Hello, writes a 15-year-old girl. Today my parents found out that I smoke. Basically, my friends and I get together every day after school to smoke a cigarette, but this time my father decided to take me by car as a surprise, but everything went wrong. He saw me smoking and just shouted from the car- "Come here now." At that moment, I shivered and threw away my cigarette, I had no choice, and I went to him. He just told me to get in the car and give him my phone. I gave it to him, and by the time we got home I hadn't stopped explaining myself to him, but he was pretending I wasn't in the car. But when we got home it became scary. He told me to sit on the couch and called my mother, and while he was explaining to her what had happened, I trembled and prayed that she would protect me. Then she didn't say a word to me, she just went to the bedroom. My father took off his belt and I shivered and went to his room, but Dad told me to go back and turn my back on him, I didn't listen to him of course, but he caught me and started beating me brutally and locked me up. in my room and said that everything has consequences. He didn't let me go out to the toilet for a week, he only brought me food and told me how many pages I had to learn. And today he just returned my phone, but he called me in 5 minutes to see what I was doing, and my mother forbade me to go out until the second term. I don't know what to do, I know I'm wrong but they go too far. I feel like they hate me, I don't know how I can have a normal relationship with them anymore. We don't talk at all, my father keeps scolding me and telling me that I won't leave home until I'm 18 years old. I wonder how to escape, as they are constantly watching me do what I do.
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They are right. This is the worst habit I have. I started smoking 2-3 years ago ... maybe a little older than you. But the difference here is that they didn't catch me, and I told them. There was no drama. My father is a heavy smoker, and my mother also lights up from time to time. I'm smoking on the balcony with him at the moment :) Try talking to them ... That you've stopped already ... Don't expect to get away quickly. I've seen worse cases than yours.