Hello, I am writing about the following "leaf" story. I have a girlfriend with whom we love and live together, apart from our parents. We are independent, we support ourselves and we are happy together in our own way. However, my parents, at their first meeting, became angry with her - it's not for you, she uses you, she wants to keep you away from the family, in general, the care I take for her (quite normal things for me - good attitude, respect etc.) come to them a little more. The thesis is almost obvious - be selfish, trample on the feelings of the person next to you and if he really loves you, he must be patient, so that he can tolerate us! If this is how it treats us, one day it will treat you the same way, you will suffer, and so on. When I look for contact with my parents, I always start with a positive accent, but alas, the conversation ends the same way every time - conflict, pointless arguing, and I end up feeling drained. And so day by day the conflict begins to ripen, my wife ignores them completely, and the situation is "choose between her or the family," which in itself is murdered for me. In order for them to be calm, I have to part with my girlfriend, but at least for now in this scenario, I would definitely not be happy! Please advice if anyone has been in a similar situation to share and in general what would be the right approach in this situation I have to break up with my girlfriend, but at least for now in this scenario, I definitely would not be happy! Please advice if anyone has been in a similar situation to share and in general what would be the right approach in this situation? I have to break up with my girlfriend, but at least for now in this scenario, I definitely would not be happy! Please advice if anyone has been in a similar situation to share and in general what would be the right approach in this situation?
1 onlyalicia answered
They are just jealous. If you are a man on the spot, you will stand next to your wife. If they love your parents, they will accept her (if she is not an alcoholic, etc.)