Hello, I want to share with you a problem that bothers me from within. My mother is 48 years old and her third husband is 29 years old and he behaves terribly stupidly with me and my future husband, and he behaves well with my younger sister. Every time I go to them to see my mother, she always behaves as if I were an alien, gets up and starts to go from left to right with her phone playing, but it is clear that she does not want to communicate with me in any way, the bad thing is that my husband behaved like that the first day I decided to take him to meet him, he did it again and my husband felt uncomfortable and whispered in my ear "We don't seem to be wanted here", believe me I became even more uncomfortable, and so several times. My mother and I had an argument, I have endured this injustice for many years I have tried to talk to her about it and how I feel she kept shouting that I was an artist pretending to distort (and by the way she is a person who likes to exaggerate) and on the other hand she I am annoyed with my mother-in-law that she even helps us, she once told my sister that I liked her so much that I went to see her and that she was not interested in her. At one time she constantly complained about me to the people and to the guy in question from me and she was praised and praised by her sisters. Once we had a violent fight and she came out of the house and she was almost gone for 2 days. and if I try to control her I was shocked because of everything from above and it was fun to say that it was like child's play while she was telling me these things she was smiling contentedly. For the man in question, he introduced him to all his relatives and friends who liked him very much, and he and my husband had called us gypsies under their noses, but I heard him and my mother heard him but said nothing to him. I wanted to share with you because I don't know what to do with these two. I want a basic respect, I don't want to feel like an intruder when I go to them and I don't want to mumble various things under my nose at my address or at the address of my husband who, by the way, doesn't want to walk in them or see or hear them. Thank you for reading my story briefly :)