made 2, not one to find reasons to justify myself with him and to meet him and tell him that I have another. , please for help, I love him very much what to do??
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cristaal answered · June 04, 2020
Well, I'm 21, and I can tell you that you're pretty stupid to fall for the brains of a man your father's age, that even if you let him you. It's a very disgusting story... You're saying you've been looking for a young fish that's just reached adulthood (at least legally) and you've fallen for it. He loved you very much... No, he doesn't love you. He wants to young, he likes the thrill, the emotion, even if it plays you, and the fact that you were a virgin is the icing on the cake. I don't know how you fall in love with these guys, it's hard for me to look at someone who's over 30, what's left for over 40... Yes, I have your weird fetishes.
You're basically wasting your time. With this man, you can't create a family, you won't get love, he even told you that getting divorced again won't be with you, so who do you put up with?
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connor_stewart answered · June 04, 2020
Girl when I read you, I felt sorry for you. You're 21, and he's 45, do you realize he can be your father? And then you wonder why your relationship isn't going well, that's the problem, the years. You couldn't get someone else who'd be close to the years. And married. What do you expect from this relationship? You're just together for one of the sexes. He can't offer you anything else. But little by little, you're going to start to understand it, and you're going to get out of there on your own. He's 45 years old, why would he get divorced? And for a dunk, come on, think about it. Get out of there, girl, you don't belong there. And one more thing, you're very naïve.
Helga
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fitnessoflove answered · June 04, 2020
I'm always amazed and wonder what 20-year-olds must be, dragging on after old people, and as I walk through the great writings, it becomes clear. They can't write and express themselves as an adult, and their reasoning as a first-grader gushing with logic is one time. To what can they do except for shrivelled chiches.
g23
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hayles_strong answered · June 04, 2020
This relationship has no future. You're his wife's revenge. Get someone younger, or at least untie.
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hungtiger8 answered · June 04, 2020
I'm 21 and my dad's 46. This man could be your father. When you're 60, he might not be alive anymore. Well, I'm a woman, but I can't understand women like you. And tell me if he divorces, what are you going to do with him? Are you going to make kids? They might start calling him Grandpa. And if you can't go to him, for your parents, what's the difference after his divorce. Everything will be the same, and it's very likely that you will leave
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anjutka08 answered · June 04, 2020
So... first, it's super stupid to judge by age. Love is love, people. Yes, in this case, the story is super ridiculous, but you don't pay attention to it, and you only fall for age. What's the matter with you? Is your life somehow disrupted? Let everyone live it as they see fit, as they feel good. In this case, it is obvious that the girl in question has no feelings for the girl, but even at 30, the story would have sounded the same. Just because you can't look at anyone over 30 doesn't mean everyone's GOT it.
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sexysubmissive2 answered · June 05, 2020
What you're arguing about the girl, don't listen to them, look at how things feel, love never asks, boldly forward.