I'm 20 years old, and I'm a nymphomaniac. It all started a year and two months ago, when I found a new boyfriend, with whom I first saw what regular sex is (I had done it no more than 50 times before, and it was not regular sex, but I did it for the first time at 15 ), and quite regular, every day except Sunday, very rarely and without Monday, ie 6 times a week. There were some things in the summer, because of which we had sex very rarely, 1-2 times in 2 weeks (this from July to October-November), and now that things are fine, I want sex every day, and he wants 1 time of 3 days. Supposedly we decided to compromise every other day to do it, but still not moments I pull and want every 2 days, and I can not stand without sex. I'm always the initiator of sex (in the beginning of our relationship it wasn't like that, but lately it's me). He tells me I'm a sick brain, how could I want sex so often, etc. And in general, sex starts problems in the relationship, and I love him, it's not like I don't care about him. Please advice and help what to do.
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You're not a nymphomaniac, you just haven't come across the right man, which is a pity in those years. My husband is 50 years old, and we have sex every day, sometimes we repeat (morning and evening). Look for a man who is as sexy as you. Once every 3 days may be acceptable for some, but you are clearly not among them. Nymphomania is wanting sex all the time. Once a day is human and normal
God, give such women to everyone. Hector
for starters admit that you are a man and that this is the problem with your girlfriend who does not want so much sex :)
Author: Number 1 Thank you for your opinion and advice, but I can't change my husband since I love my boyfriend. I'm number 4 woman, and you seem to be a troll;)
to 4 why should he be a man? I had a marriage of 25 years in which my ex did not like sex, ie sex was not important to him. There are men who do not have sex. I support №1, find someone who is like you otherwise you will suffer and hope for a change that has nowhere to come from ... Good luck
To number 4: Come on, stop this nonsense, I'm a man, I'm a woman, it seems that the author is female. What are you wondering so much, nowadays WOMEN are the ones who crave sex more. To the author: Author, you must have realized that even the most beautiful woman standing next to a man gets tired of him sooner or later. When partners are together for a long time, the passion is invariably lost. It is easier for today's men to have sex every day and 1-2 times a week sex than to work tirelessly every day. This is normal, it happens to everyone, don't worry. Rather, do not bother him that your sex is diluted, because it will repel him even more. Stop pushing and demanding of him and his desire will only appear. In the evening, go to bed more undressed, make him massage you with different aromatic oils of your choice, marry yourself in front of him on purpose, there are many ways to arouse the interest of such a creature called "man" :) Another option is to pretend to be inaccessible when he wants, so his desire will increase. A very successful tactic is to masturbate in front of him. He does it as if he is not there, as if you do not see him, let's see if this will not affect his libido. In my opinion, nowadays excessive stress and easy access to internet porn make men not "want sex". The situation is similar for me, as with you, and the tactics described above bring me success so far. The most important thing is NOT to tell him that your sex is rare - think about it, everything is transient. You used to do it several times a day, but did you love it as much as you do now? Did he care about you so much, like now? I wish you luck and don't worry! Catherine
You are not a nymphomaniac. You're just young, it's normal for young people to want sex every day, their hormones are raging. Problems in a relationship begin to show first in sex. You have to find a friend with your sexuality, otherwise you have no future with the current one. Love is in time, in a few years you will continue to want, and your friend will want less and less, you will start cheating, and infidelity is probably the most direct way to separation. Hormone levels are unlikely to return to normal after your first birth, but very small, usually after birth things get even worse with sex, and separation after childbirth becomes even more complicated. You don't have a long-term future, spend another 2 years to calm down the 'love', experience the thrill, and then look for another. Good luck.
You are not a nymphomaniac, author. Do you know what it's like to have sex at least 3-4 times a day, every day? Then talk to me about nymphomania :)
And I agree with number 1. You really haven't come across the right man. I'm not saying it's bad or anything, you're just having a different sexuality. Unfortunately, I am like you, only where the situation with me is even more desperate. Mine if he thinks more than once, twice a month that there is a woman next to him will be a miracle. He was always tired, he always worked a lot, he was busy in the gym ... My advice is that you don't have enough sex, look for it elsewhere :)
Find a friend for sex ... and make love to your boyfriend again ...
Ave people, didn't you understand that there is no such thing as nymphomania. This is a kind of physical determination of your emotional state. When a person lacks something in the emotional aspect, he begins to earn it in the form of sex, because only then he feels wanted enough. I myself 3 years ago believed that I was a nymphomaniac until I realized what it is really to love someone and to be truly loved. I did a lot of sex myself, but I realized that I missed loving someone. Sex is true in itself is a great pleasure, but when it is really quality sex and sex with real feelings nymphomania disappears and everything returns to normal with regular sex once, twice a day, but it is not as before your desire 5-6 times per day. Everyone who thinks
I appeal to everyone who doesn't really know what nymphomania is. This does not mean frequent sex or desire for such. It means that with every frequency or type of sex, a woman does not get pleasure in any way, not only does she not reach orgasm. What the author writes has nothing to do with nymphomania, not at this stage and age. It has not yet developed as an organism and has no experienced partner to claim such a thing. Nymphomania can be diagnosed and proven only by a doctor - sexologist-psychotherapist. So, don't worry, you're not a nymphomaniac, no matter how much you want to: D
№ 8, since I am a woman of 43, with 17 years of marriage, I want to congratulate you on a well-written post, but with one correction. Don't make young girls think that childbirth "spoils" sex. For me / us / the opposite happened. It's all a matter of psyche and whether a woman will look good during pregnancy and after or not. Will she attract her husband or not. But, for one thing you are right - even if there are some moments of rest between the two, it is very important how the partners will fall sexually, because this remains in a relationship, despite age and age. If they are at the same energy level and not only the desire but also the ability of both to have sex is very close or just the same, then all other problems are left behind and the couple survives. Aren't they set on a wave sexually in the beginning, even if there is marriage and supposed love, sooner or later one of the two leaves the relationship. Many people say that problems in sex come from psychological problems and that is the root. But I argue that the problems in sex can come on a pure energy level and content of certain elements in the body of each of us. Sometimes people separate as feelings, but the so-called chemistry stays between the two for years and it is specific and different for each couple. I can only wish each of you to meet the right partner in life not only for love but also for sex. And please don't claim to love at the age of 20. One loves one's parents, children and friends. The rest is deaf romance and a waste of time. Even more so at the age of 20! You haven't even tried all the food tips, and you're talking about sex, you're even diagnosing yourself! Calmer.
Number 15, you write a lot of nice and true things, but you're not quite right. I met my husband at the age of 19 and I knew from day one that I loved him. Today I am 33 years old and sex is even better! My mother gained 20 kg at birth. and she never took them off. I am sure that even today my parents have good and regular sex. There is just a woman who is satisfied and happy. I completely agree with the rest!
Just for the Protocol ... NYMPHOMANIA is a condition in which a person feels a constant need for sex BUT with different partners. Nymphomaniacs rarely repeat being with the same person. Or even engaged / family, they do not cease to be attracted to others. Read a little at least. To the author - NO, YOU ARE NOT a nymphomaniac. You're just the sexier of the two of you. One woman.
Agree with 18. M 36. That's right, author. You're just young. And we have been in those years