They will not accept you as an adult if you do not behave as such. I moved out, started working and paying bills, and instantly my parents' attitude changed. They looked at me under the hood for almost 20 years, then it seemed wrong to hang on to them, to ask for permission, to ask for pocket money, not to pay bills, not to take my life in my hands. They had requirements for me like what time to go home, I understood them, I still lived under their roof. At one point I stopped asking them if I could do something, I tried to ask them for their opinion, I always listened to their words, but I made my own decisions because I had fought for some financial and emotional independence. In the evening I sat with them and we talked about all sorts of topics, I thought they needed to understand that I have an opinion about things. Then they started asking me how I thought about a situation. I had put a barrier, I realize that I am to blame, but for a long time I did not accept them as friends, but as bosses. There is no way to get by with such views. I was always embarrassed to tell them something, they were always thinking the opposite, we were arguing and we came to a dead end. The same cycle hundreds of times. Change your attitude towards them, let them see that you have grown up. You will always be accepted as a child if you shake at least and do not argue well. we fought and came to a dead end. The same cycle hundreds of times. Change your attitude towards them, let them see that you have grown up. You will always be accepted as a child if you shake at least and do not argue well. we fought and came to a dead end. The same cycle hundreds of times. Change your attitude towards them, let them see that you have grown up. You will always be accepted as a child if you shake hands at least and do not argue well.
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They will not accept you as an adult if you do not behave as such. I moved out, started working and paying bills, and instantly my parents' attitude changed. They looked at me under the hood for almost 20 years, then it seemed wrong to hang on to them, to ask for permission, to ask for pocket money, not to pay bills, not to take my life in my hands. They had requirements for me like what time to go home, I understood them, I still lived under their roof. At one point I stopped asking them if I could do something, I tried to ask them for their opinion, I always listened to their words, but I made my own decisions because I had fought for some financial and emotional independence. In the evening I sat with them and we talked about all sorts of topics, I thought they needed to understand that I have an opinion about things. Then they started asking me how I thought about a situation. I had put a barrier, I realize that I am to blame, but for a long time I did not accept them as friends, but as bosses. There is no way to get by with such views. I was always embarrassed to tell them something, they were always thinking the opposite, we were arguing and we came to a dead end. The same cycle hundreds of times. Change your attitude towards them, let them see that you have grown up. You will always be accepted as a child if you shake at least and do not argue well. we fought and came to a dead end. The same cycle hundreds of times. Change your attitude towards them, let them see that you have grown up. You will always be accepted as a child if you shake at least and do not argue well. we fought and came to a dead end. The same cycle hundreds of times. Change your attitude towards them, let them see that you have grown up. You will always be accepted as a child if you shake hands at least and do not argue well.