Hello. I am a 17-year-old girl from a big city, but my problem is that my parents are never happy with me. From a young age until now I have always been an excellent student at school, teachers see that I really study and try, I do my best. I don't drink, I don't smoke, I almost don't go out, I don't have a boyfriend, I'm a virgin, I don't lie, I've never exposed my parents, they've never called the police. Overall, I'm super decent for my age. I dress well, I'm not congested, I have friends at school, I like talking to people. However, my parents constantly find fault with me. I'm never good enough for them. I was enrolled to study both Dutch and Korean, for the period of 3 years I took C1 in both languages plus English. Now that I have projects at school, giving a presentation or doing something else, my mother always wants to introduce her to her first, then to school. She always tells me that something is not good, she does not like it, I am not capable, in general dissatisfaction. My father doesn't even want to watch. After all, at school, everyone really likes how I present myself and they even told me that I can lead seminars because I like it. I can't understand why my mother is always to blame for the world and why I'm still incompetent in her eyes, I can't do anything, I don't know anything, as she works for 600 leva, has no university degree, doesn't know any language other than Bulgarian, doesn't dress modern, she has no friends and in general there is no basis on which to stand to say that she is, for example, smart, successful and that is why she is like that. If you think I have ambitions to be successful, you are wrong. She only criticizes me and doesn't want to study at all while I'm holding on. She thinks that it is okay to be a shopkeeper for 700 leva, and I am far from that opinion. Why is she always unhappy with me? Why not once say that I perform well? Sometimes it pushes me to start drinking and smoking and fighting and calling her to the police all the time to blush with shame and give it back to her, but then I tell myself that it's going to hurt my future, not hers.
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You have one year left to finish! Then you go to study higher! You can be in Sofia, Plovdiv, Shumen, Varna, Veliko Tarnovo! If you want to study, you will have to work, if you want to get rid of yours forever! If they don't support you, they don't deserve you to continue living with them! If you want to develop, fine! You just have to take the first step! But you have to combine work with learning! There is work for students, there is also work for professionals! Since your mother didn't study at the time, no one is to blame! To stay in this job until retirement, what's wrong with you! Let at least you learn, be proud of you! Nobody likes to work for 700 leva, but wants to develop! Tell it to your mother!